Factors Affecting Attraction: Filter Theory Flashcards
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Filter Theory: Kerckhoff & Davis (1962)
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We choose romantic partners by using a series of filters which narrow down our field of availables
- not everyone who is available is desirable
- Compares attitudes and personality of student couples in short term (<18 months) and long term
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Filter 1: Social demography
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- constraints in social circumstances
- anyone too different is discounted as a potential partner
- leads to homogamy whereby someone is more likely to form a relationship with someone who is socially or culturally similar
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Filter 2: Similarity in attitudes
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- most important in short-term relationships
- basic agreement over basic values and have deeper connections: more intimate self-disclosure
- Byrne: law of attraction where similarities cause attraction
- if similarity doesn’t exist, the relationship is likely to fizzle out
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Filter 3: Complementarity
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- Most important for long term relationships
- partner fulfils what we lack
Opposites attract
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:) Festinger et al (1950)
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- friendships that formed in a block of apartments for married students
- students 10x as likely to form a friendship with people from their own building
- most popular students lived closest to staircases and postboxes
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:( Levinger (1974)
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- many studies failed to replicate the original findings
- this may have been due to social changes over time
-> online dating, secularisation, wider range of educational opportunities
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:( Perceived similarity more important
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- perception of similarity may be more important than actual similarity
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Tidwell et al (2013): speed dating event, measuring actual vs perceived similarity using a questionnaire
-> it was perceived similarity over actual similarity that predicted romantic liking