Exam Two Flashcards
Self-presentation
the process through which we try to control impressions people form of us; also known as impression management. Focuses solely on the self and very narrow in scope; impression management is broader category looking at other social partners’ factors
o Examples of when we’re concerned with self-presentation
Applying for a job Meeting roommates’ parents Social media First date Meeting
o Examples of when we’re NOT concerned with self-presentation
At home with family
When with those close to us
While alone
o Can come across as manipulative while social psychologists think it’s a matter of selective attention?
We normally focus impression management on playing up our positives and playing down our negatives
• Why do we self-present?
o To obtain desirable outcomes and resources
o To “construct” a self-image
Based upon how others view us
o To facilitate smooth social interactions
• Dramaturgical perspective
view that self-presentation is seen as theater play with roles, props, audience, actors
• When do we self-present?
o When others control a desired outcome
o When the goal is important
o When observers hold undesired images of us
o When we think others are pay attention to us
Spotlight effect
people think others pay more attention to them than they actually do
• Example – Barry Manilow study
Barry Manilow study
o This study tested the spotlight effect by dividing college students into “observers” and “targets” groups
o In the observer group, people were asked to sit on one side of the table next to each other filling out a survey while the targets were told to enter the room wearing an “uncool” Barry Manilow t-shirt
o The targets were then asked to leave the room soon after being it in and then asked how many of the other in the previous room would remember their Barry Manilow t-shirt
• public self-consciousness
individual personality variable that reflects their public persona
o can be induced by environment
o objectification theory
through American society, women adopt the role of observers perspective of physical selves self-objectification
some situations might amplify this to increase anxiety
example – men and women clothing
• Self-monitoring
reflects our concern of our public persona and changing that perception in different situations
o high self-monitoring = “social chameleons”
o Social anxiety
fear of self-presentation failure
Occurs when people have desire to convey persona and feel like they’re failing to do so
Correlated with self-presentation but distinctive from it
• Goals of self-presentation
o Appearing likeable: ingratiation Ingratiation – trying to get others to like us Expressing liking for others • People like others who like them Liking is remarkably powerful Highlight similarities but do NOT create them • we like people similar to us o Appearing competent o Conveying high status and power
Ingratiation
we want others to like us • Strategies o Expressing liking for others o Highlight similarities o Make ourselves physically attractive More likely to be elected to office, more likely to serve less time in jail, more liked in general