Exam #4 Flashcards
Components of the self (3)
self concept
self esteem
social identity
Self-concept (defintion)
the way a person sees, understands, and defines themselves (basis for self-understanding; answers questions of who am I)
Functions of the self-concept (4)
- organizes add interprets personal experiences (info processing)
- regulates our thoughts and feelings.
- controls our social world by managing impressions (if you like a whataburger and texan they will feel + about you.
- assess competence, verifies self-conceptions and enhances self.
Development: Infant
self-awarness of ones own body
-child learns somethings are always there (body) and somethings not (mothers breast)
Development: Infant
-Self-awareness two types
subjective: self Is separate from others.
Objective: ability to see yourself as an object of others attention
Development: 2-3 years (3)
- identify sex and age
- self includes reference to family (Sarah’s brother)
- “look at me” behaviors “I can do it)
Development: 3-4 (3)
self concept based on developing skills and talents
-talking non-stop
learning to tie shoe, colors, ABC’s
Development: 5-6
- social comparison (evaluation of one’s self or ones performance in terms of a comparison with a reference group “am I faster, smarter”
- dvp of private self concept (elements kids keep to them self- having secretes; don’t have to tell people everything; bye thoughts are my own)
Development: Teen years (2)
perspective taking: being able to take perspectives of others (putting yourself in someone else shoes)
objective self awareness:
symbolic self-awareness
ability to form abstract representations of the self through language connected with knowing death is inevitable.
Schema
cognitive representation of something (schema of what a chair is, pen)
possible selves
guide behavior, how we can see selves
schemas for self in the future.
self-schema
cognitive representation of the self
Actual selves
currently thinking of who am I
HIGGINS: Ideal self
who I would like to become
promotion focus (something I want to achieve)
HIGGINS: Ought self
expectations people put on us (they would like for you to have more patience
Prevention focus: want to stop guilt; avoiding people
HIGGINS: self-discrepancy
ideal/actual: leads to dissapointment
ought/actual: leads to guilt (can’t spend more time)
Evaluation of one’s self-esteem (Definition)
General evaluation of yourself concept along a good/bad or like/dislike dimension.
how can self-esteem vary?
- day to day, hour to hour but always around some average level of self-esteem.
Average level can___
fluctuate in predictable ways
People can evaluate themselves differently in__
different areas of life or different aspects of self
global vs context-specific self-esteem
I generally feel good about myself but in specific things, i don’t (athletics, only if I care)
How is S.E. ranked
low (actually is moderate since no one ranks themselves that low)
high
it is not on a continuum.
Failure feedback procedure
participants are given a task or test and later are told “you did not do well as other people” (failure feedback) and then are given another task
Failure feedback results
lower self-esteem people performed poorly on the second task
higher self-esteem people worked harder on next task
s.e. also affects____
motivation
What are high and low S.E. concerned with
High: with projecting successful, prosperous, and thriving self-image
low: with avoiding failure (motivated to try not to fail)
self-complexity
how many of the roles i have do i value (student, lover, employee)
self-complexity results
the more roles I value the higher self-complexity i have
-if i fail in one area then it does not have much of an affect on my self-esteem (i failed a test well at least I’m a good athlete)
gender diff: self-complexity
M; find their worth in career
W: value rs
-M: take a harder hit when they fail a career
Protecting Vs. Enhancing the self.
high self esteem enhance behavior
low self-esteem protect their behavior
Protecting Vs. Enhancing the self: Defensive mechanisim (benefit, disadvatange)
people go into situations expexting to far (tests, interviews)
Benfit: if I fail I don’t feel any worse
if I don’t fail then I feel great because I didn’t study but still passed
Protecting Vs. Enhancing the self: Self handicapping
(active)
I’m doing things to make it likely to fail
-external attribution( well I didn’t even try)
Self-esteem variability
individual difference characteristic that refers to the magnitude of short-term fluctuations in s.e.
usually have smaller shift in s.e. but others are more dramatic
if it was a good shift: they feel on top of the world
if it was a bad shift: they feel miserable.
self-esteem variability is thought to be…
result from particular vulnerability of a persons self-work to events of everyday life
Generational shifts
Twenge: self-esteem increased over the years.
self-estem myths: what does it promote
high s.e. promotes success in school, career success
self-estem myths: Association btw
high association btw self-esteem and (+) charac
self-estem myths: makes a person
high self esteem; likable
self-estem myths: low self-esteem
puts a person at risk for frug and alcohol abuse
only low s.e. are aggressive
self-estem myths: implications
lack of understanding that s.e. is an outcome not a cause
self-estem myths: baumiester
self control produces (+) outcomes we had hoped to self-esteem would produce
Social Identity
is the self we want to show to others includes gender psychical characters like
height
-used to create impressions
how is social identity different form self concept
social identity is what is publicly available (attitudes, beliefs in self-concept that don’t let others know (prejudiced)
nature of identity
identity provides the social definition of a person refers to social knowledge or what others think of a person
-we can misinterpret how they view us (perception)
identity has two key features
continuity
contrast
*continuity
people can’t count on you to be the same person you were today
*contrast
social identity differentiates you from others and makes you unique I’m eyes of others
identity development can be achieved by:
experimenting with different identities (clothes, major, activities)
adopting a ready made social role(stay at home mom)
identity crisis refers to
coined by Erickson identity crisis; to the anxiety that accompanies efforts to define or redefine ones individuality or social reputation.
-not what I anticipated (what should I major in, looking for a new social group)
when can identity crisis occur
anytime but more likely in adolescence (what should I major in)
or middles adulthood (kids are leaving home)
Baumiester argues for two distinct types of identity crisis:
identity deficit
identity conflict
two distinct types of identity crisis: Identity deficit
arises when a person hasn’t formed adequate identity and thus has trouble making major decions
-occurs when discards values (values you come with are probably your parents)
two distinct types of identity crisis: Idenity conflict
2 goals want to meet but in conflict with one another
Family/ work life (wanna be a great dad but also have to work to provide)
what do the 2 types of identity crisis create
guilt
resolving identity crisis whether adolescent or adulthood involves 2 steps:
1) person decides which values are most important to him
2) person transforms abstract values into desires and behaviors (turn into specific behavior, pick CJ or Psych)
Three mechanisms of social interaction
selection
evocation
manipulation
selection of a marriage partner: what did they find was the most favored characteristic
-mutual attraction and love
selection
situations we get into
evocation
what bet do I pull out of others
manipulation
how do I alter change their behavior
selection of a marriage partner: what is the most important perso charac (3)
dependable charac
emotional stability
pleasing dispostion
Attraction similarity theory
people like others who have similar personality characteristics
Attraction similarity theory: assortative mating
positive correlation caused by:
- active selection of mates who are similar
- by-products of other casual processes
Botwin: Correlations are consistently positive (5)
- corr are due to social preferneces based on pero charac of those doing the selecting
- corr btw preferences for ideal and actual perso charac in a mate
- partners perso had a large effect on marital satisfaction
- agreeableness (fewer conflicts) emotional stability (jealous) Openess (willing to do things they like
- but diff in scores btw partners perso and ones ideal for that perso did not predict happiness
Selective breakup of couples: Violation of desire theory
those married to partners who lack desired charac will more frequently dissolve the marriage
Selective breakup of couples: Emotional stability
most significant predictor of marital instability and divorce followed by:
Low conscientiousness (low impulse control) low agreeblness (more conflicts)
Entry into situations: Shyness
avoid social situations
Entry into situations: empathy
volunteer for community activities (how they do it)
Entry into situations: Psychotosicim
chose more volatile and spontaneous situations
Entry into situations: Machiavellenisim
prefer face to face situations because these offer a better chance to ply their social manipulative skills to exploit others