Exam 3 Flashcards
Collectivist society
- A society in which people identify with and conform to the expectations of their relatives or clan, who look after their interests in return for their loyalty
○ Formed by gathering or collecting; gathered into a mass, sum or body; congregated or aggregated
○ Emphasize the needs and goals of the group as a whole over the needs & desires of each individual
Communal society
- A society in which people identify with and conform to the expectations of their relatives or clan, who look after their interests in return for their loyalty
○ Pertaining to a community
○ Everyone lives and works together and property and possessions are shared rather than being owned by a particular person
Heteronormativity
- The idea that heterosexuality is the only normal, acceptable, or “real” marriage option
Legal Same-Sex Marriage
- US Census says a million same-sex households with 60% married (1% of all) and 16% with children
- In 2000, Netherlands became the first country to allow same-sex marriage
- Today, 20 others allow
- 2015, US joined
- In 2004, Massachusetts became the first US state to legalize
- Before, many identified as spouses anyways and some declared commitment in ceremonies among friends or in some congregations
- In 2000, Netherlands became the first country to allow same-sex marriage
Companionate marriage
- Sowed idea with women’s increasing educational and work options, coupled with their expectations for more intimate marital love
- An individualistic orientation views each person in a married couple as having talents that deserve to be actualized
○ Women began to embrace self-actualization and to expect husband’s support on it
○ Furthermore, they challenged centuries of previously ignored domestic violence - Feminists defined this situation somewhat differently
○ Attention to domestic abuse, unequal couple decision making, and unfair division of household labor
○ Also wife’s ability to leave an intolerable situation through divorce
- An individualistic orientation views each person in a married couple as having talents that deserve to be actualized
Expectations of permanence
- One component of marriage premise, according to which individuals enter marriage expecting that mutual affection and commitment will be lasting
- Derived from fact that marriage was historically a practical institution
- Today, marriage is less decisively associated with raising children than in the past and less critically important for economic security
- With about 1/3rd ending in divorce, considered less permanent now
- Holds potential for life-long togetherness
Expectations of sexual exclusivity
- spouses promise to have sexual relations only with each other
Individualistic society
- Society in which the main concern is with one’s own interests (which may or may not include those of one’s immediate family)
- The emergent individualistic orientation meant diminished obedience to group authority because people increasingly saw themselves as separate individuals rather than an intrinsic members of a group or collective
○ Began to expect self-fullfilment and satisfaction, personal achievement, and happiness
- The emergent individualistic orientation meant diminished obedience to group authority because people increasingly saw themselves as separate individuals rather than an intrinsic members of a group or collective
Individualizaed marraige
- 4 characteristics
○ It is optional
○ Spouses’ roles are flexible- negotiable and re-negotiable
○ Its expected rewards involve love, communication, and emotional intimacy
○ It exists in conjunction with a vast diversity of family forms- Partners now expect love and emotional intimacy, open communication, role flexibility, gender equality, and personal growth
○ Perhaps also expect more personal autonomy - Unrealistic expectations may also precipitate divorce
- Partners now expect love and emotional intimacy, open communication, role flexibility, gender equality, and personal growth
Institutional marriage
- Marriage as a social institution based on dutiful adherence to the marriage premise
- Offered practical and emotional security, along with the rewards that we often associate with custom & tradition
- With few expectations over the past 5,000 years, institutional marriage was organized according to patriarchal authority, requiring a wife’s obedience to her husband and the kinship group
○ Also true that, legally, it could involve wife & child abuse or neglect
Marriage gap
- Disparity in marriage rates between the poor and those who are not poor
Marriage Premise
- By getting married, partners accept the responsibility to keep each other primary in their lives and to work hard to ensure that their relationship continues
Polyamory
- Many loves and refers to marriages in which one or both spouses retain the option to sexually love others in addition to their spouse
- Outside relationships can be emotional, as well as sexual
- Usually establish limits on degree of involvement, along with ground rules concerning honesty
- Some want to establish legally sanctioned group marriages and have begun to organize in that direction
Polygamy
- Form of polygamy whereby a man can have multiple wives
Polyandry
- Form of polygamy in which a woman has multiple husbands
Swinging
- Marriage arrangement in which couples exchange partners to engage in purely recreational sex
Accomplishment of natural growth parentig model
- Educational model in which children’s abilities are allowed to develop naturally; this includes working-class children spending more time watching television and playing video games than children of highly educated parents
Stress model of parental effectiveness
- The idea that stress experienced by parents causes parental frustration, anger, and depression, increasing the likelihood of household conflict and leading to poorer parenting practices
Authoritarian Parenting
- All decision making is in parents’ hands, and the emphasis is on compliance with rules and directives
- Parents are more punitive than supportive, and use of physical punishment is likely
Authoritative parenting
- Parents accept the child’s personality and talents and are emotional supportive
- At the same time, they consciously set and enforce rules & limits, whose rationale is usually explained to the child
- Parents provide guidance and direction and state expectations for the child’s behavior
- Parents are in charge, but the child is given responsibility and must take the initiative in completing schoolwork and other tasks and in solving child-level problems
Permissive parenting
- One of three parenting styles in this schema, permissive parenting gives children little parental guidance
Formal kinship care
- Out-of-home placement with biological relatives of children who are in the custody of the state
Hierarchical parenting
- Concept used to describe a Hispanic parenting philosophy that blends warm emotional support for children with demand for significant respect for parents and other authority figures, including older extended-family members
Hyper-parenting
A parenting style; once dubbed helicopter parents
Hover over and meddle excessively in their chidlren’s lives
Intensive parenting
synonym for hyper-parenting
○ The overscheduled or “hurried child” is denied free time while encouraged to assume too many challenges and responsibilities too soon
Paradox parenting
- New parents feel overwhelmed, but the motivation to overcome their stress and do their best proceeds from the stressor itself- the child as a source of love, joy, and satisfaction
Permissive parenting
- One of three parenting styles in this schema, permissive parenting gives children little parental guidance
Resilient
- The ability to recover from challenging situations
Social fathers
- Males who are not biological fathers but perform the roles of a father, such as stepfather
Spanking
- Refers to hitting a child with an open hand without causing physical injury
Household labor
- Less housework is being done now than in the past
- Men’s share of housework is greater than in the past
- Women still average more household labor hours than men
Childcare
- The care and education of children by people other than their parents
○ May include before- and after-school for older children and overnight care when employed parents must travel, as well as day care for preschool children
Family-friendly workplace policies
- Workplace policies that are supportive of employee efforts to combine family and work commitments
Family leave
- A leave of absence from work granted to family members to care for new infants, newly adopted children, ill children, or aging parents, or to meet similar family needs or emergencies
- Resistance men encounter may be partly a self-imposed perception that they will be viewed as less committed employees if they access options such as paternity leave
○ Some reported having lied to boss to hide conflicts between job and family
- Resistance men encounter may be partly a self-imposed perception that they will be viewed as less committed employees if they access options such as paternity leave
Flexible scheduling
- A type of employment scheduling that includes scheduling options such as job sharing and flextime
Flextime
A policy that permits an employee some flexibility to adjust working hours to suit family needs or personal preference