Exam #3 Flashcards
1
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Sexual Script
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- Provocative
- Reactive
2
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Provocative
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- The person that is making the moves
- Trying to initiate sexual activity
- Usually the men
- Assertive
3
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Reactive
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- Respond to the person that is being provocative
- reaction
- Usually women
4
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Has this changed (sexual scripts)
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- Little change
- There is online dating now
- Women are more likely to ask out men
- still most of the time men are provocative
- 51 hours of tv, heterosexuality script were portrayed 662 times
- For men, traditional “player” script and metal sexual pleasure script
5
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Casual sex
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- 20% of college students report at least one “hook up” in the last year
- 40% of 22 year olds reported having casual partner recently
- depends on how you word having sexual relations with someone
- Men are more accepting of sex than women
6
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Sexual double standard
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- it is okay for men to have casual sex but not women
- comparable sex behaviors like threesomes, too many sex partners
- women can be slut shammed for having casual sex
- slut shaming: bullying girls on the way they look, dress, and their presumed level of sexual activity. judged for being promiscuous or sexually provocative. engagement in sexual behaviors
- women tend to endorse more monogamy than men
- 99% of male and female college students want to be monogamous at some point
- 57% of college women and 54% of college men are currently
7
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Sexual socialization
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- The process of learning about sexuality
-How do we learn these scripts? Who are the primary agents of sexual socialization? Media, movies, tv- shows, parents and families, news, celebrities - Uncomfortable moms: give you the sex talk, don’t feel comfortable doing it. They may answer questions, but don’t initiate discussions
- Girls responsibility for avoiding and/ or controlling sexual encounters. Girls must be the controllers
- learning about sex from parents rather than the media is linked to sex at a later age
- Sex risk taking behavior is higher when sex is learned from the media
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Parents (Sexual socialization)
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- Sexual socialization: the process of learning about sexuality
- Parents talks to their young children about their body parts, romantic, and sexual relationships
- Parents are often uncomfortable talking to their kids about sex
- They are not sure how much information to give or when
- parents are less likely to initiate in discussions about sex and sexuality, they may answer questions when asked
- Mothers tend to be the ones that inform their kids about sex education
- Girls are told that they are responsible for avoiding or controlling sexual encounters and the consequences of sexual intercourse
- Mothers rarely talk about the pleasure and the positive side of sex
- learning about sex from parents rather than media is linked to sex at a later age
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Peers
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- Many parents don’t actually talk about sexuality with children
- girls and young women rank peers as a more important source of information about sex than their parents
- female peers helped to promote “smart sex”, learning about contraceptive use and devising plans to avoid “players” and to manage their sexual reputations
10
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Scripts
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- Abstinence Script
- Urgency script
- Management script
11
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Abstinence Script
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put absence on a pedestal. It’s a big deal for a guy to conquer a virgin
- virginity loss should be delayed
12
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Urgency script
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Virginity is a stigma that must be shed in order to maintain or gain status among peers
13
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Management script
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- manage the risks of sex
- up to women manage the men
14
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The Media
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- major source of information
- informs individuals about what constitutes acceptable sexual behaviors
- media contributes to sexual scripts
- sexual risk taking is higher among girls who report learning about sex mainly from the media and peers than from parent or family
- Sexual scripts portrayed about virgins on the media: negatively, shy, introverted, virgin boys are bullied by their peers, etc.
15
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School- Based Sex Education
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- Comprehensive Sex Education
- Abstinence- Plus Education
- Abstinence Only
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Comprehensive Sex education
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- sex and sexuality are seen as positive and healthy components of life
- covers abstinence but not the primary focus
- focuses on healthy choices and sex lives
- sexuality holistically, as a part of young people’s emotional and social development.
- 14% offered comprehensive approach
17
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Abstinence Only
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- abstinence only as the only right choice
- often developed by religious groups
- little information about contraception or only indicate that contraception is not effective at preventing pregnancy and or/ STI transmission
- only 2% of school based programs were abstinence only in the 1980, 35% in the late 1990s, 51% abstinence as the preferred means of contraception
- 35% mandated abstinence only approach
18
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Abstinence- Plus sex education
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- still promotes abstinence as the most effective way to prevent pregnancy and disease
- also includes information about contraception and strategies for safer sex practices
- 51% assistance plus
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Empirical Research
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- Abstinence- Only programs do not delay initiation of sex
- Teens who have comprehensive sex education were less likely to report pregnancy then abstinence- only sex ed
- sex ed that emphasizes contraception reduces risk of STI compared compared to abstinence- only
20
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Gender Segregation (during childhood)
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- boys like to play with boys and girls like to play with girls
- Appears at the age of 3 years
- peaks at about the ages of 8-11
- children’s preferences are stronger than adults
21
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Why Gender segregation?
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- Type of Play
- Cognitively
- Different Interest
- Influence
- Communication styles
22
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Type of Play
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- Girls withdraw from boys rough and tumble play, this shows dominance and competitiveness
- girls tend to do more dramatic play with story telling
- Boys tend to play fight and chase other boys, girls do not like this