Exam 2 Flashcards
Interpersonal communication involves….
Relational equality
Mutual influence
& helps manage relationship.
Interpersonal vs. impersonal
Interpersonal
•make predictions based on information about the other person
•use knowledge of the other as a unique person for the basis of interaction
Impersonal
•make guesses about convo based on norms
•respond to their roles rather than who they are
Examples of relationships of choice
Friends, romantic partners, spouses
Examples of relationships of circumstance
Family, teachers, classmates
Interpersonal attraction
Degree which you desire to form & possibly maintain a relationship w/someone
Matching hypothesis
We are attracted to people who have similar physical attractiveness
Interpersonal communication
Occurs simultaneously with another person in an attempt to mutually influence each other, usually for the purpose of managing relationships.
Occurs through mediated channels
Comminicating our attraction
Immediacy behaviors-physical & psychological distance Reducing uncertainty Ask questions Avoid self absorption Compliment
Self disclosure
Occurs when we voluntarily provide information to others that they would provide information to others that they would not learn unless we told them.
Why self disclosure?
- deeper relationships
- improves quality
- fulfills need for acceptance and self-validation
- manages stress
- social control
Properties of self disclosure
Reciprocity
Appropriateness
Risk
The Johari Window
Reflects 3 elements
•stages of relational development
•degree of self-awareness
•others perceptions
Importance of relationships
Family
Has more power to affect self esteem and shape self-concept
Importance of relationships
Friendships
Childhood-self-centered
Adolescence-begin to influence our behavior
Adulthood-fewer but most important
Old age-don’t forget about them!
Importance of relationships
Colleagues
Spend more time at the workplace than ever
Relationships with colleagues have a great effect on the job satisfaction