Exam 2 Flashcards
Non verbal communication
includes everything that doesn’t include words - everything that is not the verbal portion of the message.
Elements of Non Verbal Communication
- kinesics
- haptics
- chronemics
- objectics
- proxemics
- paralanguage (vocal/non verbal)
What is always apparent about non verbal communication?
We cannot not communicate. Anything can be seen as communicating. There is always communication in human interaction, even if no words are said.
The meaning behind similar nonverbal messages…
varies with different situations
Some signals tend to be…
believed
The signals are seldom…
isolated. Most are tied to the verbal messages.
We decide what about people based on nonverbal cues?
personal attraction
evaluate power relationships
evaluate responses
Nonverbal messages are effective because
a. physical proximity
b. channel availability
c. regulatory requirements
d. reality testing
e. corrective requirements
physical proximity
personal distance
- self image
- social identity
- attitudes get transferred quicker
- less ambiguity
channel availability
opportunity to use all non verbal channels. Not limited to one channel as is usual in verbal communication. Less ambiguity.
regulatory requirements
it is difficult to start, stop, or interupt
reality testing
we tend to immediately know how others react
corrective requirements
because of the interpersonal interaction, behavior gets modified and corrected quickly. Because of the limits of verbal messages, these do not always get corrected.
Chronemics
also called temporal communication. The way we organize, react, and use time. **Time is objective. Time happens to us. **
Philosophers moved away from the conception of time because if its objective, where is it?
Varieties of Time
- Cultural Time
- Diffused and displaced time orientations
- monochronism and polychronism
- time tracks and the social clock
Cultural time
the way social groups and societies organize time
- technical time: the precise forms of time associated with scientific inquiry
- formal time: the institutionalized division of time into units
- informal time: the loose organization of time associated with phrases like “soon” and “right away”
Diffused and displaced time orientations
- societies with displaced time orientations view time very precisely
- those with diffused time orientations view time approximately
Monochronism and Polychronism
- monochronic individuals and cultures tend to schedule things one at a time
- polychronic individuals and culture engage in multiple activities at the same time
- P & M time is related to different attitudes toward interpersonal relationships.
Time tracks and the social clock
Societies and groups have tacit and explicit schedules for doing a variety of tasks
- these “time tracks” define the rhythm and tempo of life
- have norms of pace and sequence
- often have initiating and terminating rituals
Haptics
refers to touching behavior
- most frequent during greetings and departures, touching can occur in a variety of circumstances, also during conversation.
Have a degree of intimacy most of the time, not hostile
Haptic behavior categories of intimacy
- functional / professional
- social / polite
- friendship / warmth
- love / intimacy
- sexual arousal
boundaries between the categories is fuzzy, even in one culture…things can be misinterpreted.
Kinesics
Eye contact - oculesics
facial expression
posture
gestures
Oculesics
the use of the eyes in a communication setting
- direct eye contact symbolizes listening and attention / unfavorable
- length of eye contact is a cultural variable (aggression for too long or perceived if too short)
Associated with Kinesic movements: raising of eyebrow for example
Facial Expression
combined expressive force of our mobile chin, lip, cheek, eye, and brow muscles…reveals emotions, opinions, and moods.
We can manipulate some expressions, others are unconscious…expressions are universal but can be shaped by culture
Standards of good body action
- appropriateness (movement, dress)
- variety
- physical coordination
- verbal coordination
- dynamic
reinforcing gestures
a. provides emphasis: pounding on table, clutched fist
b. makes a suggestion: shaking finger (emblems)
Descriptive gestures
illustrators - provides visual reference to verbal
objectics
use of objects, props, decoration, clothing, sound, temperature, lighting, etc. to create messages personally, at work, home, etc.
proxemics
the way personal space is structured
- personal space, or distance from other persons is a powerful concept, and research suggests it directly relates to our interpretation of the meaning of messages conveyed by the other person.
Paralanguage
vocalics - voice and articulation
- Rate
- Loudness
- Pitch
- Quality
Perception
sensory and interpretation - decoding a message and assigning meaning
Perception is affect by our…
preparation to perceive or set of expectancies.
We receive what we want to receive, or defend against what we don’t want to receive.