exam 2 Flashcards
Reciprocal socialization
bidirectional process by which parents influence their children and children influence their parents
True or false: happily married parents are more sensitive, responsive, warm and affectionate towards their kids.
True
True or false: marital satisfaction is unrelated to good parenting
false: more intimacy and better communication indicates increased affection towards children
Dyadic relationship
individuals influence individuals; they have an indirect effect on third members
Significant changes in a family dynamic can create imbalance or
disequilibrium
When might there be a phase transition?
When there is a breakdown of old patterns as new patterns emerge. Even minor events can have major consequences.
What are the 2 parenting dimensions?
- Responsiveness (acceptance/responsiveness)
- Demandingness (control/demandingness)
acceptance/responsiveness
- giving praise, warmth, affection and encouragement
- attending to wants, needs and concerns
- criticisms is given within a context of valuing/loving the child
demandingness/control
- parents who score high set more rules and regulations and keep a closer watch over children
- parents who score lower impose fewer restrictions
- less likely to set strict goals, with more room for children to set their own direction
4 possibilities of parenting dimensions
- responsive & demanding
- responsive & undemanding
- unresponsive & demanding
- unresponsive & undemanding
4 Parenting styles
- authoritative (democratic; demanding and responsive)
- authoritarian (demanding and unresponsive)
- indifferent (neglectful; unresponsive & undemanding)
- indulgent (permissive; responsive & undemanding)
Authoritative parenting characteristics
- encourage independence & listen
- set limits but stays in charge
- attentive & accepting
- monitor behaviour
authoritative: adolescent outcome
- do better in school
- more independent & self-assured
- less anxious & depressed
- less delinquency
- socially competent
authoritarian- adolescent outcome
- dependent & passive (fail to initiate activity)
- weak self-esteem & communication skills
- less self-assured
indifferent/neglectful- adolescent outcomes
- little interest in school or work
- poor self-control (delinquency, early sex, drug use
indulgent/permissive- adolescent outcomes
- immature (lack self control)
- irresponsible
- influenced by friends and peers
- expect to get their own way
traditional parenting
heavy emphasis on parental authority, but often lots of warmth; responsiveness and autonomy granting are missing
helicopter parenting
- overbearing and micromanaging
- associated with poor psychological health, substance abuse, low self-efficacy & dependency, lowered self esteem, low autonomy & coping skills, entitled
What do parents manage to help their teens reach their full potential?
- find information
- make contacts
- help structure choices
- provide guidance
True or false: fathers have a more managerial role in parenting
false: mothers (Ex: parent-teacher conferences, homework, etc)
What is Positive Youth Development? (PYD)
emphasizes the strengths of youth and the positive qualities and trajectories of this developmental period
What are the 5 C’s of PYD?
Competence
Confidence
Character
Connection
Caring/Compassion
- these produce a 6th: contribution
What do teens need to develop the 5 C’s?
- A breadth of positive adult relationships
- participation in life-skill building activities
- Opportunities to be a leader
What are the 2 kinds of autonomy?
- Emotional autonomy (capacity to relinquish childlike dependencies on parents)
- Behavioural autonomy (ability to make one’s own decisions and take responsibility for actions)