EXAM 2 Flashcards

1
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What are the three out comes of Social Exchange?

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rewards, costs, outcomes

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2
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Rewards:

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Anything we find desirable

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3
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Costs:

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Anything we find undesirable

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4
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Outcome:

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profit or loss from the rewards and costs

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5
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Reward - Cost =

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Outcome

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6
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what is the comparison level?

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The outcomes we believe we deserve and have come to expect from relationships (aka expectations)

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7
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What is the comparison level for alternatives?

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Outcomes that are possible in an alternative partner or a different situation

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8
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What are comparison levels influenced by?

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Investments, self-esteem, access to others, awareness of alternatives

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9
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How many types of relationships are there according to interdependence theory?

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4

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10
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Happy stable relationships

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Expectations met

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11
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Happy instable relationships

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Expectations met but better alternatives

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12
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unhappy stable relationship

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expectations are not met, no better alternatives

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13
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unhappy unstable relationship

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expectations not met, better alternatives available

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14
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Changing expectations

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Individual expectations can increase comparison level

Cultural expectations increase the comparison level

Cultural changes increase the Comparison level for alternatives

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15
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Bad is stronger than good

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costs are more impactful than rewards

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16
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Should maintain…

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5-1 rewards-to-cost ratio to have a satisfying relationship

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17
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Love languages

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should be found out for both partners

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18
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Approach motivation:

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-Pursue pleasure
-motivation is to feel good
-feel positive emotions when we approach desired experiences

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19
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Avoidance motivation

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-avoid costs
-motivation is to escape punishment or avoid pain
-the goal is to avoid negative feelings associated with undesirable experience

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20
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Self expansion model

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Proposes that individuals are attracted to partners that expand their range of interests, skills, and experiences

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21
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Interdependency

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exists when we need others and they need us to in order to obtain valuable interpersonal rewards

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22
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Outcomes - CL =

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Satisfaction or Disatisfaction

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23
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Communal Relationships

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Partners feel a special concern for partners’ well-being and provide favors and support for one another without expecting repayment

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24
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Exchange relationships

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People do favors for others expecting to be repaid by receiving comparable benefits in return.

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25
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Equitable relationships

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each partner gains benefits from the relationship that are proportional to his or her contributions to it.

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26
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What leads to satisfactions/dissatisfaction in equitable relationships

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-one partner is over-benefited: receiving better outcomes than he/she deserves

-one partner being under benefitted: recieving less than he or she should

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27
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Marital statistics (decrease/increase) over time

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Decrease

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28
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What are the characteristics of friendship

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Respect, trust, capitalization, and social support

29
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Respect

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moral qualities, consideration for others, accpetance of others, and the willingness to listen.

30
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Trust

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Selflessly taking ones interest into account, alert to our wishes and reliable

31
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Capitilization

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Sharing good news and their excitement being more pleasure to oneself

32
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Social support

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emotional and social support
Physical comfort, material support and advice

33
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Benefits of social support

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Higer relationship satisfaction and personal well-being

34
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Responsivness

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Attentive and supportive recognition of our needs

35
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childhood friendships

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Acceptance in the ealry elementary years, intimacy in preadolesence, and sexuality entering the teen years

36
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Adolesence

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Less with family and more time with peers

Attachment needs with peers

37
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Young adult hood

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We learn to form enduring committed intimate relationships

38
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Midlife

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Dyadic withdrawal: The more they see of a lover, the less they see of their friends

39
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Gender differences in friendships

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Women’s friendships are face-to-face
Men’s friendships are side-to-side

40
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Womens friendships

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emotional sharing and disclosure
Women self-disclose more than men and provide more emotional support and express more feelings of affection

41
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Mens friendships

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Shared activities, companionship, and competition

42
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What are the two friendship difficulties?

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Loneliness and shyness

43
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Lonliness

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The discrepancy between the number and quality of partnerships that we want and the number that we currently have

-Loneliness is bad for your health
- negative outlooks and reserved behavior perpetuate loneliness

44
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Shyness

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The tendency to feel awkward worried or tense during social encounters
- Fear anticipates negative reactions from others
-Doubt themselves
-Display inhibited behavior-make less eye contact, smile less, talk less

45
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General friendship difficulties

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-More Americans live alone
Americans have fewer intimate relationships
-1 in 4 American adults report that they don’t have a single intimate friend

46
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Watch link on bb abt sheldon!!!

A

Answers tips for being a good friend

47
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Sternbergs Triangular theory of love

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There are 3 components of love: passion, intimacy, commitment

48
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Sternbergs triangular theory of love: Passion

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Intense physical attraction and desire

49
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Sternberg’s triangular theory of love: Intimacy

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Feelings of closeness, ability to have personal feelings and desires

50
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Sternbergs triangular theory of love: Commitment

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An intent/ A decision

51
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7 types of love: Liking

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Intimacy only, friendship

52
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7 types of love: Infatuation

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Passion only-initial attraction

53
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7 types of love: Empty Love

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Comitment only ex. parents staying together for kids

54
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7 types of love: Fatuous Love

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Passion and commitment (FWB)

55
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7 types of love: Romantic love

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intimacy and passion (love love dating)

56
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7 types of love: Compassionate love

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Intimacy and commitment (one of the most successful)

57
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7 Types of Love: Consummate Love

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intimacy, passion, and commitment (one of the most successful)

58
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What are the 3 types of love in romantic relationships?

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  • romantic passionate love
  • Companionate love
  • compassionate love
59
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Romantic Passionate Love

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-Physiological arousal
-highlevels of intimacy
-feelings of dependency
-genuine caring and concern for the other person
-Feelings are intense and urgent

60
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Permissiveness with affection standard

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  • most disapprove of hookups
  • the sexual double standard has diminished
    men hold more permissive sexual attitudes and are more accepting of casual sex
61
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Americans’ attitudes about same-sex relationships

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usually have positive, accepting attitudes about same-sex relationships

62
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Sex for the first time

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-97% of people have sex before they get married
-Average age 17 years old
-80% of people have had sex by age 17
-Most first-time experiences occur in a committed relationship

63
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Sex in committed relationships

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Most sex = Married and cohabiting couples
Decrease in sexual interactions - 2year drop
Less sex after children

64
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Sex and old age

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Couples have less sex as they age

65
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Which couples have most sex

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  1. Gay men 2. Heterosexuals 3. Lesbians
66
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Sexual behaviors: Infedelity

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Most people are opposed to this behvior

67
Q

Rate of occurrence in infidelity

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1 in 3 men are likely to
1 in 5 women are likely to

68
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