Exam 2 Flashcards
what percent of parents find adolescence to be the most difficult stage of parenting
2/3
at what stage is marital and life satisfaction at its lowest?
when kids are adolescents
what is reported by parents during adolescence?
more psychological distress and more intense mid-life identity crisis
why does the adolescence of children have these effects on parents
- complementary developmental challenges
- financial pressure
- adolescents greater desire for time outside family
- transformation of family image of child with pubertal maturation
- differing conception of authority and rules
what is the domain theory
theory that boundaries are drawn around domains of social rules
what are the 3 social reasoning domains
-moral (moral judgments)
-conventional (social convention)
-personal (personal choices)
describe moral judgments
prescriptive judgments of harm and justice
describe social convention
regulations to govern social organizations
describe personal choices
private behavior that has implications only for self
how should parents and teens come to an agreement on how to sort the rules
- hold fast and advocate for the moral point of view
- negotiate household conventional rules
- give wide latitude to personal domain
when does the shift in family relations occur for kids?
it begins in early adolescence
how does family relations shift for a teenager?
they begin to move away from asymmetrical lines of influence and towards more equal footing
early adolescence is a time of _____________________________
temporary disruption in family relationships
how do early adolescents try to shift balance of power
they use a more forceful role (ex: interrupting parents) to shift power, but parents may not be responsive
how do middle adolescents try to shift balance of power
they do not assert opinions by interrupting. They begin to have more influence over family decisions
what must family members share in order to be able to adapt
they must have a shared sense of what they are experiencing
Do family members tend to have a shared sense of experience?
Not necessarily because teens can rate a mother’s behavior as more negative than the mother or researcher. They also tend to be more sensitive (over-react) to emotional signal of others
what is one example of how teens may be sensitive to the emotion of others?
teens experience “serious” parents’ voice as “anger”
what role does puberty play in family system
can cause unbalancing
what are some of the behavioral effects of puberty on the family system?
- more distancing and feeling less close
- Distancing but not “storm and stress”
Are rates of outright conflict dramatically higher during or before or after the puberty stage?
Neither, the rates are about the same during all three stages
is the distancing that occurs during puberty permanent?
No, it is temporary and relations will become less conflicted and more intimate over time
what did teens who reported more conflict with parents deal with?
they had more problems in later adolescence and early adulthood
what is the causal direction of family conflict and problems
family conflict leads to more problems
what other aspects does conflict at home affect?
it also impacts teens’ school life, relations with friends, causes more problems and emotional distress
what are some differences in family relations due to ethnic differences?
- squabbling varies across cultural groups
- variation in degree of acculturation
example of how squabbling differs across cultural groups
timetable for adolescent independence may differ
examples of varying acculturation
- lower rate of parent teen cohesion during mid adolescence among highly acculturated Mexican american families
- parental monitoring more important in ethnic minority families where teen has weaker ethnic identity (teen who is americanized needs more vigilant parents)
what is the sex differences in family relationships
- mothers are more involved and closer to teen
- mothers are imp for support and guidance
- fathers are perceived more as a remote distant authority and rely on mothers for info about teen behavior
- fathers are imp for objective info
what is more predictive of adolescents social competence and self worth
time spent with fathers
what happens for teens who spend more time with fathers
they have higher self worth and positively linked with changes in social competence
what are the 3 conditions of effective parenting
- connection
- respect of individuality
- regulation
what is connection for effective parenting
a tie that provides a sense of belonging, perceived bond, and absence of aloneness
how is a good connection formed for effective parenting
by providing:
- relationships that are consistent, positive, predictable
- interactions that are loving, supportive, devoted, affectionate
what is the respect for individuality in effective parenting
acknowledging and respecting a child’s independent self by avoiding behaviors that intrude, exploit, or manipulate it.
what are some examples of how respect for individuality is not met by parents
invalidating feelings, constraining verbal expression, love withdrawal, guilt induction
what are some behaviors that do NOT show respect for individuality that parents do?
- always trying to change how kid feels/thinks about things
- changes subject when teen has something to say
- blames teen for other family members’ problems
- brings up past mistakes to criticize the teen
- avoid looking at teen when they disappoint parent
- stops talking to teen if parents’ feeling are hurt and only begin conversation again after teen does something to please them
what is regulation in effective parenting
a condition or state that reflects the establishment of an appropriate structure around a child’s behavior
regulations should be…(3 things)
clear, consistent, and developmentally appropriate
what are the 4 dimensions of effective parenting
control, maturity demands, democratic communication, and nurturance
parenting styles are characterized by
the 4 dimensions of effective parenting
what is control in effective parenting
parents impose structure, enforce rules
what are maturity demands seen in effective parenting
parents expect children to be self-reliant, exercise self-control
what is democratic communication in effective parenting
open, warm lines of communication that includes parents checking in on teen
what is nurturance
expresses warmth, approval
how are the 4 dimensions of effective parenting split up?
Demandingness
- control
-maturity demands
Responsiveness
- democratic communication
- nurturance
what are the 4 main types of parenting styles
authoritative, authoritarian, indulgent-permissive, and indifferent-neglectful
authoritative parenting involves what kind of responsiveness and demandingness
high responsiveness and demandingness
authoritarian parenting involves what kind of responsiveness and demandingness
high demandingness and low responsiveness
indulgent-permissive parenting involves what kind of responsiveness and demandingness
low demandingness and high responsiveness
indifferent-neglectful parenting involves what kind of responsiveness and demandingness
low demandingness and low responsiveness
what are the 3 components of authoritative style parenting
warmth, structure, and support for autonomy
what kind of homes do authoritative style parenting create?
child centered homes
what kind of discipline do authoritative parents use
inductive discipline, verbal give and take
what are the two types of inductive discipline used by authoritative parents
- mild coercion
- cognitive elaboration
what parenting style has the best profile of child outcomes
authoritative style parenting
what type of homes does authoritarian style parenting create
parent centered homes
what type of discipline do authoritarian parents use
power assertive discipline
what are examples of power assertive discipline
punitive, harsh, physical punishments
what is the outcome of child from authoritarian home?
mixed outcomes
- aggressive, least likely to internalize moral values, not self reliant, but otherwise obedient and conforming
why are authoritarian kids less likely to internalize moral values
because they were never instructed accordingly and just followe d the rules with no reason as to why they should (other than to avoid punishment)
what are the 2 kinds of indulgent-permissive parenting styles
- endorse as a matter of policy
- lack personal resources to exert authority
what is the difference between the two types of indulgent-permissive parenting styles?
The endorse as a matter of policy is the idea that parents want teens to grow as nature intended them to whereas the lack personal resources style is due to parents not having the resources to exert authority (could be bc they are step parent or work and cannot be present)
what is the outcome of indulgent-permissive parenting style
- impulsive, disengaged from school, involvement in deviant behavior
-But do not engage in serious delinquency - score high on social competence and social confidence
what is a possible cause for indifferent-neglectful parenting
could be that parents are overwhelmed by their own issues (mental health, divorce, etc)
what is the outcome for indifferent-neglectful parenting
risk factor for psychopathology and poor adjustment
what kind of profile does indifferent-permissive parenting lead to
pscyhologically adjusted teens who are especially oriented towards peers and social activities valued by adolescents
what are the 2 ethnic differences in parenting practices
- authoritative parenting is less common in ethnic minority families
- authoritarian is more common and has fewer adverse effects in ethnic minority families
ethnic minority children benefit from parenting that is…
responsive and demanding just like peers
what is familism
a salient traditional cultural value found in latin families that describes the strong connection to family
effect of familism on self identity
teens with cultural familism tends to view family as part of their own self identity
what is the importance of cultural processes
this is how family relationships contribute to positive social development
What are the 3 parts of ethnic identity
affirmation, exploration, and resolution
what are the 3 parts of familism
support
obligation
family as referent
example of support familism
family provides a sense of security because they will always be there for you
example of obligation familism
a person should share their home with relatives if they need a place to stay
example of family as referent
children should be taught to be good because they represent the family
what is ethnic identity resolution
having a clear sense of what ethnicity means to self
what are the 3 prosocial tendencies
dire, emotional, and compliant
example of dire prosocial tendency
help people in a real crisis or need
example of emotional prosocial tendency
help people particularly when they are emotionally distressed
example of compliant prosocial tendency
when people ask for help, I do not hesitate
general findings of family relationship qualities and prosocial behaviors in US Mexican teens
- YA who reported more parental acceptance and sibling intimacy were more likely to 2. endorse cultural values that reflect importance of close ties to family and 3. the endorsement of familism was associated with greater commitment to ethnic identity which is 4. associated with multiple prosocial tendencies
what acts as the mechanism through which family relationships are associated with prosocial behavior
family values and ethnic identity
what is the predictor of prosocial behavior
maternal acceptance, sibling intimacy, and paternal acceptance
facts about single parenthood
- 40% of kids born outside of marriage
- typical to live with mom
- only 15% live with dad
- big ethnic diff of single parent household (black>hispanic>white>asian)
black students are more likely to come from a single parent household
what factors influence the changing nature of family life
divorce, single parenthood, remarriage, and poverty
how does remarriage influence family life
2nd marriages have higher divorce rate in first 5 yrs resulting in kids going through 2 divorces before they can even adapt to having a step-parent
how does poverty affect the family life
there is large racial disparity in poverty rate and 20% of teens live in abject poverty
what is one possible reason for racial disparity in poverty rates
could be due to racial disparity in rates of single parenthood
Bc non white kids are more likely to be raised in single parent homes, they are more likely to be poor
how has the changed nature of family changed the nature of adolescent development?
overall it has worsened the situation but it is:
1. hard to pin down causal direction
2. hard to generalized about the effects
why is it hard to generalize about the effects that have changed family life and their impact on adolescent development
Because there is a wide variability of conditions that have diff effects. there are also variances within diff family structures that are more imp than diff among them
- some kids do better under divorce
-some who only live with mother see father more often than those with 2 parents
what is the impact of divorce on development
-effects of divorce are small in magnitude but are stronger in school aged kids
-effects of divorce are also smaller in the US compared to other countries
does the quality or quantity of parental relationship matter more?
quality with imp adults matter more than number of parents present
- teens w/ 2 parents don’t always have warm, close relationships
teens in father absent have higher ? than teens in 2 parent homes where father has little interest
self esteem
teens in divorced single parent families describe parent relationship as…
friendlier than do teens whose parents are married
what matters most for adolescent mental health in response to divorce
most for adolescent mental health in response to divorce
the process of going through divorce, not the resulting family structure
how long after divorce are most children able to cope with the situation
cope well after 1-2 yrs
adverse temporary effects of divorce or remarriage usually reflect heightened…
conflict, disorganization, and stress of the event
immediate problems of divorce are more common in:
- boys
- younger kids
- kids with temperament
- kids who lack supporting relationships outside of family
impact of divorce on adolescent adjustment weaker among what ethnicity
black adolescents because they grow in multi gen families that allow them to have a good relationship with an adult that helps provide support
exposure to marital conflict shows how ______
quality of marriage influences adolescent well being
what are 3 effects of quality of marriage on adolescent well being
- kids are more effected by conflict if they are aware of it
- leads to feelings of emotional insecurity and self blame
- disrupts parent child relationship
what are long term effects of divorce called
sleeper effects
what are sleeper effects
effects of divorce not apparent until much later in development
what are 2 possible explanations about long term effects of divorce
- ways in which adjustment difficulties might be expressed are not evident until adolescence
- link to developmental challenges of adolescence
what is an example of adjustment difficulties that are not evident until adolescence
early pregnancy and substance use due to poor parental monitoring
what is an example of an adolescent developmental challenge
dating, view of intimacy, expectation of relationships
what are some ways that step families may better adjust life for kids
- stem families must lower the boundary
- give up on the ideal family image and accept fluidity and complication
- step parents be cautious about discipline
- co-parenting
what are the 4 ways that peer groups change
- increase in time spent with peers
- peer groups function w/o adult supervision
- shift to mixed sex groups
- shift to larger collectives/crowds
what are 3 things that cause peer groups to change
- puberty
- cognitive changes
- change in social context (anonymity)
how does puberty cause peer groups to change
it stimulates in romantic relationships and distances from parents
how does cognitive changes cause peer groups to change
abstract categorization allows sorting into crowds (be able to make categories helps teens find others like them)
how does change in social context cause peer groups to change
it forces teens to seek others with common interests
what are the three main categories of the clique structure
cliques, liaisons, and isolates
what is a clique
a small collection of friends, usually less than 5
what is a liaison
a person that belongs to multiple cliques
what is an isolate
person that does not belong to any clique or group
what percent of teens belong to cliques
less than half
which gender is more likely to be in a clique
girls
who is more likely to be isolate
boys
what does being in a clique provide
stability
how do adolescents sort into crowds
crowds are reputation based clusters
what is membership in crowd based on?
stereotype and reputation
what is membership in a clique based on?
actual friendship or social interaction
what purpose do crowds serve
they solidify personal and social identity
do cliques and crowds have the same purpose
no, cliques help with friendship and social skills and crowds help with sense of self identity
T or F, crowds are a cluster of cliques
false
who is most influential to a teen
- peers considered best friends
- peers one would like to have as a friend
is influence of teens usually reciprocated
influence is not always reciprocated and is at most 60%
what do friends influence
everything (both good and bad)
what are the 3 types of social power
- coercive power
- reward power
- referent power
coercive power
teach peer resistance skills
what is reward power
access to friendship that is rewarding
referent power
when a teen admires and wants to be like their friend
what kind of social power is peer pressure most like
referent power
narcissistic object choice
person has qualities a teen wants and comes to possess them by proxy of friendship
teens accept suggestions without…
any need for coercion
teens are influenced even when friends make no (_______________) and put no (__________________) on them
suggestions; pressure
what do kids project onto peers
characteristics
influence vs similarity
influence is peers suggesting or influencing one’s decision while similarity is a teen getting close to someone bc they have the same characteristics
selection
teens with certain characteristics will look for others with the same characteristics and become close to them
socialization
spending time with people of certain characteristics influence one’s own characteristics
ex: choosing depressive friends affects own mood and that of their friends
peer influence stronger on day to day preferences is an example of…
socialization