Exam 2 Flashcards
true or false: positive encounters are good for everyone
true
What allows us to act deliberately rather than reflexively and facilitates effective communication?
Mindfulness
What is- emotional thinking dominates and can cause us to act impulsively
emotion mind
What is- awareness of how your body is responding and can trigger or be a response to emotion
body mind
What is- analytical, measured, controlled thoughts that enter our consciousness
reason mind
What is- a place of discernment where motives, biases, and intuitions that had been identified in other domains are purposely examined, and self-regulatory efforts are imposed
wise mind
- First look inward
- focus on one state of mind at a time
- assess your emotional temperature
- assess your physical sensations
- deliberately enter a place of wisdom
Mindfulness process
- be an objective observer
-breathe deep
-observe and describe
-acceptance (things are what they are)
-Distress to tolerance (acknowledge your emotional response to situations and accept them)
Skills that enhance mindfulness
-We assume we know what people are talking about
-we assume people know what we’re feeling
-we don’t listen very well
-we overreact sometimes to what other people say
we are not always clear about saying “no”
communication roadblocks
self-talk
intrapersonal
one-to-one communication with another person
interpersonal
interaction within a person’s spiritual domain
transpersonal
small number of people, usually goal-oriented
small group
have an audience
public
what motivates communication
referent
person who encodes and delivers the message
sender
person who receives and decodes the message
receiver
the content of the communication: verbal, nonverbal, and symbolic
message
means of conveying and receiving messages
channels
message returned by the receiver
feedback
How much time do we spend communicating with others?
70%-80%
-verbal
-nonverbal
-symbolic
-metacommunication
forms of communication
a code that uses verbal or written words to convey a message
verbal communication
personal appearance, first impressions are usually based on this, including facial expression
nonverbal communication