Exam 2 Flashcards
Emotional well being
Ability to feel and express the entire range of human emotions and to control them
- Know what emotional literacy is and why it is important to your health.
“To be emotionally literate is to be able to handle emotions in a way that improves your personal power and the quality of your life and – equally important, the quality of the life of the people around you. Emotional literacy helps your emotions work for you instead of against you.”
Know the relationship between hostile anger and your health.
Hostility isolates you from other people. Anger and constant hostility keep your blood pressure high. And they increase your chances of having another health problem, such as depression, a heart attack, or a stroke.
Why has anger increased?
loss of connection due to:
1. technology overload
2. poor community relations
3. illusion of the American dream
Sex differences in anger
*It is more accepted for men to express anger.
*When a female is angry it is perceived as
unfeminine, unattractive, and evil.
*Women are less likely to express anger.
*Unresolved anger related to breast cancer.
*Women report feeling uncomfortable
expressing anger (men are more comfortable).
*Women are more likely to feel shame, and direct
anger inward
Physiological response to anger
- Flushed face
- greater blood flow to face and neck skin
- Migraine
- Headaches
- Ulcers
- Colitis
- Arthritis
- Hypertension
- Coronary heart Disease
How can you deal with anger effectively?
*Become aware of your thoughts, feelings, and
behaviors
*You can use journaling (include time/day)
*Include thought-feeling, action, and involvement
to determine patterns of behaviors
*Love, compassion, and empathy are the most effective
means to defuse anger.
*Holding in anger is not the answer, neither is
yelling.
Microaggression
comments and behaviors commonly used by white people to insult dismiss or marginalize people of color.
often done unconsciously
- How do people deal with anger ineffectively?
- Somatizers
*Physical symptoms - Self-punishers
*Punish self - Exploders
*Erupt like a volcano
*Type A personality - Underhandlers
*Indirect
* Seek revenge
*Common at work
* We have one dominant style
* None are healthy
- Know what anxiety and treatments is to manage anxiety.
what is fear
*Fear is a learned response.
*Learning to identify, empathize, and resolve
our feelings is necessary to prevent disease.
*Fear is part of the survival dynamic, a
necessary aspect of life in times of true danger.
*Real fear is momentary.
*Any fear lasting longer than the initial signal
can cause serious problems.
Basic human fears/ what triggers fear
Failure
* Low self-esteem
* Ex.: Taking an exam
* Self-fulfilling prophecy
- Rejection
* Perception plays a role
* Starts early in life (relationship with parents)
- The unknown
* Ex.: Domestic violence
- Death
* Useful when danger is present
- Isolation
* 1st fear developed in life
- Loss of self-dominance
* Loss of control over events in one’s life
Ted talk of fear
Be able to discuss what she learned from her research and discuss the solution she
provided.
https://youtu.be/iCvmsMzlF7o?t=3
- What are strategies to overcome fear?
*Therapy exist to help people with fears and
phobias.
*Psychodynamic
*Behavioral Therapy
*Coping skills
*Relaxation techniques
* Systematic desensitization
*Exposure desensitization
*Assertiveness training
*Biofeedback
- What is depression a by-product of?
*An emotion that surfaces as a result of
unresolved stress is depression.
*Depression is anger
turned inward
*400% increase in antidepressants from 1988-
2008
*More than 25% of American’s on meds for
depression