Exam 1: Ch. 1-4 Flashcards
What is the percentage of most people communicating with others during their waking hours?
80%-90%
Interpersonal Communication Defined
the distinctive, transactional form of human communication involving mutual influence, usually for the purpose of managing relationships a. *Focuses on the uniqueness of others (“I-thou” Martin Buber)
Other-oriented
i. To be aware of the thoughts, needs, experiences, personality, emotions, motives, desires, culture…ect. ii. Thinking about the other communication aspect of the relationship
Impersonal communication
i. A process that occurs when we treat others as objects ii. Relate the person as an object or role instead of an individual iii. “I-it relationship”
Mass communication
i. One person vs. a group or audience of people ii. Mass media: television, newspapers 1. …has become more interactive
Public Communication
i. Speaker or teacher speaking to an audience
Intrapersonal communication
i. Communication with yourself 1. Your mind and thoughts
Communication Process:
1) source 2) message 3) channel 4) receiver 5) noise 6) feedback 7) context
communication process: source
a originator of a thought that puts it into code that the other person understands
communication process: message
written, spoken, and unspoken meaning
communication process: channel
the means by which the message is expressed to the receiver - ex: text messaging
communication process: receiver decoding
receives the message and decodes the meaning of the source
communication process: noise
interferences that keeps a message from being interpreted as it was intended
communication process: feedback
response to the message
communication process: context
physical and psychological environment for communication
Human communication as action:
message transfer takes place when a message is sent and received
Human communication as interaction:
message exchange interactive model views communication as a linear step-by-step process, where both the source and the receiver send and receive messages but not simultaneously
human communication as transaction:
message creation When speaking face-to-face, you are constantly reacting to your partner’s responses. based on systems theory
Systems theory:
Theory that describes the interconnected elements of a system in which a change in one element affects all other elements
elements of the system theory
Inputs (all of the variables that go into the system) Throughputs (all of the things that make communication a process) Outputs (what the system produces)
Principles of interpersonal communication
1) connects us to others 2) irreversible 3) complicated 4) governed by rules 5) involved content and relationship dimensions
key idea in interpersonal communication in the saying “connects us to others”
(You cannot not communicate) 1. People judge you by your behavior, not your intent.
key idea in interpersonal communication: irreversible
you cannot take back your words
key idea in interpersonal communication: complicated
1) Whenever you are communicating with another person, you are actually communicating with “six other people” 2) Symbol: word, sound, or visual image that represents something else, such as a thought, concept, or object
key idea in interpersonal communication: governed by rules
- Rule: followable prescription that indicates what behavior is obligated, preferred, or prohibited in certain contexts
Electronically mediated communication (EMC):
communication that is not face to face, but rather is sent via a medium such as a smartphone or the internet
Hyperpersonal relationship:
a relationship formed primarily through electronically mediated communication that becomes more personal than an equivalent face-to-face relationship because of the absence of distracting external cues, smaller amounts of personal information, and idealization of the communication partner.
Differences between Electronically Mediated communication (EMC) with face-to-face (FtF) communication
1) time 2) Varying degrees of anonymity 3) Potential for deception 4) Availability of nonverbal cues 5) Role of written word 6) Distance
Differences between Electronically Mediated communication (EMC) with face-to-face (FtF) communication: time
- Asynchronous message a. A message that is not read, heard, or seen exactly when it is sent; there is a time delay between the sending of the message and its receipt 2. Synchronous message a. A message that is sent and received simultaneously
Cues filtered out theory
Theory that suggests that communication of emotions is restricted when people send messages to others via text messages because nonverbal cues such as facial expression, gestures, and tone of voice are filtered out.
Media richness theory
i. Theory that identifies the richness of a communication medium based on 1. The amount of feedback it allows, 2. The number of cues receivers can interpret, 3. The variety of language it allows, and 4. The potential for emotional expression.
Social information-processing theory
i. Theory that suggests people can communicate relational and emotional messages via the Internet, although such messages take longer to express without nonverbal cues. ii. A key difference between face-to-face and electronically mediated communication = rate at which the information reaches you.
Interpersonal communication competence
a. Become knowledgeable, skilled, and motivates b. Become other-oriented i. Egocentric communicator 1. Person who creates messages without giving much thought to the person who is listening; a communicator who is self-focused and self-absorbed. ii. Ethics
self defined:
sum total of who a person is; a person’s central inner force
self-concept defined:
your subjective description of who you think you are – it is filtered through your own perceptions
What reflects your self-concept:
i. Attitude: learned predisposition to respond to a person, object, or idea in a favorable or unfavorable way ii. Beliefs: way I which you structure your understanding of reality – what is true and what is false for you iii. Values: enduring concept of good, and bad, right and wrong
mindful defined:
i. The ability to consciously think about what you are doing and experiencing
Subjective self-awareness
i. Ability to differentiate the self from the social and physical environment
Objective self-awareness
i. Ability to be the object of one’s own thoughts and attention – to be aware of one’s state of mind and that one is thinking
Symbolic self-awareness
i. Uniquely human ability to think about oneself and use language (symbols) to represent oneself to others
4 stage model:
i. Unconscious incompetence ii. Conscious incompetence iii. Conscious competence iv. Unconscious competence
what are the selves?
a. The material self: Concept of self as reflected in the total of all the tangible things you own b. The social self: Concept of self as reflected in social interactions with others c. The spiritual self: Concept of self based on thoughts and introspections
Looking-glass self
- Concept that suggests you learn who you are based on your interactions with other, who reflect your self back to you.
Attachment styles:
- Secure attachment style 2. Anxious attachment style 3. Avoidant attachment style
secure attachment style:
Style relating to others that is characteristics of those who are comfortable giving and receiving affection, experiencing intimacy, and trusting other people