Exam #1 Flashcards

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1
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What is Intimacy?

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Getting within someone’s life

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What are the Key attributes of Intimacy?

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Knowledge, Caring, Interdependence, Mutuality, Trust, Commitment

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What is Knowledge?

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Sharing of info, getting to know someone

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What is caring?

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Feeling of affection, empathy, or compassion

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What is interdependence?

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How one person will influence the other.

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What is Mutuality?

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you and me become WE

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What is trust?

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how we can depend on one another (Major Priority)

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What is Commitment?

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How much are you willing to sacrifice

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Why is intimacy important?

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Gen. 2:18 not good to be alone.

Also psychological, physical, and spiritual well-being

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What are factors that influence intimacy?

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Biology, environment, and personality

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What is the biological aspect of relationships?

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Sex drives and temperament

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What are the two types of extroverts?

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Affiliative and Agenic (AA)

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What are the four types of Introverts?

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Social, Thinking, Anxious, Reserved (STAR)

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What is an Affiliative extrovert?

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Someone who is with people a lot.

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What is an Agenic extrovert?

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Someone who is prideful and puts themselves first.

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What is a Social introvert?

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someone who is shy in public

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What is a Thinking introvert?

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someone who is introspective and thoughtful about things

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What is an Anxious introvert?

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someone who is self-conscious and awkward

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What is a Reserved introvert?

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someone who thinks a lot before acting, someone who is cautious.

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how does culture affect intimacy?

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through independence and interdependence.

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What is independent?

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The idea and emphasis on individual, “my way,” self emphasis

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What is interdependent?

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emphasis on social relationships and social connectedness

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What are the four types of attachments?

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Secure, Avoidant, Ambivalent, Disorganized (SAAD)

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What is Secure attachment?

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low avoidance, low anxiety

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What is Avoidant attachment?

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High avoidance, low anxiety, dismissing in relationships (what you see is not what you get)

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What is an Ambivalent attachment?

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low avoidance, high anxiety. preoccupied in relationships

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What is a Disorganized attachment?

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High avoidance, high anxiety. fearful in relationships

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What are the the five personality traits?

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Openness,
Consciousness,
Extroversion,
Agreeableness,
Neuroticism (OCEAN)
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What is an Openness personality trait?

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those who are imaginative and adventurous.

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What is a Consciousness personality trait?

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those who are thoughtful and good self-control and are organized

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What is an Extroversion personality trait?

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those who are social, talkative and assertive

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What is an Agreeableness personality trait?

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those who are trustworthy, kind, affectionate and cooperative.

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What is a Neuroticism personality trait?

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those who are emotionally unstable, moody, and sad.

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What are some of the general features of attractiveness?

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symmetry, eyes, color red, how you smell, and how people move.

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What are females attracted to in males?

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A face of maturity and dominance, a .9 waist/hip ratio and a lower pitched voice.

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when do women like a soft face on men?

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during times of menstrual cycle.

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37
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Women like rugged macho men more when?

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they are on hormonal contraception

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38
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When do women like tender and lovable guys?

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When they are no on hormonal contraception

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What do males find attractive about females?

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bigger eyes, features of youthfulness, vitality, .7 waist/hip ratio, long hair and heels.

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40
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What is the percentage of cosmetic surgeries?

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90% is on females

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41
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What does liking and loving mean in relationships?

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the deeper in love or liking of someone the more attractive you are to them.

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What is Social Comparison?

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one walking in a group of attractive people is seen as more attractive than he/she actually is. (This is what usually happens.)

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What is Social Contrast?

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Not as attractive when in a group of more attractive people.

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44
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What are High self monitors?

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Emphasizes physical attractiveness a lot.

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45
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What are physical attractiveness stereotypes?

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What is beautiful is good.

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What is the Matching Phenomenon?

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similar physical attractiveness in people usually get together (Universal)

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47
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What is mate value?

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it is the physical attractiveness and the acceptance of another.

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48
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What is proximity?

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closeness

49
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What is physical nearness?

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live close to each other

50
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What is functional distance?

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can be physically close but if you never talk then no relationship can form.

51
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What is Anticipatory interaction?

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thinking about being close to someone can increase actual liking towards them. (psychological attraction increased.)

52
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What is the mere exposure effect?

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The more you are around a person the more you like them

53
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What is the rewards theory?

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we tend to like others who will reward us.

54
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What are direct rewards?

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gifts, compliments, physical things.

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What are indirect rewards?

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reward by association

56
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What is reciprocity?

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when people do something for us, we feel like we need to do something for them. (when people like us, we more likely like them.)

57
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What is attribution?

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perceptions of people, explanation we use to explain others actions

58
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what is intrinsic attribution?

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It is just who they are and the way they are.

59
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What is extrinsic attribution?

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it is the situation and not the person

60
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What is ingratiation?

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flattery to get on someones good side to get a favor or something from you (manipulative)

61
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What is contrast effects?

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when people feel bad and you lift the person up. They’ll probably like you.

62
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what is censorship?

A

don’t like to be with people who make us feel bad about ourselves.

63
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What does “birds of a feather flock together?”

A

demographics values and attitudes most important to be similar Basic personality.

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What does dissimilarity leads to dislike mean?

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dissimilarity carries more weight than similarity, single bad events affect a lot more than a single great event.

65
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What is important in psychological attraction for both men and women?

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warmth& loyalty are both valued.

Attractiveness with vitality is mainly men.

status and resources is mainly women

66
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What does consensus mean?

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do other people act that way in that situation?

high consensus leads to external attribution.

67
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What is distinctiveness?

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do you act the same way in different situations?

high distinctiveness leads to high external attribution

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What is consistency?

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does the person usually act this way?

high consistency leads to high internal attribution

69
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What is correspondant inferences?

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assume peoples actions correspond with intent

70
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What is Locus of Control?

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extent to which you perceive the control you have over your life

71
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What is internal locus of control?

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I have effect, what I do will make a difference

72
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What is external locus of control?

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What I do doesn’t make a difference at all.

73
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What is global vs. specific?

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always arguing about everything? or only very specific things?

74
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What is stability?

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happening all the time? or just sometimes?

75
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What is the Fundamental Attribution Error?

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in judging other people, we tend to make internal attributions of them rather than external

76
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What is the self-serving bias?

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success to self and failure to the situation, if it goes right it was me if it failed it was other people.

77
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What is the key motivation of self-serving bias?

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seeing yourself as good

78
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What is better than average effect?

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think you’re better than the average person. closer to someone you get, the less you have of this.

79
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What is the overconfidence Phenomenon?

A

overconfidence leads to under preparation

80
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What is positive illusions?

A

beneficial to view partner in positive light. BUT we can view that person too positively too early.

81
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What is commonality distortion?

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False consensus - if it is a bad trait about my life/myself then we see it as very common.

False Uniqueness - if it is a good thing then i’m special and not many people do it.

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What is Narcissism?

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Someone who has an inflated view of themselves

83
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What is primary effect?

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All things being equal, info presented first carries most weight.

84
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What is confirmation bias?

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only seeking in for that confirms your side of things.

85
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What is belief Perseverance?

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strong evidence this belief is wrong but you don’t care

86
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What is a schema?

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A mental category collection of beliefs

our schemas create expectations in our relationships.

87
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What is Idealism?

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high expectations of the way things should be.

88
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What is frustration?

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gap between ideals and reality is so big it leads to frustration

89
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What is romanticism?

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Idea that there is 1 perfect person for you (love at first sight)

90
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What is destiny beliefs?

A

meant to be or no

91
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What is growth beliefs?

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grow together, work through it.

92
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What is the self-fulfilling prophecy: Others

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The tendency for expectations to produce confirming behavior

93
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Self- fulfilling Prophecy: Self

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rejection sensitivity leads to likelihood people will reject you or your input

94
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What is self-enhancement?

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Being built up, positive.

95
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What is self-verification?

A

want to know truth, to know yourself better.

96
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what is kinesics?

A

Body communication by movements and posture

97
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What is gestures?

A

Accompanies language. no meaning on it’s own,

98
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What are emblems?

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nonverbal communication, can substitute for speech and have to not say another word

99
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What is popular?

A

recognized as same thing in most cultures

100
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What is unique?

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meaning in one culture, no meaning in others.

101
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What does multi-meaning mean?

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Something in one culture, something totally different in another.

102
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What is the primary affective displays?

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happiness, sadness, surprise, fear, anger, and disgust.

103
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What is externalizers?

A

high facial expressiveness

104
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What is internalizers?

A

little facial expressiveness

105
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What is Oculesics?

A

Eye contact

106
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What is Visual dominance ratio? (VDR)

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don’t look at me if i’m a higher status.

107
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What is pupillometrics?

A

size of pupils

108
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What are Haptics?

A

how we communicate with touch

109
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What are olfactics?

A

sense of smell

110
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What is fishy smell?

A

lack of trust

111
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What is lavender?

A

greater trust

estrogenic effects

112
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What is proxemics?

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psychophysical effects of distance

closer you get to someone psychologically, the closer you let them get to you physically

113
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What is prosody?

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pitch, tone of voice, accents

114
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What is Chronemics?

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Time with communication (time tells us who is important us)

115
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What is closed chronemics?

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endless circles of time, unending cycle.

116
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What is open chronemics?

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linear view of time, arrow, there’s a beginning and end. (like the Bible.)

117
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What is the International gap?

A

People misunderstand what other person says

118
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Positive/negative ratio of good relationship?

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5 positives to every 1 negative.