Everything after exam 1 Flashcards
What are the 2 motives for emotion regulation on an individual level
1- Hedonic motivation: the pursuit of pleasure. –) when we feel bad we try to do something about it to feel less bad.
2- Instrumental motivation: to help us do better. –) change emotional state to try to do better in a particular emotional task
ùIn the study where they asked participant what kind of music they wanted to hear before doing a task, what happened
Non-confrontational: want to listen to neutral or exciting music. Don’t really want to listen to exciting music.
Confrontational: choose to put themselves in a anger state to do better in the game.
Why do people regulate their emotions in group
1- Pro-social motive: not to hurt others. Like grandma giving you a hideous sweater, not gonna tell her.
2- Impression management: you don’t want people to judge you, or to think you’re a certain way.
Difference is that pro-social is because you want what is best for people around you whereas impression management is more self-centered.
what are display rules
social norms about what emotion is appropriate to express to whom in what context
process model of emotion regulation
- situation selection
- situation modification
- attention regulation
- appraisal regulation (telling yourself it’s not that bad …)
(after the emotional has happened)
- response (produce an emotional expression that does not correspond to how you feel in the inside)
what part of the process model of emotional regulation: Inauguration of donald trump, he turned around to his wife, she flashed smile, the moment he turned back the emotion disappeared.
Response regulation
motives for sharing
- Support
- Re-process
- Integration (bringing you closer to the person to whom you are sharing)
- Affirmation (you’re worried about your reactions and you tell someone else in the hope that they will affirm you)
-Social comparison (you want to know that other people would have reacted the same as you, just checking you own emotional reaction)
why is Emotional Thought Suppression not very effective
Attempts to banish unwanted
thoughts from one’s mind may paradoxically increase the frequency with which these thoughts
come to mind
what is the name of the counterproductive effect of the active suppression of an unwanted thought
rebound effect
Prescriptive norms
Punished if don;t follow the rules. “this is how people should behave”
study where show participants videos of
-either man or woman
-either expressing sadness or anger
what salary do participants say they should get
-Men higher salary if they expressed anger as compared to sadness
-Women higher salary if they expressed sadness as compared to anger.
-Highest salary was given to the angry man, lowest salary was given to the angry woman.
when are there more gender differences
-indirect (past event) / direct (present moment)
-ratings of others / ratings of self
-global feeling states / specific emotions
more gender differences when
-indirect
-ratings of others
-global feelings states
study done where used film clips to elicit certain emotions
They found that for all 3 emotions, women were more expressive than men.
Confound: how did they establish expressivity? Another group of participants were making a judgment about how expressive person the was. The group of participants brought with them their sets of beliefs
study done on emotion perception: ambiguous faces (same face, put on a more steeotypical women, and stereotypical men)
It the expression was on a man’s face, was seen as expressing more anger.
If the expression was on a women’s face (manipulation of the hair), was seen as expressing more sadness.
what makes people angry, in japan vs USA
the most for USA: relationships
second most for USA: injustice
the most for japan: strangers
second for japan: relationships
affect valuation theory
How people want to feel. Varies across culture. People in all cultures want to feel good instead of bad. But according to this theory we can align these desires with these individualistic and collectivist values.
In collectivist, want to feel good but in a low arousal. Want to feel calm.
In individualistic, want to feel good but in a high arousal. Excited & enthusiastic.
amae
describes a feeling of comfort, security, and satisfaction derived from being dependent on and indulged by others, particularly in close relationships such as between parents and children, or between romantic partners.
study where you could fix your friends computer but it would take you the whole night
Can only Japanese person experience Amae, because we don’t have a word for it in another languages.
BOTH japanese participants and american participants felt better if their friend had ask them