Enneagram Flashcards
1
Q
The Anger/ Instinctive Triad
A
8, 9, 1
2
Q
The Feeling/ Heart Triad
A
2, 3, 4
3
Q
The Fear/ Head Triad
A
5, 6, 7
4
Q
4 Integration
A
1
5
Q
4 Disintegration
A
2
6
Q
5 Integration
A
8
7
Q
5 Disintegration
A
7
8
Q
6 Integration
A
9
9
Q
6 Disintegration
A
3
10
Q
7 Integration
A
5
11
Q
7 Disintegration
A
1
12
Q
8 Integration
A
2
13
Q
9 Integration
A
3
14
Q
9 Disintegration
A
6
15
Q
1 Integration
A
7
16
Q
1 Disintegration
A
4
17
Q
2 Integration
A
4
18
Q
2 Disintegration
A
8
19
Q
3 Integration
A
6
20
Q
3 Disintegration
A
9
21
Q
2 Key Motivations
A
To be loved
Express feelings for others
To be needed and appreciated
22
Q
2 Parental Orientation
A
Ambivalence to the protective-figure
23
Q
3 Key Motivations
A
To feel valuable
To be affirmed
To distinguish themselves
To have attention
To be admired
To impress others
24
Q
3 Parental Orientation
A
Connected to the nurturing figure
25
4 Key Motivations
Want to be themselves
To express themselves in something beautiful
Find ideal partner
Withdraw to protect feelings
Take care of emotional needs before attending to anything else
26
4 Parental Orientation
Disconnected from both parents
27
5 Key Motivations
To be capable and confident
Master a body of knowledge and skill
Explore reality
Remain undisturbed by others
To reduce their needs
28
5 Parental Orientation
Ambivalent to both parents
29
6 Key Motivations
Have security
Feel supported
Have approval of others
Test the attitudes of others toward them
Defend their beliefs
30
6 Parental Orientation
Connected with Protective-figure
31
7 Key Motivations
To be happy and satisfied
Have a wide variety of experiences
Keep options open
Enjoy life and amuse themselves
Escape anxiety
32
7 Parental Orientation
Disconnected to nurturing figure
33
8 Key Motivations
To be self-reliant
Resist their weakness
Have an impact on the environment
Assert themselves
Stay in control
To prevail over others
To be invincible
34
8 Parental Orientation
Ambivalent to the nurturing figure
35
9 Key Motivations
To have serenity and peace of mind
Create harmony in their environment
Preserve things as they are
Avoid conflicts and tension
Escape upsetting problems and demands
36
9 Parental Orientation
Connected to both parents
37
1 Key Motivations
To be right
Have integrity and balance
To strive higher and improve others
To be consistent with their ideals
To justify themselves
To be beyond criticism as not to be condemned by anyone
38
1 Parental Orientation
Disconnected from protective figure
39
8 Disintegration
5