Duck's Phase model of relationship breakdown Flashcards
1
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what does Duck’s model suggest
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that the breakdown of a relationship is not a single event but rather a system of stages or phases
2
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intrapsychic stage
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- when a person admits to themselves they are dissatisfied with their relationship
- spend time thinking about the pros and cons of the relationship
- focuses on a person’s internal thought process that occurs before confronting the partner
3
Q
what is the threshold for the intrapsychic stage
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“I can’t stand this anymore”
3
Q
dyadic stage
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- occurs when a person confronts their partner and voices their dissatisfaction
- can take place over days or weeks
- discussions will often focus on equity in the relationship
4
Q
what is the threshold for the dyadic stage
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“i would be justified in withdrawing”
5
Q
social stage
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- it is more difficult to mend the relationship
- friends & family will take sides, intervene in couple’s relationship and offer advice
6
Q
what is the threshold for the social stage
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“i mean it”
7
Q
grave dressing stage
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- having left their partner both sides construct their version of why the relationship broke down
- they will minimise their faults and maximise their partners
- try to retain their social value and not lowering their chances to attract a new partner
8
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what is the threshold for the grave dressing stage
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“it’s now inevitable”
9
Q
what was added in the updated model in 2006
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the resurrection stage
10
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the resurrection stage
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- people move beyond the pain and distress associated with ending the relationship and experience personal growth
