dept study - khadija Flashcards
emotional support - before revelation
uses her knowledge of angels to calm the prophet by initiating intimacy - “had it been a devil it would have left”
quran - “they are a clothing for you and you are a clothing for them”
emotional support - during revelation
“zamilooni”
“Allah will never harm you. you maintain ties with kinship, help the orphan and give alms to the poor”
“placed between you affection and mercy”
emotional support - Mount hira
visited and give the prophet food
“you done all of this for him and this is how he repays you”
“reightous women are devoutly obedient to their husbands”
financial support - boycott
sold her caravn business and “survived of boiled leaves and water”, “when she died there was not a date seed left of her wealth”
charity - “give from that from which you love”
finacial support - mehr
paid for poor muslims mehr
allowed people to fulfill half their deen “marriage is half your deen”
financial support - financed dawah
hosted dinner gatherings where islam would be preached and provided charity to those in need - “she spent her wealth on me when everyone denied me”
charity becomes pillar of faith “those who establish prayer and give zakat”
discipleship - first believer
first to accept islam and to follow everything that was revealed - “she believed in me when everyone disbelieved”
“we hear and we obey”
discipleship - dealing with hardship
death of 2 husband and sons, grandchildren
prophet said “i can make dua to allah to allow you to hear their voices”
khadija replied “no i believe in what allah and his messenger have said”
teaches tawakkul and sabr - “allah if with those who are patient”
discipleship - knowlege of allah
knowlege that allah is peace - replied to allahs salaam with “you are the peace”
dua after prayer “you are the peace and from you is peace”
etiquette’s of marriage - no arguements
had a relationship where they “complimented and supplemented each other” (mufti menk)
“i never heard voices being raised in the house of the prophet”
having a healthy relationship - “bestow on us from our spouses and offspring the coolness of our eyes”
etiquette’s of marriage - how to pick a spouse
khadija chose the prophet because of his “good character and speech”
best reasons to pick a spouse
etiquette’s of marriage - women proposing to a man
khadija broke stereotypes and introduced the concept of a women proposing to a man
“if a women today stumbles upon a man with good character, they should propose marriage”
