deh Flashcards
Showing of palms
Openness
Doing other things while being confronted
Hiding something
Hiding palms in pockets
Unwilling to talk
Dishonest
Crossing arms in front of chest
Defensive
Unwilling to talk
Palm up
Submissive
Non-threatening
Palm down
Authority
Pointing finger
Negative reactions
Soft handshale
Implies submission
Two-handed handshake, the further up the more? Wrist, elbow, shoulder etc
Intimacy the person wants to convey
The first place to look for the sincerity of a smile is where?
The wrinkle lines of the eyes (orbicularis oculi)
Dropping or thrusting forward the lower lip indicates?
Aggression (warning of bite)
When liars lie, which side of the smile is usually more pronounced than the other?
Left (from liars perspective)
What does the ‘tight-lipped smile’ often mean?
Secret, withheld opinion or attitude that they will not share. (Women who don’t like others do this)
The twisted smile (skråsmil), what does it mean?
Sarcasm
The drop-jaw smile, what does it mean?
Laughing or playful (can be used to fool)
Sideways-looking-up smile, what does it mean?
‘control me’ smile from women
One minute of solid laughter provides how many minutes of subsequent relaxation?
45 mins
How does a woman see a man that makes her laugh?
As a dominant male
Crossed-arms and legs means? Also the same with one or both arms across the chest
Defending from threatening situation. Protecting heart and lungs
Seated in a defensive posture, or a posture which indicates you feel threatenened, has been by research shown to make you how many % less efficient in learning and gaining new knowledge?
38%
Crossed-arms-on-chest means?
Defensive or negative. Uncertain, insecure
What does fists-clenched-arms-crossed mean?
Hostility as well as defensiveness. Aggressive
Double-arm-grip means?
Comforting himself with a form of self-hugging. Negative, restrained attitude
Prince-Philip-Palm-in-palm behind is back indicates?
Feeling superior
Both hands in pocket indicates
Non-involvement
Arms-crossed-with-thumbs-pointing-upward indicates
Defensive, but still feeling important
Partial-arm-cross, often one arm swings across to hold or touch the other arm indicates what?
Lack self-confidence, ‘partially hugging themselves’
Men can use The Broken Zipper Position instead of -partial-arm cross, what does this mean?
Insecurity, feeling dejected, vulnerable
Instead of arms crossed, people may touch or hold handbag, bracelet, watch, shirt cuff, or object near their other arm, indicates what?
Insecurity, nervous
Holding a glass or cup with two hands indicates?
Insecurity
Placement of cup when talking to you, if the person is open and interested will place where? If closed?
Open, same side as hand holding. Closed towards opposite hand
Sitting with chair with armrest, what does the position of elbow indicate, on top and inside of armrest?
On top, indicates power. Inside humble, defeated
Touching a person with your left hand while shaking hands with your right hand can?
Create a powerful result. Example, people will have problems lying to you
Touching another persons elbow for 3 seconds while shaking hands have 3 different effects, which?
- Elbow is public space not intimate, neutral but gets attention
- Touching a stranger is not considered acceptable, so it creates an impression
- 3-second elbow touch creates a momentary bond
When meeting someone and you want to make an impression with handshake and greeting, what to do?
Touch elbow or hand, repeat their names to confirm you heard it correctly
Raised-palm-rub indicates?
Positive expectancy. Also, expecting money
A short palm-rub indicates?
Positive for you
A slow and long palm-rub indicates?
Positive for the person doing it
Thumb and finger rub?
Money-expectancy
Hands-clenched gesture?
Restrained, anxious, or negative attitude
The steeple (hands lightly press against other hand) indicates?
Confident or selfassured attitude
The raised steepler is usually used when?
Talking
The low steeple is usually used when?
Listening
Raised steeple with head tilted back indicates?
Smugness, arrogance
The face platter (woman places hand on top of other and present her face)
Wants to attract your attention
Holding hands behind the back, indicates?
Superiority, confidence, and power
Hand-gripping-wrist behind the back indicates?
Frustration, attempt of self-control (the higher up, the more frustrated or angry)
Protruding thumbs indicate?
Superiority, macho
Thumbs-protruding-from-coat-pocket indicates?
Superior position
Men who frequently gulp saliva may be?
Lying
People who put hands to face while speaking may?
Be lying, have doubt, uncertainty, or exaggerates
Covering the mouth may indicate?
Lying when speaking. Holding a secret when you are talking
Touching the nose may indicate?
Lying, anxiety
Rubbing the eye indicates?
Brain’s attempt to block out deceit, doubt or distasteful thing it sees, or avoid looking at person they are lying to
Ear grab indicates?
Blocking words, lying, anxiety
Scratching atlas 5 times indicates?
Uncertainty, doubt