deh Flashcards

1
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Showing of palms

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Openness

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2
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Doing other things while being confronted

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Hiding something

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3
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Hiding palms in pockets

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Unwilling to talk

Dishonest

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4
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Crossing arms in front of chest

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Defensive

Unwilling to talk

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5
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Palm up

A

Submissive

Non-threatening

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6
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Palm down

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Authority

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7
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Pointing finger

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Negative reactions

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8
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Soft handshale

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Implies submission

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9
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Two-handed handshake, the further up the more? Wrist, elbow, shoulder etc

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Intimacy the person wants to convey

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10
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The first place to look for the sincerity of a smile is where?

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The wrinkle lines of the eyes (orbicularis oculi)

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11
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Dropping or thrusting forward the lower lip indicates?

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Aggression (warning of bite)

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12
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When liars lie, which side of the smile is usually more pronounced than the other?

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Left (from liars perspective)

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13
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What does the ‘tight-lipped smile’ often mean?

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Secret, withheld opinion or attitude that they will not share. (Women who don’t like others do this)

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14
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The twisted smile (skråsmil), what does it mean?

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Sarcasm

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15
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The drop-jaw smile, what does it mean?

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Laughing or playful (can be used to fool)

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16
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Sideways-looking-up smile, what does it mean?

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‘control me’ smile from women

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17
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One minute of solid laughter provides how many minutes of subsequent relaxation?

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45 mins

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18
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How does a woman see a man that makes her laugh?

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As a dominant male

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19
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Crossed-arms and legs means? Also the same with one or both arms across the chest

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Defending from threatening situation. Protecting heart and lungs

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20
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Seated in a defensive posture, or a posture which indicates you feel threatenened, has been by research shown to make you how many % less efficient in learning and gaining new knowledge?

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38%

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21
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Crossed-arms-on-chest means?

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Defensive or negative. Uncertain, insecure

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22
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What does fists-clenched-arms-crossed mean?

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Hostility as well as defensiveness. Aggressive

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23
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Double-arm-grip means?

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Comforting himself with a form of self-hugging. Negative, restrained attitude

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24
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Prince-Philip-Palm-in-palm behind is back indicates?

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Feeling superior

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25
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Both hands in pocket indicates

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Non-involvement

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26
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Arms-crossed-with-thumbs-pointing-upward indicates

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Defensive, but still feeling important

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27
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Partial-arm-cross, often one arm swings across to hold or touch the other arm indicates what?

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Lack self-confidence, ‘partially hugging themselves’

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28
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Men can use The Broken Zipper Position instead of -partial-arm cross, what does this mean?

A

Insecurity, feeling dejected, vulnerable

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29
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Instead of arms crossed, people may touch or hold handbag, bracelet, watch, shirt cuff, or object near their other arm, indicates what?

A

Insecurity, nervous

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30
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Holding a glass or cup with two hands indicates?

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Insecurity

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31
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Placement of cup when talking to you, if the person is open and interested will place where? If closed?

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Open, same side as hand holding. Closed towards opposite hand

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32
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Sitting with chair with armrest, what does the position of elbow indicate, on top and inside of armrest?

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On top, indicates power. Inside humble, defeated

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33
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Touching a person with your left hand while shaking hands with your right hand can?

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Create a powerful result. Example, people will have problems lying to you

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34
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Touching another persons elbow for 3 seconds while shaking hands have 3 different effects, which?

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  1. Elbow is public space not intimate, neutral but gets attention
  2. Touching a stranger is not considered acceptable, so it creates an impression
  3. 3-second elbow touch creates a momentary bond
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35
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When meeting someone and you want to make an impression with handshake and greeting, what to do?

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Touch elbow or hand, repeat their names to confirm you heard it correctly

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36
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Raised-palm-rub indicates?

A

Positive expectancy. Also, expecting money

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37
Q

A short palm-rub indicates?

A

Positive for you

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38
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A slow and long palm-rub indicates?

A

Positive for the person doing it

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39
Q

Thumb and finger rub?

A

Money-expectancy

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40
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Hands-clenched gesture?

A

Restrained, anxious, or negative attitude

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41
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The steeple (hands lightly press against other hand) indicates?

A

Confident or selfassured attitude

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42
Q

The raised steepler is usually used when?

A

Talking

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43
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The low steeple is usually used when?

A

Listening

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44
Q

Raised steeple with head tilted back indicates?

A

Smugness, arrogance

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45
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The face platter (woman places hand on top of other and present her face)

A

Wants to attract your attention

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46
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Holding hands behind the back, indicates?

A

Superiority, confidence, and power

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47
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Hand-gripping-wrist behind the back indicates?

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Frustration, attempt of self-control (the higher up, the more frustrated or angry)

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48
Q

Protruding thumbs indicate?

A

Superiority, macho

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49
Q

Thumbs-protruding-from-coat-pocket indicates?

A

Superior position

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50
Q

Men who frequently gulp saliva may be?

A

Lying

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51
Q

People who put hands to face while speaking may?

A

Be lying, have doubt, uncertainty, or exaggerates

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52
Q

Covering the mouth may indicate?

A

Lying when speaking. Holding a secret when you are talking

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53
Q

Touching the nose may indicate?

A

Lying, anxiety

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54
Q

Rubbing the eye indicates?

A

Brain’s attempt to block out deceit, doubt or distasteful thing it sees, or avoid looking at person they are lying to

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55
Q

Ear grab indicates?

A

Blocking words, lying, anxiety

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56
Q

Scratching atlas 5 times indicates?

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Uncertainty, doubt

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57
Q

Pulling the collar?

A

Indicates lying, anger, frustration

58
Q

Fingers in mouth indicates? Can also be replaced with sucking on sigarettes, pens, glasses or chewing gum

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Feeling under pressure, inner need for reassurance

59
Q

Supporting head with hand?

A

Indicates boredom

60
Q

Drumming fingers on table indicates?

A

Impatience

61
Q

Index finger pointing up on face while listening indicates?

A

They are evaluating

62
Q

When the hand lightly rests on the cheek and is not used as a head support, this indicates?

A

Genuine interest

63
Q

When index finger is pointing up the cheek and the thumb supports the cheek, this indicates?

A

Is having negative, or critical thoughts about the speaker

64
Q

Chin stroking indicates?

A

Person is going through decision-making process

65
Q

When a person slaps the back of their neck, or rub their neck it indicates?

A

You are a pain in the neck

66
Q

When angry, the pupils?

A

Constrict

67
Q

When someone becomes excited, the pupils?

A

Dilate up to x4

68
Q

The pupils dilates when?

A

Excited, interested, dark light

69
Q

The eyebrow flash, indicates?

A

Fear or suprised. Or. ‘I acknowledge you and am not threatening’, very positive for contact

70
Q

Lowering eyebrows shows?

A

Dominance

71
Q

Raising eyebrows shows?

A

Submission

72
Q

Women pluck and redraw their eyebrows higher up the forehead to appear more?

A

Submissive

73
Q

Lowering eyelids while simultaneously raising the eyebrows, looking up, and slightly parting lips is a cluster that has been used by women to?

A

Show sexual submissiveness (also the look before orgasm)

74
Q

If a person holds your gaze for a long time, what should you look for to indicate whether it is a challenge, or interest?

A

Pupils, constricted challenge, dilated interest

75
Q

‘stiff walking’ indicates?

A

Fear

76
Q

Walking upright with larger movements, having your front open, you will project?

A

Confidence, able to defend yourself

77
Q

Blinking more often indicates?

A

Being under pressure, f.ex. when lying

78
Q

Closing eyes for more than 2-3 seconds indicates

A

you bore them

79
Q

Darting eyes indicates?

A

Person is looking for escape routes, insecurity, bored

80
Q

The social gaze, triangle between eyes and nose is viewed as?

A

Nonthreatening

81
Q

The intimate gaze is looking where?

A

First eyes then down below chin to breast or groin

82
Q

Where is a person looking if recalling a picture?

A

Up to their left

83
Q

Where is a person looking when recalling a sound?

A

To their left

84
Q

Where is a person looking when recalling a feeling?

A

Down to their right

85
Q

Where is a person looking while talking to themselves?

A

Down to their left

86
Q

If a woman steps into your intimate zone and steps out, this signifies? What can you do?

A

Interest, step into her intimate zone when you make a point

87
Q

Jiggling the feet is like the brain’s attempt to?

A

Run away from what is being experienced

88
Q

Increasing lower body movement is normal when?

A

Lying

89
Q

‘At attention’ stance with feet together, shows which attitude?

A

Neutral

90
Q

Legs apart, gives which signal?

A

Dominance?

91
Q

Foot-forward stance pointing at in one direction indicates?

A

Who the person is interested in, or towards the exit

92
Q

Legs crossed indicates?

A

Closed, submissive, defensive attitude. For women it means either ‘access denied’ or ‘intends to stay, not leave’

93
Q

When a person sits with both legs and arms crossed, they have?

A

Emotionally withdrawn from a conversation

94
Q

Ankle resting over knee, indicates what?

A

Argumentative or competetive attitude. Viewed as dominant, relaxed, youthful

95
Q

The ankle lock (of other foot), indicates?

A

Holding back negative emotions, uncertainty or fear, holding back information

96
Q

The leg twine, when one foot locks around the the other leg (calf) it is to?

A

Reinforce an insecure attitude (be warm and friendly to them)

97
Q

Paralell legs (for women) is done to?

A

Attract attnetion to her legs

98
Q

If we are interested in a person or a conversation what do we do with our feet? (placement)

A

Put one foot forward

99
Q

If we are disinterested in a person or a conversation, what do we do with our feet? (placement)

A

Put feet back, under chair for example

100
Q

Shaking your head while making a statement indicates?

A

A lie

101
Q

When the head is lifted high with the chin jutting forward, it indicates?

A

Superiority, fearlessness, or arrogance

102
Q

Large chins are a result of?

A

High testosterone levels

103
Q

Head tilt inidcates?

A

Submission, or interest

104
Q

Head down indicates?

A

Negative, judgemental or aggressive attitude

105
Q

The head duck (and raising shoulders) indicates?

A

Submission, fear, trying to appear smaller not to cause offense to others

106
Q

Picking imaginary lint indicates?

A

Disapproval of opinions or attitudes of others, withheld opinion

107
Q

Research shows that when a man mirrors a woman’s facial expressions as she talks, she will describe him as?

A

Caring, intelligent, interesting and attractive

108
Q

When mirroring, if a person does it first, and several others follow, what does this say about the intial person?

A

Leader, alpha

109
Q

Smoking is an outward signal of?

A

Inner turmoil or conflict, need for reassurance

110
Q

Non-smokers that show anxiety signals would?

A

Grooming, gum-chewing, nail-biting, finger- and foot tapping, cufflink adjusting, head-scratching, playing with something

111
Q

Playing with jewelry allows the owner to displace which emtions into them?

A

Insecurity, fear, impatience, lack of confidence

112
Q

When smoking, a person who is feeling positive, superior or confident, will blow the smoke in which direction?

A

Upward direction

113
Q

When smoking, a person who is feeling negative, secretive, suspicious will blow the smoke in which direction?

A

Downward direction

114
Q

Glasses-arm-in-mouth is which kind of gesture?

A

Reassurance

115
Q

Looking-over-your glasses has which effect?

A

Intimidation

116
Q

Wearing sun-glasses on head indicates?

A

Youthful, relaxed, cool

117
Q

A speaker which stands straight and faces the listeners straight on is perceived as?

A

Aggressive

118
Q

A speaker which stand with his body away from the listeners is perceived as?

A

Confident, goal-oriented

119
Q

When standing with friends, how many degrees angel is perceived as friendly?

A

45 degrees

120
Q

When two people want intimacy, which body angel is best?

A

0 degrees

121
Q

Crossing the knees toward another person shows a sign of?

A

Interest in, or acceptance

122
Q

A woman who is interested will?

A

Emphasize her breasts, tilting her head, touching her hair, exposing her wrists

123
Q

What are the 5 stages when attracting another person?

A
  1. Eye contact
  2. Smiling
  3. Preening (emphasize breasts f.ex.)
  4. Talk
  5. Touch
124
Q

During the preening phase of attraction, what does the woman do?

A

Emphasizes breasts, crosses legs or ankles to show them, tilts her hips and head, plays with her hair (up to 6 seconds), licks her lips, flick her hair, straighten her clothes and jewelry, pointing feet or body toward the person she wants

125
Q

The head toss and flick from a woman is done to?

A

Gain your attention, attraction

126
Q

As a woman gets aroused, which parts of her body becomes larger and redder as they fill with blood?

A

Lips, breasts and genitals

127
Q

When a woman slowly and sensually strokes her thigh, neck, or throat it implies that?

A

A man may be able to touch her in these same ways (if done right)

128
Q

The limp wrist is a?

A

Submission signal, attraction

129
Q

When a woman fondles a cylindrical object, it indicates?

A

Sexual thoughts

130
Q

Taking a ring on and off a finger may indicate?

A

Thoughs of having sex, infidelity(?)

131
Q

The wrist area is for women considered to be a highly?

A

Erotic area because of delicate skin

132
Q

Women exposing wrists indicates?

A

Interest, attraction

133
Q

Sideways-glance over raised shoulder, and then holding the gaze just long enough to get attention, then looking away, indicates?

A

Strong attraction

134
Q

Rolling hips is done to?

A

Attraction, gain attention

135
Q

If a woman places her handbag close to a man, this indicates?

A

Strong signal of intimacy

136
Q

A woman putting one leg tucked under the other, is indicating what?

A

Knee pointing towards the most interesting man

137
Q

Danling the shoes on the end of the foot indicates?

A

Relaxed attitude, sexual indication

138
Q

When a woman is strongly attracted, what can possibly be seen on the cheek and breasts?

A

Flushed color on breasts and cheek, red blotches also possible on their chests

139
Q

Crotch adjustments is done to?

A

Assert masculinity

140
Q

When a woman removes lint from your clothes or adjusts your tie, this indicates?

A

Interest, attraction

141
Q

Leaning on a person shows?

A

Dominance, intimidation, ownership

142
Q

Leaning on doorways that belong to other people is seen as?

A

Intimidating