Death and Afterlife Final Flashcards
Grief
intense mental anguish, deep remorse, acute sorrow
-can cause physiological effects
elements of religion in Klass’s discussion of grief
1) transcendent reality
2) a world view that gives meaning to all that is
3) community that validates all of above
Grief Work Model (Freud)
-relationship is ended
-sever your bond/attachment
-“move on” (feel your emotions “work through”)
-closure
Continuing Bonds Model (Klass)
-death ends a life, but not a relationship
-the dead still play a role in your life
-live in a world that’s different
Task-Based Model (William Wordon)
1) accept the reality of the death
2) experience the pain of grief
3) adjust to an environment in which the deceased is absent
4) emotionally relocate the deceased and move on with life
Types of Complicated Grief
1) Delayed/postponed
2) Distorted/Absent
3) Chronic
Types of Disenfranchised Grief
1) relationship not recognized
2) loss is not recognized
3) griever is not recognized
4) death is too horrendous to talk about
Bereavement
state of being deprived of something valuable or beloved (such as the loss of a loved one)
Factors that Influence Bereavement
1) nature of the attachment
2) way the loss occurred
3) coping strategies bereaved has used previously
4) developmental situation of the bereaved
5) social support bereaved receives
Mourning
expressions or actions of one who has suffered bereavement
-the symbols or conventional outward signs of grief for the dead
-period during which a death is grieved
Solace
comfort/console a person in mourning
-mediums: assuring the living that their loved ones are well-placed in the postmortem bureaucracy
-rabbis: life itself is a reward from God, even if times are hard you can look forward to the “world to come”
-apparitions: the idea that the an aspect of the departed remain can be comforting
Klass’ Path to Solace
1) linking objects- objects important to person so it has meaning
2) memories- reliving things
3) religious rituals
4) identification
Negative: waste a lot of time on superficial things that prolong rather than give comfort
NDE
near death experience
-clinical death –> cardiopulmonary (presuppositions)
-assumes dualism
-Raymond Moody: Life After Death
OBE
out of body experience
Apparations
a ghost or ghostlike image of a person
What is testable/veridical about NDEs
1) consistency and universality
2) their power to modify behavior
3) OBE’s paranormal aspect –> apparitions
researched by Carol Zaleski, Carol Becker
Characteristics/Features of NDE’s
-tunnel light at end
-out of body experience (OBE)
-apparitions of the dead
-sense of peace/quiet
-life review
-immateriality
-loud noise
-boundary/border (beyond which you can’t return)
-hear someone pronounce your death
-warm presence (being of light)
-ineffability (metaphors)
-don’t want to come back
-conversion experience (life-changing/no longer fear death)
Deja vu
that eerie sense that “I’ve experienced this before.” Cues from the current situation may subconsciously trigger retrieval of an earlier experience.