Day one Flashcards
(45 cards)
What is self Awareness
The abilitiy to identify your thoughts emotions and behaviors, particularly counterproductive patters: remaining open and curious
What is Self Regulation
The ability to regulate impulses, emotions and behaviors in order to achieve goals; express emotions appropriately and stop counterproductive thinking
optimism
the ability to hunt what is good while remaining realistic, maintain hope, and confidence: focus on what is controllable vs what is not controllable
What is mental agility
the ability to think flexibly and accuratly about situations; the willingness to try new strategies when the current ones are not working.
What is strengths of character
Know your top charater strengths and how to use them: identify and cultivate character strengths in others
What is connection
the ability to create strong relationships; communicate positively and effectively; develop empathy by being willing to give help, and seek help.
What are the trainable competencies
Self Awareness
Self regualtion
optimism
mental agility
strengths of character
connections
What is recillance
the ability to grow and thrive in the face of challenged and bounce back from adversity, not to just bounce back into your original form,
true or false:
you have to be born with resilience
Flase
true or false:
resillent people never show emotion
False, the regulate emotion
true or false:
resillent people can regulate emotion
True
true or false:
resillent people handle everything on their own
Flase, they know when it is time to ask for help
true or false:
resillent people always act fast
flase, they know when you slow down
true or false:
resillent people are always fully composed
flase, resiliency can get ugly
true or false:
people can devlop receliancy
true
true or false:
resillent people never burn out
flase rejuvenation fuel resilience
true or false:
resillent people burn out as well
true
true or false:
resillent people know when to slow down
true
true or false:
Resilience can be trained
true
true or false:
Resiliency is about the individual only
false, it is about indivials and relationships
Is there such thing as being to optomistic
yes
optomistic thinkers compared to pessimistetic thinkers
are happier and have less depression
are healthier
are seen as better leaders
have stronger relationships
do better under pressure
are more successful in school and work
have happier marriages
how do optomistic thinkers think
they:
focus on solutions when change possible, and accept when change is not.
are more accurate about how much control they have
take better care of themselves
are more likely to try new strategies when current ones are not working
learn from failed and find meaning in setbacks
What does it mean to have mental agility
to be able to think flexibly, accurately, and thoroughly
take other perspectives
identify and understand problems
being willing to try new strategies