Day one Flashcards

(45 cards)

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What is self Awareness

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The abilitiy to identify your thoughts emotions and behaviors, particularly counterproductive patters: remaining open and curious

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What is Self Regulation

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The ability to regulate impulses, emotions and behaviors in order to achieve goals; express emotions appropriately and stop counterproductive thinking

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optimism

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the ability to hunt what is good while remaining realistic, maintain hope, and confidence: focus on what is controllable vs what is not controllable

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What is mental agility

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the ability to think flexibly and accuratly about situations; the willingness to try new strategies when the current ones are not working.

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What is strengths of character

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Know your top charater strengths and how to use them: identify and cultivate character strengths in others

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What is connection

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the ability to create strong relationships; communicate positively and effectively; develop empathy by being willing to give help, and seek help.

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What are the trainable competencies

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Self Awareness
Self regualtion
optimism
mental agility
strengths of character
connections

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What is recillance

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the ability to grow and thrive in the face of challenged and bounce back from adversity, not to just bounce back into your original form,

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true or false:
you have to be born with resilience

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Flase

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true or false:
resillent people never show emotion

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False, the regulate emotion

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true or false:
resillent people can regulate emotion

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True

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true or false:
resillent people handle everything on their own

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Flase, they know when it is time to ask for help

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true or false:
resillent people always act fast

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flase, they know when you slow down

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true or false:
resillent people are always fully composed

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flase, resiliency can get ugly

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true or false:
people can devlop receliancy

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true

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true or false:
resillent people never burn out

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flase rejuvenation fuel resilience

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true or false:
resillent people burn out as well

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true

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true or false:
resillent people know when to slow down

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true

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true or false:
Resilience can be trained

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true or false:
Resiliency is about the individual only

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false, it is about indivials and relationships

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Is there such thing as being to optomistic

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optomistic thinkers compared to pessimistetic thinkers

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are happier and have less depression
are healthier
are seen as better leaders
have stronger relationships
do better under pressure
are more successful in school and work
have happier marriages

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how do optomistic thinkers think

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they:
focus on solutions when change possible, and accept when change is not.

are more accurate about how much control they have

take better care of themselves

are more likely to try new strategies when current ones are not working

learn from failed and find meaning in setbacks

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What does it mean to have mental agility

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to be able to think flexibly, accurately, and thoroughly

take other perspectives

identify and understand problems

being willing to try new strategies

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What does it mean to have strengths of character
to know your top character strengths, and how to use them to overcome challenges and meet goals to have faith in ones character strengths, talents and abilities demonstrate an I am strong attitude
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What are strengths in connection
building strong relationships use positive and effective communication develop empathy be willing to ask for help support others quality over quantity
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What do MRT Skills increase your ability to do
cope with stress overcome setbacks solve problems remain task focused perform under pressure increase confidendence
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what is goal setting
goal setting is a process to deliberitly energize direct and sustain behavior to ensure progress
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What are the three types of motivation
instrumental internal intrinsic motivation
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What types of motivation fall under instrumental
rewards/punnishment and shame/guilt
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why are instrumental less effective
instrumental sources of motivation are less effective because they are only effective for a short period of time. this is because you will need to increase the reward over time.
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what types of motivation fall under internal motivation
value of outcome of behavior and self identity
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why are internal sources of motivation more effective
internal souces of motivation are more effective because they give the motivated purpose rather than reward
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What is intrinsic motivation
motivation because it is something you genuenly enjoy
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What are some benitifts of internal motivation
decrease anxiety enhance consentration increase positive emotion feeling of being in. flow increase effort and persistence provides satisfaction fulfills need for autonomy
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What is the 7 step process for goal setting
define your goal know where you are right now decide what you need to develop make a plan for steady development pressure regular action commit yourself completely continually monitor your progress End state energize priorities SMART steps WIN Maintain motivation IPR
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What are the plan stages of goal setting
End state energize priorities SMART steps
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What are the act stages of goal setting
WIN Maintain motivation IPR
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What is step one of goal setting
Define your goal Identify your outcome goal identify a suspense for your goal
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What is step two of goal setting
Know where you are figure out the route to your goal imagine benefits brainstorm obsitcals
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What is step three of goal setting
Decide what you need to develop focus on efforts that will move you towards your goal identify the board priority areas thayou have to address to reach your goal
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What is step four of goal setting
Make a plan for steady improvement for priority area, create several action statements that are specific, measurable, action focused, realistic, and time bound create power statements to provide confidence and energy to complete your action statements
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What is step five of goal setting
persue regular action identify actions statements to complete tomorrow identify power statements to use tomorrow to motivate you describe the system you will use to keep you accountable
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What is step six of goal setting
commit yourself completyly create a strategy that will keep your goal in the forefront of your mind every day name at least one person you can share your goal with to keep you motivated plan to sustain your commitment in the face of expected obstacle
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What is stepseven of goal setting
continually monitor your progrss decide how often you need to check on your progress identify the date of your check in brainstorm how you will leverage one of your values when you face an unexpected obstacle