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Question 1:** What is a characteristic of a crucial conversation?
A. A topic of low personal importance
B. Unanimous opinions
C. High emotional intensity
D. Indifference towards outcomes

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C

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Question 2: What typically triggers a crucial conversation?
A. Casual discussions
B. Simple misunderstandings
C. High-stakes issues
D. General consensus

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C

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Question 3: What is the consequence of avoiding crucial conversations?
A. Improved relations
B. Quick resolutions
C. Poor decisions and resentment
D. Better understanding

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C

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Question 4: Which of the following best describes the crucial moment in crucial conversations?
A. When everyone agrees on a solution
B. The gap between problem emergence and its respectful acknowledgment
C. When the conversation ends
D. The initial stage of forming an opinion

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B

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Question 5: What is at the core of most workplace problems according to the provided text?
A. Lack of crucial skills
B. Inability to hold crucial conversations
C. Mismanagement of resources
D. Poor hiring practices

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B

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  1. Which is the most effective way to address problems in a work environment?
    A. Avoiding confrontation to maintain peace
    B. Using indirect methods to avoid direct conflict
    C. Directly facing and handling them effectively
    D. Waiting for problems to resolve on their own
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C

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  1. What does the text suggest as a measure of the health of relationships?
    A. The number of problems encountered
    B. The frequency of positive interactions
    C. The time between problems
    D. The ability to avoid problems altogether
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C

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  1. According to the text, what risk is associated with speaking up, especially in situations that require confrontation?
    A. Being commended for bravery
    B. Improving relationships with clear communication
    C. The possibility of losing something or someone
    D. There is no risk mentioned
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C

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5 What does this text suggest about handling minor annoyances or problems?
A. The best approach is to take a long path around them
B. Finding the most direct solution is preferable
C. Minor problems should be ignored
D. Problems should be redirected to others

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B

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1. In the context of a fire department operation, when faced with difficult situations, it is advised that individuals should:

A. Immediately withdraw to avoid conflict

B. React spontaneously without a plan

C. Engage in confrontational arguments

D. Aim for calm and strategic responses

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D

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  1. What is the definition of a Crucial Conversation?

A. A light-hearted exchange of ideas about personal preferences.

B. A discussion between two or more people where there is agreement on all topics.

C. A discussion between two or more people in which they hold opposing opinions about a high-stakes issue, and where emotions run high.

D. A casual chat about day-to-day activities.

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c

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  1. What factor is deemed critical in the success or failure of resolving a problem discussed in a Crucial Conversation?

A. The number of people involved in the conversation.

B. The physical location where the conversation takes place.

C. The time that passes between when the problem emerges and when it is respectfully and honestly resolved.

D. The emotional state of the participants before the conversation starts.

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c

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  1. Why do we often avoid Crucial Conversations?

A. We believe engaging will improve the situation effortlessly.

B. We fear that engaging will make things worse.

C. We are confident in our ability to handle any conversation.

D. We prefer to wait for others to initiate the conversation.

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b

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  1. In the context of failing to speak up about a problem, which two options are individuals typically faced with?

A. Ignore it or solve it independently.

B. Talk it out or act it out.

C. Leave it or address it publicly.

D. Laugh it off or confront it aggressively.

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b

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  1. What happens when individuals handle Crucial Conversations poorly?

A. They tend to resolve conflicts efficiently.

B. They go into fight or flight mode, rather than listening and speaking.

C. They generally find a mutually beneficial solution to the problem.

D. They strengthen their relationships with others through empathy.

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B

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  1. What role does an Opinion Leader play in the context of Crucial Conversations within an organization?

A. Someone who follows the majority’s opinion without providing personal insights.

B. A person that people within an organization admire for their competence and insight, influencing how conversations are approached.

C. A participant who listens to crucial conversations without contributing.

D. An individual who avoids participation in crucial conversations at all costs.

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B

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  1. According to the information, what percentage of health care workers regularly observe colleagues taking shortcuts?

A) 50%

B) 84%

C) 75%

D) 92%

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B

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  1. In organizations where crucial conversation skills weren’t learned, what was it a predictor of?

A) Increased productivity

B) Harmony among employees

C) Failure in collaborative projects

D) Enhanced team dynamics

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C

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  1. By how much did success rise when people communicated candidly in an organization?

A) 50%

B) 25%

C) 75%

D) 35%

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a

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  1. What was identified as the underlying cause for issues in communication within the organizations?

A) Too much openness

B) Lack of technology

C) Unwillingness or inability to speak up

D) Overcommunication

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c

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  1. How are workers treated in the worst companies, according to the information?

A) Ignored, then promoted

B) Ignored, then transferred

C) Recognized, then ignored

D) Rewarded, then overlooked

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B

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  1. In the best companies, how is accountability handled?

A) Only management holds everyone accountable

B) Everyone holds everyone accountable

C) External audits hold everyone accountable

D) No one holds anyone accountable

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b

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  1. What is key to high productivity, as indicated in the text?

A) A static system

B) Independent work

C) Face-to-face communication

D) Remote working

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c

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Which of the following is NOT a category people fall into, based on their communication style?

A) Those who speak openly, honestly, and effectively … … . .

B) Those who prefer non-verbal communication

C) Those who resort to name-calling

D) Those who resort to silent fuming

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b

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  1. What is the “Fool’s Choice”?

A) Choosing between efficiency and effectiveness

B) Believing one must choose between telling the truth and keeping a friend

C) Deciding between speaking up or staying silent in meetings

D) Choosing between honesty and career advancement

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B

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  1. What underpins every successful conversation, as discussed?

A) The free flow of information

B) The hierarchy of the participants

C) The avoidance of difficult topics

D) The location where the conversation occurs

A

A

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  1. What is NOT a characteristic of the Pool of Shared Meaning?
  • A. It includes thoughts and feelings about the topic at hand.
  • B. It shrinks as more people join the conversation.
  • C. It grows as individuals contribute their meanings.
  • D. It is the birthplace of Synergy.
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B

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  1. How does the Pool of Shared Meaning benefit decision-making according to the text?
  • A. By limiting the variety of choices to the most obvious one.
  • B. By exposing individuals to accurate information, enabling better choices.
  • C. By encouraging silent observation rather than participation.
  • D. By reducing the need for dialogue among team members.
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B

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  1. What potentially negative outcome is highlighted when individuals withhold meaning from the shared pool?
  • A. Increased efficiency in reaching conclusions.
  • B. Harder, less unified actions later on.
  • C. Individuals making collectively unwise decisions.
  • D. Enhanced privacy for individual team members.
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C

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  1. According to the text, what is the result of opening up discussions for all opinions?
  • A. It complicates the decision-making process.
  • B. Team members maintain their initial perspectives.
  • C. Individuals form clearer and complete pictures of their circumstances.
  • D. The process becomes unnecessarily time-consuming.
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C

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  1. When choosing the topic of a crucial conversation (CC), what common error is made?
  • A. Discussing multiple issues simultaneously.
  • B. Focusing solely on resolving conflicts.
  • C. Choosing a topic that is too broad and unmanageable.
  • D. Selecting the topic based on easiness or recency rather than relevance or importance.
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D

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  1. Why do people often choose to address the most recent issue in a crucial conversation over the right topic?
  • A. Because it is likely the most critical issue.
  • B. To avoid being accused of bringing up old problems.
  • C. Both B&D
  • D. It is the issue they remember best.
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C

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  1. Which of the following is NOT a sign that you are leaving a conversation incorrectly?
  • A. Your emotions escalate
  • B. You walk away skeptical
  • C. You’re in deja vu dialogue
  • D. You leave feeling understood
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D

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  1. What indicates that you have a content problem during a conversation?
  • A. It’s the first time the issue has been discussed
  • B. The issue has come up several times before
  • C. There are deep concerns of trust and respect involved
  • D. The problem directly affects the relationship
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A

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  1. If an issue arises for the third time, how should it be categorized?
  • A. As an incident
  • B. As a coincidence
  • C. As a pattern
  • D. As a singular event
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C

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  1. When should relationship issues be addressed in a conversation?
  • A. Immediately after the first occurrence of the problem
  • B. When the problem does not directly impact immediate action
  • C. When repeated issues lead to feelings of disrespect
  • D. Before attempting to unbundle the various issues
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c

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  1. What is the primary purpose of unbundling in conversations?
  • A. To increase the level of trust and respect
  • B. To identify whether an issue is a content, pattern, or relationship problem
  • C. To find the correct topic of discussion immediately
  • D. To ensure that emotions do not escalate
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B

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  1. Which of the following best describes the action to take when you realize an issue has become a pattern?
  • A. Focus solely on solving the immediate action
  • B. Express your concern that it is becoming a pattern
  • C. Discuss the content of the problem only
  • D. Address only the feelings of disrespect felt
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B

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  1. What should you do the first time a problem comes up in a conversation?
  • A. Talk about the pattern
  • B. Discuss relationship issues
  • C. Focus on the content
  • D. Solve the immediate action regardless of the issue
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C

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  1. What crucial step should be taken after determining one’s highest priority in preparing for a crucial conversation?**
  • A) Discuss everything that comes to mind regarding the issue.
  • B) Choose the least important issue to focus on.
  • C) Simplify the issue to a succinct statement.
  • D) Ignore the issue and hope it resolves on its own.
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C

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  1. Why is it important to narrow down the problem into a succinct statement before discussing it?**
  • A) It helps in avoiding the conversation altogether.
  • B) To ensure that only simple issues are addressed.
  • C) A succinct statement makes the discussion less meaningful.
  • D) It makes the issue clearer and holds everyone accountable.
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D

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  1. What should one do if unsure about what to say during a crucial conversation?**
  • A) Speak louder to be more convincing.
  • B) Change the topic to something less controversial.
  • C) Clarify for oneself what is truly bothering.
  • D) End the conversation abruptly to avoid confusion.
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c

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*4. According to the passage, what is a sign that the conversation topic has likely shifted?**

  • A) The conversation becomes more engaging and interesting.
  • B) People start to agree on everything being said.
  • C) There is a focus on content rather than patterns or relationships.
  • D) When the conversation ends quickly.
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c

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5. What does the passage suggest is rarely the reason we are stuck in most crucial problems?

  • A) Content issues.
  • B) Lack of communication skills.
  • C) The complexity of the problem.
  • D) Personal dislikes between the people involved.
A

a

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  1. What approach is recommended when you become aware of the need for both clarity and flexibility during a conversation?**
  • A) Strictly adhering to the original topic, regardless of where the conversation leads.
  • B) Not listening to the other person’s points to stay focused.
  • C) Verbally acknowledging when you decide to place a bookmark.
  • D) Avoiding any changes to the conversation’s direction.
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c

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Question 1: According to Chapter 4, what is the first step to initiating a productive dialogue?

A) Identifying the motives of others

B) Getting your heart right

C) Making sure others are ready to talk

D) Understanding the fool’s choice

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B

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Question 2: In the text, what is the primary focus before addressing issues with others?

A) Changing others’ perspectives

B) Working on oneself first

C) Seeking external advice

D) Assessing the situation’s complexity

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b

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Question 3: What does the author suggest we do when we realize our motives have shifted away from healthy dialogue?

A) Ignore the change to maintain peace

B) Change them back to focus on positive outcomes

C) Focus solely on winning the argument

D) Withdraw from the conversation entirely

A

B

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Question 4: According to the text, which of the following is NOT one of the steps to refocusing your brain during a conversation?

A) Deciding what you want for yourself, others, and the relationship

B) Clarifying what you really don’t want

C) Presenting your brain with complex problems

D) Ignoring your feelings and focusing on facts

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D

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Question 5: What does “Master my stories” in Chapter 5 imply?

A) You should control the narrative in every conversation.

B) Emotions are directly controlled by external events.

C) You have the power to interpret and respond to emotions.

D) Stories should always be shared to ensure clarity.

A

c

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According to the text, what is the correct view on how emotions are generated?

A) Others are responsible for how we feel.

B) Situations directly cause our emotions.

C) We generate our own emotions based on our interpretations.

D) Emotions are uncontrollable and happen spontaneously.

A

C

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How can individuals best influence their emotions according to the text?

A) By controlling their actions alone

B) Through physical exercise

C) By thinking through their emotions

D) By ignoring their feelings

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c

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Question 2: What is the first step in the path to action as outlined in the text?

A) We act on our feelings

B) We observe what others do

C) We tell ourselves a story

D) We experience a feeling

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B

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Question 3: According to the text, what directly influences our emotions?

A) Our physical environment

B) Our judgments of right and wrong

C) The opinions of others

D) Our level of education

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B

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What is a crucial step in mastering our stories as mentioned in the text?
A) Telling the story to others
B) Forgetting past experiences
C) Retracing your path
D) Focus solely on positive thoughts

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C

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Question 5: Which of the following is a cue to take a pause and retrace your path to action?
A) When you receive a compliment
B) When you feel angry or upset
C) When you have a good day at work
D) When others agree with you

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B

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What does the text suggest about the stories we tell ourselves?
A) They are usually based on extensive research
B) They are always true reflections of reality
C) They can be controlled to not control us
D) They should be shared with everyone

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C

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Why is it important to master our stories, as per the text?
A) To be better at public speaking
B) Because they may be creating our reality
C) To impress others with our creativity
D) To become a professional storyteller

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B

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When analyzing your feelings and the stories you tell yourself, what is the recommended first step?

A) Immediately share your feelings with others
B) Identify if the emotions you’re feeling are appropriate for the situation
C) Ignore your feelings and focus on work
D) Invalidate your feelings as being irrational

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B

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Question 2
Why is it essential to separate facts from the stories we tell ourselves?

A) Stories are always based on true facts
B) It helps to uncover the truth and mitigate biases
C) Facts are less important than personal feelings
D) Personal stories have no impact on our perceptions

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B

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What tends to happen once we have established a narrative or story in our minds?

A) We become more open to contradictory evidence
B) We often overlook facts that contradict our stories
C) Our stories become less influential over time
D) We immediately realize the error in our story

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B

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What characterizes a “victim story”?

A) Accepting responsibility for one’s actions
B) Portraying oneself as unjustly persecuted or harmed
C) Recognizing the complexity of situations
D) Focusing on factual details of an event

A

B

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In the context of “villain stories”, what do we tend to do?

A) Elevate the other person’s virtues

B) Blame others while exaggerating their faults

C) Accurately describe others’ motives

D) Assume the best intentions of others

A

B

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How do “helpless stories” affect our perception of personal agency?

A) They emphasize our capacity to overcome obstacles

B) They encourage proactive problem-solving

C) They position us as incapable of influencing the outcome

D) They highlight our independence from external situations

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C

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What discrepancy is often highlighted in “watch out for double standards”?

A) Equating others’ mistakes to our malicious intentions

B) Judging others’ actions more harshly than our own

C) Applying stricter rules to ourselves than to others

D) Ignoring our flaws while highlighting those of others

A

B

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Why do individuals often feel compelled to tell “helpless stories”?
- A) To showcase their creativity
- B) To demonstrate their knowledge of different narratives
- C) To portray themselves as powerless to act differently
- D) To highlight their strengths in overcoming

A

C

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What is the primary reason we tell “clever stories”?

  • A) To entertain others
  • B) To match our perception of reality and justify our actions
  • C) To practice our storytelling skills
  • D) To mislead others for personal gain
A

B

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At what point do we often start telling “clever stories”?

  • A) Before we take any action
  • B) After we take an action that contradicts our moral values
  • C) When we are planning to take a difficult action
  • D) After we have solved a problem
A

B

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What marks the transition from telling clever stories to telling useful stories?
- A) Refusing to acknowledge any faults
- B) Recognizing the omission of crucial information and striving for completeness
- C) Highlighting only the positive outcomes of actions
- D) Focusing solely on the actions of others

A

B

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When addressing persistent problems, what is the silent role we often play?
- A) Active problem-solver
- B) Unintentional contributor
- C) Silent complicity
- D) Unwilling participant

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C

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What is the purpose of humanizing the perceived “villain” in a situation?
- A) To place the blame on someone else
- B) To justify our own negative actions
- C) To understand the reasons behind their actions and manage our stories and emotions
- D) To avoid taking any responsibility

A

C

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How can one break free from feeling helpless in difficult situations?
- A) By blaming others for the situation
- B) By refusing to engage in any dialogue
- C) By returning to the original motive and using dialogue skills instead of attacking or remaining silent
- D) By avoiding the situation altogether

A

C

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When observing the dynamics of a conversation, what is crucial to be attentive to?
- A) The volume of the conversation only
- B) Content of conversations and the process
- C) The number of participants in the conversation
- D) The location where the conversation takes place

A

B

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Which of the following indicates a conversation has turned critical?
- A) When people start discussing general topics
- B) When everyone agrees on the topic
- C) The moment people start to share personal stories
- D) Signs that people don’t feel safe

A

D

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Question 3:** What physical sign should alert you that you’re entering a crucial conversation?

  • A) Feeling relaxed and at ease
  • B) Physical cues like a rising heartbeat
  • C) No changes in physical state
  • D) Sudden happiness
A

b

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How should you react upon noticing physical signs that you are in a crucial conversation?

  • A) Ignore them and proceed as normal
  • B) Recognize them as a signal to step back
  • C) Accelerate the conversation pace
  • D) Focus solely on the content of the conversation
A

B

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Q

What behavior could indicate a conversation has become unsafe?

  • A) Speaking in a calm manner
  • B) Listening attentively without interrupting
  • C) Raising one’s voice or pointing fingers
  • D) Agreeing with everything said
A

C

78
Q

Why do people become defensive during conversations?

  • A) When they are overly confident
  • B) When they feel safe and respected
  • C) When they don’t feel safe or respected
  • D) When the content of the conversation is uninteresting
A

C

79
Q

Why do people become defensive during conversations?

  • A) When they are overly confident
  • B) When they feel safe and respected
  • C) When they don’t feel safe or respected
  • D) When the content of the conversation is uninteresting
A

C

80
Q

What signifies that safety, not comfort, is at risk in a conversation?

  • A) People are able to converse without discomfort
  • B) Meaningful exchange stops flowing
  • C) Everyone is comfortable with the conversation topic
  • D) There is a mutual understanding on all points discussed
A

B

81
Q

Which action is recommended when you recognize safety is at risk during a conversation?

  • A) Continue to push your point across more forcefully
  • B) Withdraw from the conversation entirely
  • C) Look for signs and reengage your brain to address safety
  • D) Change the subject to something less controversial
A

C

82
Q

What is an essential step in addressing overpowering stories according to the text?

A) Reinforcing your initial viewpoint

B) Ignoring contradictory evidence

C) Separating facts from the story

D) Accepting stories as immutable facts

A

C

83
Q

According to the text, why do people fail to question their stories?

A) Because they don’t understand the underlying emotions

B) They lack the capacity to see other perspectives

C) They view these stories as unchangeable truths

D) They’re unaware that stories influence feelings

A

C

84
Q

V\What type of story involves seeing oneself as an innocent sufferer?

A) Villain stories

B) Victim stories

C) Hero stories

D) Helpless stories

A

B

85
Q

. How do villain stories typically characterize other people?

A) As innocent bystanders

B) As fundamentally decent

C) As villains with bad intentions

D) As allies in a common cause

A

C

86
Q

What is a common consequence of telling victim and villain stories?

A) Promoting understanding and forgiveness

B) Encouraging self-reflection and personal growth

C) Justifying one’s behavior and overlooking own faults

D) Building stronger relationships through empathy

A

C

87
Q

What does the text suggest is a problem with how we view our own mistakes versus others’?

A) We are more forgiving of others than ourselves

B) We attribute our own mistakes to pure intentions

C) We consistently apply double standards

D) We exaggerate our faults more than others’

A

B

88
Q

What kind of stories do we tell when we see ourselves as having no power over a situation?

A) Heroic stories

B) Rationalization stories

C) Helpless stories

D) Success stories

A

C

89
Q

What is the first step in learning to understand crucial conversations?

A) Always agreeing with others.

B) Learning to observe the process and content of conversations.

C) Ignoring the content of conversations.

D) Focusing solely on the content of conversations.

A

B

90
Q

What should you watch for to identify a conversation is turning critical?

A) When people are overly agreeable.

B) The exact moment people start to laugh.

C) Signs that people don’t feel safe.

D) When everyone is relaxed.

A

C

91
Q

Which of the following is a sign you’re having a crucial conversation?

A) People are completely silent.

B) Physical signs of stress in your body.

C) The conversation is easy and flowing.

D) Everyone agrees without discussion.

A

B

92
Q

According to the information, what immediate action should be taken when noticing safety problems during a dialogue?

A) Change the topic immediately.

B) Focus on winning the argument.

C) Turn attention to why others might not feel safe.

D) Encourage others to be silent.

A

C

93
Q

What does safety in a conversation allow?

A) For people to say anything they want, whenever they want.

B) For meaningful dialogues where people do not feel threatened.

C) For participants to always feel comfortable and unchallenged.

D) For people to become defensive and challenging.

A

b

94
Q

What happens when it’s unsafe to converse?

A) Conversations become more profound and meaningful.

B) People readily share their thoughts and feelings.

C) Individuals might start to ‘go blind’ to others’ perspectives.

D) Safety issues are quickly resolved.

A

c

95
Q

The text suggests managing safety problems by recognizing patterns of:

A) Innovation and creativity.

B) Silence and violence in response behaviors.

C) Constant agreement to avoid conflict.

D) Intense focus on solving the problem at hand

A

b

96
Q

What are the three most common forms of silence according to the information provided?

A) Masking, Avoiding, Withdrawing

B) Controlling, Labeling, Attacking

C) Discussing, Understanding, Leaving

D) Listening, Analyzing, Responding

A

a

97
Q

Which of the following best describes the form of silence that involves hiding our real opinions?

A) Masking

B) Avoiding

C) Withdrawing

D) Controlling

A

a

98
Q

Violence in conversations is characterized by:

A) Withdrawing from the conversation

B) Verbal strategies to convince or control others

C) Staying silent on sensitive issues

D) Making the conversation safe

A

B

99
Q

The act of coercing others to your way of thinking is known as:

A) Labeling

B) Attacking

C) Controlling

D) Avoiding

A

C

100
Q

Which of the following is NOT a sign of attempting to control a conversation?

A) Dominating the conversation

B) Changing the subject frequently

C) Speaking in absolutes

D) Acknowledging others’ opinions

A

D

101
Q

When is it appropriate to step out of a conversation to make it safe according to Chapter seven?

A) When the conversation turns to a sensitive subject

B) When someone starts to get upset

C) When the conversation ends

D) When your point has been made

A

B

102
Q

What is the key to rebuilding safety in a conversation when someone gets upset?

A) To continue talking without addressing their feelings

B) To stop talking and rebuild safety

C) To argue your point more vigorously

D) To withdraw from the conversation

A

B

103
Q

According to the information, what does safety in conversation depend on?

A) The content of the conversation

B) The intent behind the conversation

C) The volume of the conversation

D) The length of the conversation

A

B

104
Q

What are the two conditions of safety in conversations?

A) Mutual understanding and mutual benefits

B) Mutual purpose and mutual respect

C) Mutual interest and mutual agreements

D) Mutual goals and mutual admiration

A

B

105
Q

What is considered a fundamental starting point for establishing a mutual purpose in communication?

  • A) Monologuing your own interests
  • B) Seeking mutual understanding
  • C) Assuming shared goals without discussion
  • D) Avoiding discussions on values and interests
A

B

106
Q

If an individual does not share a mutual respect in a conversation, what approach is suggested?

  • A) Continuing the conversation with the same intensity
  • B) Focusing solely on your own perspective
  • C) Seeking mutual purpose as a typical conversation starter
  • D) Ignoring the lack of respect
A

C

107
Q

How do feelings of disrespect typically arise in communication according to the text?

  • A) By focusing on commonalities
  • B) Through mutual understanding
  • C) By dwelling on differences
  • D) Through shared goals and interests
A

C

108
Q

. Which of the following is NOT listed as one of the four scales used by the best at dialogue?

  • A) Share your negative intentions
  • B) Apologize when appropriate
  • C) Contrast to fix misunderstanding
  • D) Create a mutual purpose
A

A

109
Q

How should you initiate a conversation to ensure it is grounded in mutual respect and purpose?

  • A) By starting with an accusation
  • B) By sharing your good intent
  • C) By setting your personal goals first
  • D) By avoiding apologies
A

B

110
Q

What is a crucial element to consider when offering an apology in a conversation?

  • A) It should prioritize saving face
  • B) It must be based on a sincere change of heart
  • C) It should focus on winning the argument
  • D) It should avoid mentioning any misunderstanding
A

B

111
Q

. According to the provided information, why is it important to give up the desire to be right when apologizing?

  • A) To ensure the other person feels superior
  • B) To maintain a focus on personal gains
  • C) To center the conversation around mutual purpose
  • D) To diminish the importance of mutual respect
A

C

112
Q

What is the primary purpose of using contrast in communication?

  • A) To repeat what has already been said for emphasis
  • B) To highlight the differences between two statements for clarity
  • C) To fix misunderstandings by clarifying what is not intended
  • D) To provide entertainment through surprising statements
A

C

113
Q
  1. Why is the “don’t” part of a contrasting statement considered most important?
  • A) Because it provides a positive outlook on the conversation
  • B) Because it directly addresses potential safety risks associated with misunderstandings
  • C) Because it is easier to understand
  • D) Because it always comes first in the statement
A

B

114
Q

How is contrast used to aid in prevention?

  • A) By escalating a disagreement into a more significant argument
  • B) By ensuring that both parties use technical language only
  • C) By correcting misunderstandings before they happen based on past experiences
  • D) By encouraging the other person to speak less
A

C

115
Q

What are the four skills mentioned for creating a mutual purpose in dialogue?

  • A) Control, Respect, Intention, Bonding
  • B) Communicate, Relate, Initiate, Build
  • C) Commit, Recognize, Invent, Brainstorm
  • D) Convince, Reflect, Influence, Bind
A

C

116
Q

How does committing to seek a mutual purpose help in dialogue?

  • A) By allowing one party to dominate the conversation
  • B) By ensuring that both parties work towards a shared goal
  • C) By focusing on individual needs only
  • D) By sidestepping the need for compromise
A

B

117
Q

What is crucial about sharing your path in dialogue, according to Chapter 8?

  • A) Keeping your thoughts to yourself to avoid conflict
  • B) Speaking your mind completely in a way that keeps the conversation safe
  • C) Using technical jargon to impress the other party
  • D) Speaking in a way that makes the other person defensive
A

B

118
Q

What is a key trait of individuals who are adept at dialogue?

  • A) They often avoid difficult conversations.
  • B) They have the confidence to express necessary points.
  • C) They only focus on their own opinions.
  • D) They lack humility in discussions.
A

B

119
Q

The practice and repetition of a skill are important because:

  • A) They prevent any new learning.
  • B) They decrease a person’s confidence.
  • C) They help in acquiring and refining the skill.
  • D) They are irrelevant to skill development.
A

C

120
Q
  1. Why is it recommended to start a conversation by sharing facts?
  • A) Facts are more controversial and stimulate debate.
  • B) Facts are less likely to be accepted than personal stories.
  • C) Starting with facts lays a non-controversial foundation for dialogue.
  • D) Facts tend to end conversations quickly.
A

C

121
Q

What is advised when sharing your story in a dialogue?

  • A) Always begin with the story to grab attention.
  • B) Use the story to dominate the conversation.
  • C) Avoid starting with your story to ensure facts are discussed.
  • D) Make the story as detailed as possible to avoid confusion.
A

C

122
Q

How should one approach sharing potentially negative conclusions?

  • A) By sharing them anonymously.
  • B) With hesitation and minimal detail.
  • C) Confidently, understanding it’s part of meaningful dialogue.
  • D) Only after all other conversation topics have been exhausted
A

C

123
Q

What is crucial for maintaining safety within dialogue?

  • A) Ignoring any signs of safety issues.
  • B) Watching for signs that safety is deteriorating.
  • C) Encouraging confrontational behaviors.
  • D) Focusing solely on your own path without deviation
A

b

124
Q

What is the primary reason for talking tentatively according to the information provided?

  • A) To appear uncertain and weak
  • B) To make sure the message is not heard
  • C) Because one’s thoughts may not be absolutely true
  • D) To soften the message
A

c

125
Q

How does talking tentatively affect the message being delivered?

  • A) It undermines the strength of the message
  • B) It strengthens the message
  • C) It makes the message vague
  • D) It confuses the listener
A

B

126
Q

According to the information, why is it important to encourage testing in dialogue?

  • A) To make others feel unwelcome
  • B) To prove your point as the only truth
  • C) To reveal the speaker’s hidden motives
  • D) To invite and understand opposing views
A

D

127
Q

Why should one invite opposing views in a discussion?

  • A) To easily dismiss them
  • B) To demonstrate tolerance
  • C) To ensure a one-sided conversation
  • D) To show you value the input and perspective of others
A

D

128
Q

. When playing devil’s advocate, what should one’s attitude convey?

  • A) Indifference to the opposition’s views
  • B) Openness to the possibility of being wrong
  • C) Confidence that their original view is correct
  • D) A reluctance to entertain different perspectives
A

b

129
Q

What tends to undermine one’s influence in a dialogue when holding strong beliefs, according to the provided text?

  • A) Beginning with a complete disclaimer
  • B) Refusing to encourage others to test ideas
  • C) Using debating tricks and citing biased information
  • D) Encouraging a wide pool of meaning
A

C

130
Q

What is indicated as a failing strategy when one believes they possess the absolute truth in a discussion?

  • A) Expanding the pool of meaning
  • B) Encouraging open dialogue
  • C) Utilizing “dirty tricks” like exaggerating facts
  • D) Speaking tentatively
A

C

131
Q

According to the given information, which of the following is a recommended way to encourage open dialogue?

  • A. Demand honesty immediately
  • B. Insist on giving advice right away
  • C. Start with Heart and be sincere
  • D. Focus on solving the problem immediately
A

C

132
Q

What action is suggested to maintain curiosity during conversations?

  • A. Interrupt frequently to share personal experiences
  • B. Stay patient and allow time for emotional processing
  • C. Push for quick responses to avoid silence
  • D. Change the subject when it becomes uncomfortable
A

B

133
Q

How should one encourage others in the conversation according to the text?

  • A. Discourage them from exploring past events
  • B. Encourage them to retrace their path
  • C. Tell them what they should feel or think
  • D. Avoid discussing past decisions or actions
A

b

134
Q

What is the key reason for using mirroring in conversations?

  • A. To argue against the other person’s point
  • B. To make the conversation about yourself
  • C. To confirm feelings and enhance safety
  • D. To quickly end the conversation
A

C

135
Q

What is a crucial element to effective paraphrasing?

  • A. Repeating the other person’s words exactly
  • B. Putting it in your own words and remaining calm
  • C. Ignoring the emotional content of the message
  • D. Offering a solution to their problem
A

B

136
Q

When is it appropriate to use the technique of priming in a conversation?

  • A. When you completely understand the other person’s perspective
  • B. When the conversation is flowing smoothly
  • C. When you are getting nowhere and believe the other person has more to share
  • D. As soon as the conversation begins
A

c

137
Q

What is the first step in the ABC technique if you disagree with someone?

  • A. Argue to correct misconceptions immediately
  • B. Agree on common ground before discussing differences
  • C. Bypass the disagreement and change the subject
  • D. Critique the other person’s argument thoroughly
A

B

138
Q
  1. What is the initial step recommended when you find yourself in disagreement with someone’s point of view?
  • A) Indicate that the other person is wrong.
  • B) Immediately suggest your view as the correct one.
  • C) Compare the differing viewpoints to understand each perspective.
  • D) Leave the conversation to avoid conflict
A

C

139
Q
  1. How should you handle situations where your perspective differs from someone else’s?
  • A) Compare your views to identify differences and similarities.
  • B) Insist that your view is the only correct perspective.
  • C) Avoid discussing your viewpoint to keep peace.
  • D) Suggest the other person doesn’t understand the topic.
A

A

140
Q
  1. What is the encouraged behavior when someone leaves out key points in their argument?
  • A) Dismiss their argument as incomplete.
  • B) Take the opportunity to build and add the missing key points.
  • C) Highlight the weaknesses in their argument due to missing points.
  • D) Ignore the missing points and change the subject.
A

B

141
Q

. In a discussion, what should you do if you find yourself agreeing with another’s viewpoint?

  • A) Stay silent since you agree.
  • B) Disagree for the sake of argument.
  • C) Agree and look for opportunities to contribute additional relevant information.
  • D) Use the agreement to shift focus to your own unrelated points.
A

C

142
Q

According to the text, why is it important to think of your pen as the power to define your worth?

A) It emphasizes the significance of external validation.

B) It represents the control you have over your reactions to feedback.

C) It suggests that others should determine your value.

D) It highlights the role of criticism in personal growth.

A

B

143
Q

What does the phrase “If you live by the compliment, you will die by the criticism” imply?

A) Criticism is more impactful than compliments.

B) Relying on others’ approval can make criticism harder to accept.

C) Compliments and criticism have the same effect on a person.

D) One should avoid both compliments and criticism.

A

B

144
Q
  1. What are the two parts of the pen in the context of receiving feedback?

A) Safety and Worth

B) Compliments and Criticism

C) Acceptance and Denial

D) Writing and Erasing

A

A

145
Q

According to the text, feedback is only hurtful when it threatens what?

A) Our understanding of the truth.

B) Our psychological needs.

C) The content of the message.

D) The person providing feedback.

A

B

146
Q

What is NOT listed as an assumption about worth in the context of feedback?

A) Learning truth is an absolute good.

B) Feedback is always personal.

C) Others’ feedback can vary in truthfulness.

D) The more truth you know, the better you navigate life.

A

B

147
Q

What is the first step in the Feedback Cure as described?

A) Engage

B) Recover

C) Collect yourself

D) Understand

A

C

148
Q
  1. What are two reasons why we often fail to convert ideas into actions?
  • A) We have very clear expectations and excellent follow-through.
  • B) We have unclear expectations about decision-making and poor execution.
  • C) We lack ideas and thus cannot act on them.
  • D) Our decisions are always clear and acted upon efficiently.
A

B

149
Q

At which points during a Crucial Conversation is the risk of failure highest?

  • A) Only at the beginning because of the need to create safety.
  • B) Only at the end because conclusions might not be clarified.
  • C) In the middle when discussions peak in intensity.
  • D) Both at the beginning and at the end for reasons related to safety and clarification of conclusions.
A

D

150
Q

Which two problems are commonly encountered in decision-making?

  • A) How decisions will be made and whether decisions will be made.
  • B) Where the decisions will be made and who will execute them.
  • C) When decisions will be implemented and how they will be funded.
  • D) Why decisions are necessary and what their consequences may be.
A

A

151
Q

How can one avoid violated expectations in decision-making?

  • A) By ensuring dialogue and decision-making overlap as much as possible.
  • B) By making it clear how and by whom decisions will be made, separating dialogue from decision-making.
  • C) By allowing everyone to make decisions without a clear structure.
  • D) By avoiding decisions whenever possible to prevent any conflic
A

B

152
Q
  1. Which decision-making method involves consulting with others before making a choice?
  • A) Command
  • B) Consult
  • C) Vote
  • D) Consensus
A

B

153
Q

When is voting considered the best method for decision-making?

  • A) When the team cannot agree to support the decision made.
  • B) When the decision requires unanimous support.
  • C) When efficiency is valued and there are several good options.
  • D) When decisions do not require input from others.
A

C

154
Q

. Why should consensus only be used in certain situations?

  • A) It is always the most efficient method.
  • B) It ensures that decisions are made without discussing them.
  • C) It requires agreement and full support, making it unsuitable for all situations.
  • D) It is a great time saver.
A

C

155
Q

When considering methods of decision-making, determining who genuinely wants to be involved addresses which factor?

  • A) Who must agree
  • B) Who knows
  • C) Who cares
  • D) How many people it is worth involving
A

C

156
Q

Knowing who has the necessary expertise to make the best decision falls under which decision-making consideration?

  • A) Who cares
  • B) Who knows
  • C) Who must agree
  • D) How many people it is worth involving
A

B

157
Q
  1. When thinking about the need for authority or influence in a decision, which factor are you considering?
  • A) Who cares
  • B) Who knows
  • C) Who must agree
  • D) How many people it is worth involving
A

C

158
Q

The goal of including the fewest number of people while still maintaining decision quality touches on which consideration?

  • A) Who cares
  • B) Who knows
  • C) Who must agree
  • D) How many people it is worth involving
A

D

159
Q

When assigning tasks to ensure accountability, it is important to:

  • A) Assign the task to a group without a specific leader
  • B) Choose an individual for each responsibility
  • C) Assign tasks based on seniority only
  • D) Leave the assignment open for volunteers
A

B

160
Q

Which is a method to ensure clarity and accountability in task assignments?

  • A) Summarize the work verbally only
  • B) Document detailed conclusions and decisions
  • C) Assume understanding without clarification
  • D) Avoid follow-ups to allow independence
A

B

161
Q

The practice of agreeing on the frequency and method of follow-up for an assignment is part of what crucial step?

  • A) Deciding who does what
  • B) Determining how you will follow up
  • C) Assigning names to each task
  • D) Summarizing the assignment only at the end
A

B

162
Q

At the end of a crucial conversation, which action is recommended to move towards implementation?

  • A) Waiting for someone to volunteer for tasks
  • B) Assigning tasks without follow-up
  • C) Summarizing, identifying an action, and making a plan for follow-up
  • D) Discussing unrelated topics to ease tension
A

C

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