Creating The Life We Want Flashcards
6 questions to create life we want
What is it u want to create
What are your strengths and abilities u have to move forward?
What skill will enhance your success on accomplishing your goal?
What supports will enhance your success?
What might get in your way as u move forward with that goal?
What would the first 3 to 5 steps toward your goal look like?
2 parts of human experience language
1st person language
Everyday nonclinical language
3 risks of not using HEL
Supports false assumptions
Creates power differences
Limits personal choice
What are some examples of hope when using Hel
Supports self determination
Puts person 1st
Focuses on strength and potential
In movement to recovery what are examples of maintenance based
Dependant
Low expectations
Illness based
In movement to recovery what are recovery based examples
Independence
High expectations
Strength based
Golden questions in trauma
What happened to u?..explores world view Vs
What’s wrong with you? Suggests a disability or problem
What happened to you explores what
World view
Whats wrong with you implies what?
Something is wrong or disorder
Difference between maintenance based and recovery based
Living in fear and Living in hope
Maintenance..dependant upon, low expectations, illness based
Recovery..independent, high expectations, strength based
What are 5 areas of a trauma informed environment?
Safety..creating environment
Trustworthiness..clear expectations w others
Choice..am I creating a choice environment
Collaboration..sharing is center of interaction
Empowerment..built up .fostering environment where ppl own strength
3core competencies
Peer support ..being w /listening
In but not of the system ..not taking on system language
Change agent..change beliefs, inspire, create new
3 things ppl maybe recovering from?
“The d list “
Diseased
Disability
Disfunction
What does it mean to be mutual ?
Your not the fixer,u share common lived experience
3 elements of cross cultural partnership?
Learning yourself ..what are my beliefs, bias
Learning cultures ..what are the cultures and languages
Learning individual..avoid assumptions
Describe culture
Shared values, behavior, traditions
3 examples of discrimination
Homophobia
Racism
Transphobia
What is the big question when using the moving through fear tool?
What would you do if you weren’t afraid?
What are u getting by staying in your comfort zone?
What are u giving up by not expanding your comfort zone?
Examples of good things about fear
Useful in questionable situations
Can keep us safe
Keeps us in a familiar place
Why is fear bad
Keeps us from leaving our comfort zone and not exploring the possibility of change.
Avoids taking risks and moving forward
What is comfort zone
A place that is known and familiar
Feels safe
We know what to expect
There is rarely any growth
What is negative self talk?
A pattern of thought that creates feelings that prevent us from achieving what we want
How does moving through fear tools inspire hope
Creates a space to explore w out feeling overwhelmed
What tool do I use to eliminate negative self talk
Moving through fear tool
Change agent..how does organizational change accure?
- Being in a position that gives power
- allying with ppl of power
- using your personal experience
- emphasizing worthiness
What are the 5 parts to facilitate change?
1.who can make it happen 2 identify barriers 3.identify strategy 4.partner with ppl who support you 5.evaluate progress
4 ways change happens
. Being w
. Allying w
. Using personality, lived experience, resources
. Emphasizing worthiness
4 support principles of change are
. Ppl who disagree are not an enemy
. Pick ur battles
. Be the example
. Get your own support
What is the importance of a recovery story?
. Build connections . Support to feel heard . Inspire hope . Share resources .advocate for change
What do Snippets support
. Connection . Validation . Offers hope . Offers skills,supports, and resources . All the above
Why do we share our recovery story?
Build connections Support someone to feel heard Inspire hope Share resources Advocate for change
What are 6 questions to help prepare for a recovery story
What is my purpose How much time do I have What is the risk to myself What is the risk to others Am I telling it for the benefit of others
Wgat does RAPTOR MEAN
Risk to others Audience Purpose Time Other..for their benefit Risk to self
Recovery stories are a great tool ..why?
To build connections and inspire hope, advocate change
What are three differences between hopelessness and Recovery story
Recovery..hope, describes challenges but moves forward. Focusing on healing
Hopelessness..getting stuck in the negative, Focusing on negative..disabled
PCI stands for
Power conflict and integrity
3 examples of PCI
.create common ground
. Use first person language
. Listen to all sides
.this tool is used to support you through a difficult communication
Code of ethics 1
Self determination
Integrity
Ability to really hold true to ourselves
Speaks to Ability to remain in but not if the system
Offers more effective way to peer support
4 steps of PCI power conflict and integrity
1 observe and affirm persons perspective
2 share lived experience
3 offer statement of common ground
4 suggest 3rd alternative/plan
Examples of observing or affirming
It sounds like….
I understand that you..
I appreciate your commitment
Your partnership is vital
Examples of ways u might build connection
Listening
Sharing
Validating
Ways to explore world view
Listen and ask questions
3 things that help u learn about someone’s world view
Doing with
Being with
Sharing with and listening to
2 things to build connection
Explore world view and listen
Fueling dissatisfaction tool is used when..
Intent of helping someone get intouch w feelings of discomfort
6 questions to ask when fueling discomfort tool is used
. R u feeling dissatisfied?
. How dissatisfied r u?
. Do the feelings make u want things to be different ?
.what are the upsides ?
. Whose in support of the change and who isnt?
. How would u prepare for change?
How is fueling the satisfaction different from problem solving
About supporting people to explore their life. Looking for a start of the satisfaction that you might be able to help energize person to move forward again
How does fueling dissatisfaction Inspire hope
Supports someone to get in touch w their desire for a fuller life
What is PICBBA stand for
Problem Impact Cost Benefit Brainstorm Action