Conflict Management Flashcards
CQ Cognition – culture-general & culture-specific knowledge
Understand & apply cultural attributions
What cultural rules are in conflict?
Describe how the selected cultural value(s) is/are making the situation awkward?
CQ Metacognition – awareness, perspective-taking
Make situational judgments of people and situations
Taking perspectives, what are the characters
1. Feeling
2. Thinking (Position)
3. Wanting (Interest)
CQ Behavior - speech acts, verbal and non-verbal flexibility
Deliberate on strategies to arrive at win-win resolutions
What should they say to maintain relationship
and complete the task on hand?
Describe actions (speech acts, verbal and nonverbal behaviors).
CQ Motivation – approach or avoid
What is at stake if conflict is not managed/resolved?
Culutral attribution
-> Subjective values
- Individualism vs Collectivsm
- Power distance
- Uncertrainity avoidance
- High context / low context
- Masculinity / Feminity
- Doing being
- Long term / short term
Perspective taking
Thinking -> Position
Wanting -> Interest
Feeling -> Identity
* activated / deactivated
* pleasant / unpleasant
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Reduce tension (RT)
Reduce Tension (RT)
* Manage Emotions: recognizie self and / or other’s emotion
* Time out: take a break
* Change scenery: go somewhere else
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Repair Relationship (RR)
- Bulid solidarity: refreame situation as we instead of I
- apologise: acknowledge that harm was done and show regret
- conduct humble inquiry: ask questions to better understand the other part, show curiosity and interest in the other person / view
- give accounts: offer information that the other part may not know; self-disclosure, knowlege sharing
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CQ Influence Skills
Soft Tactic (S)
* Inspirational Appeal
* Consultation
* Ingratiation
* Socailizing
* Personal Appeal
Rational Tactics (R)
* Rational Persuasion
* Exchange
Hard Tactics (H)
* Pressure
* Legitimating
* Coalition
Conflict Resolution Strategies
Soft Tactic
-> Inspirational appeal
Appealing to values, ideal and aspirations.
-> This project is goint go change the world.
Conflict Resolution Strategies
Soft Tactic
-> Consulation
Seeing participation in planning a strategy, acvtivity or change.
-> How about extending the deadline?
Conflict Resolution Strategies
Soft Tactic
-> Ingratiation / positive feelings
Actively increasing others’ positive feelings and regard toward self through acts such as complimenting.
-> “You are the best in the area, no-one can do
this better than you. Please help.”
Conflict Resolution Strategies
Soft tactic
-> Socializing
To interact with or entertain the target in a friendly manner, such as talking about a subject that is irrelevant to the request but of interest to the target (i.e., small talk) or taking the target to non-work setting.
-> “Let’s head out for tea.”
Conflict Resolution Strategies
Soft tactic
-> Personal appeal
Appealing to a person’s feelings of loyalty and friendship,or
appealing for a personal favor.
-> Would you do this for me?”
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Rational Tactic
-> Rational persuasion
Use logical arguments and factual evidence to persuade that the request is reasonable.
-> “95% of our clients have responded positively
to this approach.”