Communication Flashcards
Why do we communicate?
We are wired for communication.
Communication and relationships are rewarding.
To fulfill social, physical and identity needs and achieve practical goals.
Physical needs and communication
Negative relationships have negative affects on health.
Marriage, friends, religious and community ties increase longevity.
Positive relationships increase memory, increase intellectual function, and decrease stress hormones.
Identity needs and communication
We enter the world with no identity and we learn about ourselves from others. Interactions with other people help us learn about ourselves from seeing how people react to us. No communication leads to no sense of self.
Social needs and communication
Communication helps satisfy need for pleasure, affection, companionship, escape, relaxation and control. People with a rich social life are happy. However, there is a decline in close relationships. Educated people tend to have larger and more diverse networks.
Practical goals
They are instrumental goals that aim at getting things done. Some are basic and some are more important. Effective communication increases career success. Skills such as speaking, listening, reading, writing, problem solving, positive attitudes, positive behaviour and adaptability are all important.
Maslow’s hierarchy of needs (bottom up)
Physical needs, safety needs, social needs, self-esteem, self-actualization.
Linear communication model
Communication is a one-way event where the sender encodes a message, sends it through a channel where it is received by the receiver who must decode it while dealing with noise.
Transactional communication model
Communication is ongoing and irreversible. Both people are sender and receiver at the same time, while in a different and overlapping environment.
Environment
Experience and cultural background that lead a person to make sense of another person’s behaviour. it is not always obvious.
How does environment effect communication?
A smaller shared environment increases difficulty in communication.
Noise
Distractions that interfere with transmission. It ca be external, physiological or psychological.
Interpersonal communication
Continuous transactional process involving participants with different and overlapping environments, who create relationships with the exchange of messages, many of which are effected by noise.
Communication principles
- It can be intentional or unintentional.
- It is irreversible.
- It’s not impossible.
- It is unrepeatable.
- It has context and relational dimensions.
Communication misconceptions
- More is always better.
- Meanings are in words.
- Successful communication always involves understanding.
- Single person can cause another person’s reactions.
- It solves all problems.
Quantitive definition of interpersonal interaction
Interpersonal communication is face to face between two people.
Impersonal communication
Treats people as objects as opposed to individuals.
Qualitive definition of interpersonal communication
Parties consider each other unique individuals. It is characterized by minimal use of labels, unique idosyncratic rules and high exchange of information.
Relational culture
Describes people in close relationships who create their own unique ways of interacting.
Features of qualitative interpersonal relationships
- Irreplacability
- Interdependence
- Uniqueness
- Disclosure
- Intrinsic rewards
Balance of personal and impersonal
Most relationships fall on a spectrum. The balance in relationships changes overtime.
Mediated communication
The use of computer based tools for human interaction.
Benefits to mediated communication
- It does not threaten relationships.
- Families are more likely to stay in touch.
- It enriches networks between generations.
- Asynchronous nature allows connection in different time zones.
- It promotes and reinforces communication.
Challenges of mediated communication
- Leaner messages from lack of nonverbal cues, careful management of identity or hyper personal interactions.
- Disinhibition
- Permanence
Communication competence
The ability to accomplish personal goals so it enhances and maintains relationships.
Characteristics of communication competence
- There is no ideal way.
- It is situational.
- It is relational.
- It can be learned.
Characteristics of competent communicators
- They have a wide range of behaviours.
- Ability to choose appropriate behaviours according to context, goals and knowledge of person.
- Skills at performing behaviours.
- Cognitive capacity
- Empathy
- Self monitoring
- Commitment
Competence in Intercultural Communication
- Motivation to communicate with other cultures.
- Tolerance for ambiguity
- Open mindedness
- Knowledge and skills
Communication in the workplace
On the job communication can affect life and death. There are clashes between generations who value hierarchy and those who value teamwork.
Organizational communication theory
Communication activities create patterns that affect organizational life.
Active listening
Giving careful and thoughtful attention and responses when we receive messages. It involves paraphrasing what someone says and giving a thoughtful response.
Critical listening
Evaluating and judging messages
Empathetic listening
Mutual trust and understanding about what someone said.
Hearing
Physiological dimension of hearing influenced by background noise.
Attending
Process of filtering out some messages and focusing on others.
Understanding
Making sense of a message received.
Listening fidelity
Degree of congruence between what the listener understood and what sender conveys.
Responding
Giving observable feedback to speaker. We respond as we receive.
Sender
Creator of message
Encode
Put message into words
Decode
Making sense of a message
Medium
Where message passes from sender to receiver.
Characteristics of any relationship
- Affinity: appreciation for each other.
- Immediacy: degree of intent or intention.
- Respect: need to be held esteem by others.
- Control: degree influence of one person.
Meta communication
Message that exchanges information about the relationship. It is helpful for solving problems.
Types of relationships
- Social: short time and intimacy
- Close: friend, romantic, marital, family
- Therapeutic: purposeful and direct; helper/helpee
Open question
Allows for variety of answers and expressions of how one thinks and feels
Closed question
Yes or no questions