Communication 2 Flashcards
What are the 3 goals of counseling
Provide support
Provide information
Help initiate behavior change
What is basic counseling
Listening is not passive. It is important to indicate that the person is being heard
Good counseling skills means listening before acting to solve problems
List the verbal listening skills
Show interest Gather information Encourage speaker to develop ideas Communicate our understanding of ideas Request clarification of understanding Build the therapeutic alliance
Wha is active listening
Active listening by clinician encourages the client to share information by providing verbal and nonverbal expressions of interest
List the active listening skills
Clarifying
Paraphrasing
Reflection of feeling
Summarizing
What is attending
Attending is expressing awareness and interest in what the client is communicating both verbally and non verbally
How does attending help the clinician
Better understand the client through careful observation
How does attending help the client
Relax and feel comfortable
Express their ideas and feelings freely in their own way
Trust the counselor
Take a more active role in their own session
What does proper attending involve
Appropriate eye contact, facial expression
Maintaining a relaxed posture and leaning forward occasionally, usually natural hand and arm movements
Verbally “following” the client, using a variety of brief encouragements such as “uhm-hm” or “yes” or by repeating key words
Observing the clients body language
What are the required listening postures? SOLER
Squarely :adopt a posture that indicates involvement
Open:crossed arms and legs can lessen signs of involvement or availability
Lean forward: indicates greater interest
Eye contact : maintain(culturally) appropriate eye contact
Relax : not fidgety movements or distracting facial movements. Use your body as a vehicle of expression
What’s is not enough?
Looking like you’re listening is not enough
What are some of the ways we can clarify
Ask open questions
-generally start with “what” , “how” , “why” or “could”
Questions serve to:
- father lots of general information
- encourage discussion
What are closed questions
Generally start with “is” “are” or “do”
Serve to:
- gather lots of specific information quickly
- tend to close down discussion
What are encouragers of communication
“Yes I understand” or repeat a word or two of what was said
Serve to:
-encourage further discussion
What is differentiating
Understanding whether:
-is the person is asking for information OR is the person expressing concern ?
What is paraphrasing
Briefly restate the content of the discussion
Reflective listening
- check your understanding
- show that you heard what was said
Acknowledge and accept feelings without judging
How does paraphrasing help the clinician
Verify their perceptions of the clients statements spotlight an issue
How does paraphrasing help the client
Realize that the counselor understands what they are saying
Clarify their remarks
Focus on what is import