Comm 1081 Flashcards
What is communication
A process by which people share ideas, experience, knowledge, feelings
How do we communicate
Written and spoken words, body language, pictures/ symbols, facial expression
Why do we NEED to communicate?
Needs:
Physical
Social
Identify
Practical
Physical needs (what do we communicate)
Hungry, thirsty, in pain…
Identity needs (what do we communicate)
Sense of identity—from the way we communicate and interact with others
Social needs (what do we communicate)
Pleasure
Affection
Companionship
Escape
Relaxation
Control
Practical needs (what do we communicate)
Instrumental goals
-goals aimed at getting others to behave in desired way
Career success
-identified basic communication needs
What are MASLOW’s HEIRARCHY OF NEEDS
(bottom-top)
Lowest: physiological needs
Safety
Love & belonging
Self-esteem
Self-actualization
Self-transcendence
In Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, what do we need met/satisfy first
Lowest-level which is the physiological needs must be met and satisfied first before higher order ones are activated
_____ is a CONTINUOUS TRANSACTIONAL process involving participants who occupy different, but overlapping environments and create relationships through the exchange of _____ by ____, ____, and _____ noise
Interpersonal communcation
Words
External, physiological, psychological (noise)
What are Process of communication (4)?
Inter - other people
Extra- environment, objects
Peri- device, interface
Infra- self, thoughts, reflection
What are the two views of interpersonal communication?
- Quantitative interpersonal communication
- Qualitative interpersonal communication
This type of interpersonal communication is usually done face-to-face between individuals
Quantitative interpersonal communication
* 2 people interacting = DYAD
This type of interpersonal communication occurs when people treat one another UNIQUE INDIVIDUALS regardless of the context or the number of people involved
Qualitative interpersonal communication
5 communication principles
- Intentional/ unintentional
- Irreversible
- Impossible not to communicate
- Ongoing process
- Has content and relational dimensions
What principle of communication is this?
- we plan our words carefully before asking for a big favour/ offering a criticism
*can be non-verbal messages
Intentional or unintentional communication
What principle of communication is this?
*words said and deeds done are irretrievable
(explanation can be done for misunderstanding)
Communication is Irreversible
What principle of communication is this?
When we communicate all the time, but may not always be accurately interpreted
Impossible not to communicate
What principle of communication is this?
Ongoing process making it impossible to repeat an event
Communication is unrepeatable/ irreversible
What principle of communication is this?
Most exchanges operate on two levels:
Content and relational
Types of noise in the process of communication (3)
- External noise (running motors, smoke, temperature, visual distraction)
- Physiological noise ( pain, hunger, visual problems, fatigue, hearing loss)
- Psychological noise (embarrassment, anger, disappointment, nervousness)
Models of communication (3)
- Transmission model
- Interaction model
- Transaction model
What model of communication is this?:
Focus is on the sender and the message
“Noise” may interfere with message
Transmission model
What model of communication is this?:
There is presence of feedback
Both people are sender and receiver
Presence of both physical and psychological
Interaction model
What model of communication is this?: Communication is more than a process used to create meaning
Social realities
Social and cultural context is carefully considered
Transactional model
It is a form to communicating and presenting ourselves
Outside-public self (what they can see: appearance)
Inside- private self (what you know about yourself, but others don’t)
Self-concept bag
How does communication competence help to better our communication skills?
1, motivation and open-mindedness
2. Knowledge of other cultures and mindfulness
Characteristics of Competent communication: 5
*Ability to perform skillfully (practice)
*Involvement (caring about person and topic)
*empathy and perspective taking (thinking and feeling)
*cognitive complexity (consider multiple points of view)
*self-monitoring (self-awareness while communicating)
What are the qualities of good communicator?
- Warmth (facial expression, tone of voice)
2.genuine (be real, honest, tone matches words - Openness (be candid, has a sense of humour)
- Empathetic (tune in to their feelings, understand their perspective)
Give some 5 characteristics of Competent communication
Involvement (being in the present)
Empathy and perspective taking (reflection)
Self-monitoring (self-awareness)
Choice (language and tone)
Cognitive complexity (ability to consider diff. Points of view)
Ability to change
Practice
Give some 5 characteristics of Competent communication
Involvement (being in the present)
Empathy and perspective taking (reflection)
Self-monitoring (self-awareness)
Choice (language and tone)
Cognitive complexity (ability to consider diff. Points of view)
Ability to change
Practice
Qualities of good communicator (4)
Empathetic
Genuineness
Openness
Warmth
Steps to good communication
Provide a calm situation (minimize noise and distractions)
Approach slowly from the FRONT
Get attention (name, touch, eye contact)
Converse at eye level
Use a calm and controlled voice
Keep it short
Be sure you are understood
Use visual cues
A term used to communicate to the other person that you are ready, willing and able to listen
Attending skills
How do you convey attending skills? At least 5
Open posture
Make an eye-contact
Face the speaker
Nodding your head
Wait for the speaker to stop before speaking
Keep hands and feet still
Ignore distractions
Focus on what is being said
Ask questions