Comm 105 Final Flashcards
Personal Relationship
An irreplaceable relationship defined by uniqueness, rules, relationship dialectics, and commitment.
Social Relationship
A replaceable relationship that tends to follow broad social scripts and rules
Constitutive Rules
Communication rules that specify how certain communicative acts are to be interpreted
Regulative Rules
Communication rules that regulate interaction by specifying when, how, where, and with whom to talk about certain things
Relationship Dialectics
The tensions between opposing forces or tendencies that are normal parts of all relationships
Autonomy
Dialectic that involves a desire for independence and to be separate from one another
Connection
Dialectic that involves a desire for closeness to one another
Novelty
Dialectic that involves a desire for spontaneity and unpredicatbility
Predictability
Dialectic that involves a desire for routine and familiar experiences
Openness
Dialectic that involves a desire to share private thoughts, feelings, and experiences with one another
Closedness
Dialectic that involves a desire for privacy
Neutralization
Balancing or finding a compromise between two dialectical differences
Separation
Addresses one dialectic need and ignores the other need
Segmentation
Assigning different dialectics to be used in certain situations
Reframing
Reinterprets opposite dialectics to not be in contradiction to one another
Relational Equity Theory
A theory that people are happier when partners believe that the benefits and the costs of the relationship are equal for both members
Psychological Responsibility
An obligation to remember, plan, and coordinate domestic work and child care
Communication Climate
The overall feeling, or emotional mood, between people
Confirmation
Expressed value for other people
Recognition
Expression of awareness of another person’s existence
Acknowledgment
Attentiveness to what another person feels, thinks, and/or says
Endorsement
Communicating acceptance of another person’s thoughts or feelings
Defensive Climate
Relational climate in which one or more people become defensive or have a lack of communication due to lack of respect or power
Supportive Climate
Relational climate in which all members can speak freely because of all-around respect and equality
Evaluation
Evaluating how others feel without empathy. Defensive
Description
Describes behaviors without passing judgment. Supportive
Certainty
Suggesting only one valid answer, point of view, or course of action. Defensive
Provisionalism
Tentative language that allows openness to other points of view. Supportive
Strategy
Communication aimed at manipulating a person or group for some benefit. Defensive
Spontaneity
Asking for a favor in an open, honest, respectful way while not being manipulative. Supportive
Control
Disrespectful communication that attempts to coerce others. Defensive
Problem-Orientation
Respectfully fostering an open interaction climate to reduce conflict. Supportive
Neutrality
Implies indifference to others and what they say. Defensive
Empathy
Confirms the worth of others and shows concern for their thought and feelings. Supportive
Superiority
Holding power over another to belittle them. Defensive
Equality
Facilitating a fair and level environment that supports everyone’s thoughts and beliefs. Supportive
Ethnocentrism
The tendency to assume one way of life is normal and superior to other ways of life
Overt Conflict
People express indifferences in a straightforward manner to address a conflict
Covert Conflict
People avoid direct confrontation of a conflict
Conflict Orientation
Ways in which to view conflict, three types
Lose-Lose Orientation
Assuming everyone loses when conflict occurs
Lose-Win Orientation
Assuming one person wins and the other(s) loses when conflict occurs
Win-Win Orientation
Assuming everyone will gain something from the conflict
Conflict Responses
Ways in which to respond to conflict
Exit
Leaving the conflict physically or psychologically (Active/Destructive)
Neglect
Denying or minimizing the conflict (Passive/Destructive)
Voice
Focuses on directly dealing with conflicts and manages indifferences. Potentially most constructive response (Active/Constructive)
Loyalty
Staying committed to a relationship despite differences (Passive/Constructive)
Aggressive Language
Demanding and selfish confrontational language
Assertive Language
Respectful confrontational language. Can be firm and unapologetic
Deferential Language
Confrontational language that disrespects your own feelings and not the needs others
Culture (Wood Definition)
“The beliefs, understandings, practices, and ways of interpreting experience that is shared by a group of people,” (Wood 153).
Surface-Level View of Culture
Patterns and behaviors viewable in a culture
Deep-Level View of Culture
Assumptions which govern surface-level behaviors
Social Community
A group of people who live within a dominant culture yet also belong to another social group(s) that share values, understandings, and practices distinct of those of the dominant culture
Intersectionality
Looking how different systems of inequality may influence each other
Uncertainty Reduction Theory
The theory that people find uncertainty uncomfortable which motivates people to use communication to reduce uncertainty