Charisma Flashcards

1
Q

What is the first emotion you have to evoke?

A

Enthusiasm

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2
Q

2nd emotion you have to evoke

A

Trust

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3
Q

3rd emotion you have to evoke

A

Respect

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4
Q

4th emotion you have to evoke

A

Interest

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5
Q

Building trust

A

Rapport, touch, eye-contact, show palms, reveal something potentially embarrassing

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6
Q

Best types of humor

A

Positive, heightening of the other. Even over the top.
Call-back humor, creating of sense of rapport (inside jokes, memes)
I’m/you’re a professional
Themes/phrases

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7
Q

String through spine

A

Visualize a string attached to the top of your head lifting the weight of your head off your shoulders that goes down through the spine.

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8
Q

Softners

A

“I’m curious” or “As someone with your experience/role, what is your advice”

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9
Q

Strategic objectives in monologues

A

Always have objectives to follow. (eg. fun, help, promotion, call to action)

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10
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Best compliments

A

Truthful, specific and earned.

Something that people actively struggle with or for.

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11
Q

Getting people to talk about their interest

A

How do you like x?

What specifically do you like about x?

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12
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Hook for any follow-up

A

“You’re gonna love this”

They become personally invested

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13
Q

How to handle serious topics

A

FIRST: you should generally bring about things that positive and enjoyable.
IF NOT: wrap the ideas in a story

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14
Q

How to not get cut out

A

Pause mid sentences, not only end sentences. It will let people get used to your pauses and don’t necessarily think you’re done.

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