Chapters 8, 10, and 12 Flashcards
How are fear and anger related to fight or flight
Fear is flight, anger is fight. They can serve a protective function
Define somaticizing
The body’s way of turning mental stress into a physical manifestation
How many physician visits are related to physical symptoms caused by emotions
As many as half
Wayne Dyer states that one of which two emotions is associated with every stressor we perceive
Guilt or worry
What are the most ineffective coping techniques for stress management
Guilt and worry
Define guilt
The preoccupation with undesirable past thoughts and behaviors
Define worry
A manifestation of fear that keeps the mind focused on events that are yet to come
Define anxiety
The physiological and psychological response to worry
Define fear
A state of escalated worry and apprehension that causes distinct physical and emotional reactions
7 things you can do to manage worry
- Most of our worries are out of our control
- Worry is not the same as caring
- Worry is not the same as planning
- Most things we worry about never happen
- Write down your worries
- Be mindful
- Worry is a habit
Ways to relieve test anxiety
Prepare in advance, expressive write before the test, ask questions, get plenty of sleep, eat healthy, exercise, do relaxation techniques
What does fear cause us to avoid
Pain, danger, and discomfort
Types of fear
Change, pain, failure, a specific thing, the unknown, death
Comfort zones
Any place, situation, relationship, or experience where we do not feel threatened
Discomfort zones
Places where we do not naturally gravitate towards and feel safe
Is there pain in discomfort zones
No, there is no pain in discomfort zones
Is our natural inclination to be in our comfort or discomfort zones?
Comfort zones
Four principles for understanding fear
- Fear can motivate positive action
- Nothing in the world is inherently fearful
- Fear is learned
- We can learn to overcome our fears
Most of what we learn to fear is a result of what
Personal experience or someone else’s experience
T/F: fear can be unlearned
True
We can reinforce the feeling of assurance that we can handle whatever comes our way by looking at?
Our past experiences
4 part strategy for overcoming fear
- Admit you are afraid
- Confront your fear
- Do whatever you are afraid of 3 times
- Call your fear something else
The stronger our faith, the less our_____
Fear
Define anger
An emotional response basesd on the way one chooses to think about events
Anger is triggered by _____
Perceived mistreatment
3 factors that contribute to our ever-increasing anger
Time, technology, tension
3 physiological responses to anger
Increased heart rate, increased blood pressure, decreased immune function, increased cholesterol levels, increased cortisol levels
T/F: The effects of anger may be more dangerous to health than the stress response
True
Why do we get angry?
Something happened differently than the way we think it should have
Anger is a reaction when our _______ are not met
Expectations
Every time you have been angry, it was because you were not getting _________
Your way
Is expressing anger always healthy?
No, it depends on how you express it