Chapters 1-10 Flashcards
Credibility
Your reputation for being trustworthy
3 parts to it:
Competence
Caring
Character
Competence
The ability to do something successfully or efficiently
- One of the three competences to credibility
Establish Competence:
- Through study, observation, and practice
- Through real-world business experiences
- In the ways you communicate with others
- Focusing on action
Emphasizing results
Caring
Understand the interests of others.
Cultivate a sense of community.
Give to others and show generosity.
Community and Teamwork
- Is recognized by effective corporate business leaders
- Engenders trust and helps you find mutually beneficial solutions and opportunities
- Demonstrates generosity
Character
The actions one takes
High Character Characteristics:
- Consistent and of high integrity
- Values all stakeholders
Most important determinants of trust in the workplace:
- Honesty
- Ethical behavior
- Transparency and knowledge sharing
High character results in trust
FAIR
FACTS
- Truth with NO slanting; Clear Assumptions
ACCESS
- Do recipients have access to info to make decisions and provide input?
IMPACTS
-Have you thought about how the message will impact various stakeholders and evaluated ethical, corporate, and legal perspectives?
RESPECT
- Have you demonstrated respect and value for the inherent worth of others: their aspirations, thoughts, feelings, and well-being, used inclusive language, and avoided avoids stereotypes?
Most important skills to managers
Ability to inspire others
Adaptability
Analytical abilities
Core business knowledge
Cross-cultural sensitivity
Drive
Integrity
Listening skills
Oral communication
Presentation skills
Written communication
Interpersonal Communication Process
Sending and receiving verbal and nonverbal messages between two or more people.
The exchange of simultaneous and mutual messages to share and negotiate meaning between those involved.
Meaning
Encoding
Decoding
One goal = shared meaning
Barriers
interpersonal Communication Process
Noise:
- Physical noise (external noise)
- Physiological noise (internal noise: sicknesses, hearing)
- Semantic noise (meanings of words)
- Psychological noise (attitudes, emotions)
Filter of Lifetime Experiences
Accumulation of knowledge, values, expectations, and attitudes based on prior personal experiences.
Emotional Hijacking
Situations where emotions control behavior, causing reactions without thinking.
Emotional Intelligence (EQ)
Single best predictor of workplace performance
- Understanding and managing emotions to serve goals.
- Empathizing and effectively handling relationships with others
Domains to EQ
Self-Awareness
Self-Management
Empathy
Relationship Management
Active Listening
A person’s willingness and ability to hear and understand.
Active Listening Components:
- Paying attention
- Holding judgment
- Reflecting
- Clarifying
- Summarizing
- Sharing
Barriers to Effective Listening
- Lack of Time
- Lack of Patience and Attention span
- Image of Leadership
- Communication Technology
- Fear of Bad News or uncomfortable Information
- Defending
- “Me Too” Statements
- Giving Advice
- Judging
How to Be a Better Listener
- Have a Learner mindset
- Ask Rapport-building questions
- Learn to Sight-Read (nonverbal cues)
- Ask Funnel questions
- Ask Probing questions
- Do not ask leading, disguised, or cross-examination questions
- Read Nonverbal Cues
Introverts vs extroverts
Introverts:
Tend to get much of their stimulation and energy from their own thoughts, feelings, and moods.
Extroverts:
Tend to get much of their stimulation and energy from external sources such as social interaction.
Use your awareness of emotions to manage interactions = relationships management
Incivility
Rude behaviors that violate norms for respect: disrespecting, disregarding or ignoring others
- Incivility is common in the workplace.
- Many employees who are targets of incivility lose work time or leave their jobs.
Communication skills
(most important skills)
1. oral communication
2. listening skills
- written communication
- presentation skills
Teamwork skills
- Adaptability
- Value opinions of others
- Follow a leader
- Cross cultural sensitivity
Leadership skills
- Integrity
- Drive
- Innovation & creativity
- Ability to inspire others
Technical skills
- Quantitative analysis
- Qualitative analysis
- Core business knowledge
Principles of team communication
- Focus on performance.
- Go through four stages to reach high performance.
- Build a work culture around values, norms and goals.
- Meet often.
- Focus on psychological safety and ensure all voices are heard.
- Recognize and actively seek to avoid groupthink.
- Embrace diversity.
- Solve problems and generate creative solutions.
- Provide positive feedback and evaluate performance often.
Stages of development in teams
Forming
- team members focus on gaining acceptance and avoiding conflict
Storming
- team members open up about their competing ideas of how the team should work
Norming
- team arrives at a plan including roles, goals, and accountabilites
Preforming
- team operates efficiently towards accomplishing its goals
Team culture
Shared perceptions and commitment to collective values, norms, roles, responsibilities, and goals.
Typically during the norming stage.
Team charter
Provides direction to the team.
Identifies purpose or mission statements, values, goals, team member roles, tasks, ground rules, communication protocol, meeting protocol, decision-making rules, conflict resolution, and feedback mechanisms.
Divergence
Working independently can increase the number of ideas and solutions generated.
Convergence
Evaluating the proposed ideas and solutions and narrowing them to a small set of feasible solutions to address the problem.
Psychological Safety
semplathy for others; provide equal opportunities, respect)
Groupthink
(self-censorship based on collective rationalization)
Inherent diversity vs acquired diversity
Inherent diversity involves traits you are born with, such as gender, ethnicity, and sexual orientation.
Acquired diversity involves traits you gain from experience: Working in another country can help you appreciate cultural differences
How to show cultural respect
- Making sure everyone is heard.
- Making it safe to let team members express novel ideas.
- Giving team members decision-making authority.
- Sharing credit.
- Giving useful feedback.
- Putting feedback into action.
When planning for meetings …
- Purpose and expectations
- Attendees and their roles
- Schedule
- Agenda components
- Materials and planning needed prior to meeting
- Logistics issues
Coordination meetings vs problem solving meetings
Coordination meetings (focus on discussing roles and goals)
Problem-Solving meetings (focus on progress)
Best time for a meeting
10am - noon
Worst time for a meeting
4pm
Many people avoid difficult conversations because …
- to avoid hurting the feelings of others
- to avoid conflict
Techniques to approach difficult conversations
Disagree diplomatically:
validating
I-statements
Listen, share commonalities, and have empathy