Chapter 7 Intimacy Flashcards
Learn the concepts and Terms
Macro-level Changes in Courtship
From community to individual base level
1900 Calling
Young women inviting men to know each other for relationship
1920s Dating
Couple’s go out away from supervision of families
Initiative shift
Men ask women to date because they have money
Courtship: rules defined by peers as…
Shape to select partners or mute
Courting
Selecting mate
Dating
Finding romance and pleasure, for relationship and enjoyment
Hookup
Casual sexual encounters
Group Dating/ hanging out
Dating in groups for ambience
Traditional gender roles expectations
For interactions and behavior
Women’s behavior
Talking with friends or extra time to prepare as in scripts
Initiation of women
Asking men out on a date
Confusion re: expectations
Young men asking out on dates
The higher the class, the higher involvement
Macro forces of upper class
Upper class Opportunities
Privileged social world meaning they can do whatever they want
Middle class Opportunities
Attend sponsored social events, churches or school play and likely to be supervised by parents. They could also move somewhere else for the sake of the children
Lower Class opportunities
Structured activities less likely due to lack of opportunities
People of color dating patter resembles…
Lower class
Interracial relationships
Organizational arrangements foster intergroup contact (military and University)
Interracial dating
More common and accepted but can be unfavored
Nonpractical considerations for mate selection
Looks
Legal regulations
Laws for who to marry or how to hold marriage
Social expectations for mate selection
Family members reactions to narrow potential pool
Rising of interracial marriages
1970s- 1%, 2007-5%
Rise of approval rates for interracial marriages
1958- 4%, 2007- 7%
Homogamy
People marry others similar to them
Hypogamy
Moving down in social class
Hypergamy
Move up in social class
Preferences of men for choosing partner (1939)
Dependable, emotional stability, pleasing disposition of women
Preferences of Women (1939)
Emotional stability, dependable, ambition for men
Men and Women mutual attraction (1996)
Mutual attraction, dependable character, emotional stability
Sociology of Sexuality
Examining how society shapes expression of sexual desire
Social constructionist approach
Diverse social arrangements produce variation in sexual desire and practice
Two factors based on sexuality
Behavior and desire
Behavior on sexuality
Sexual acts people engage in
Desire on sexuality
Motivation to engage in sexual acts
Compulsory heterosexuality
Enforcing heterosexual behavior as natural & normal
Sexual Identity
Self-classification as lesbian or gay
Sexual orientation
Sex of those to whom one attracted to
Sexual Revolution: pro Creation
Family centered reproductive system in colonial days
Sexual Revolution: 19th century
Romantic sexuality
Sexual Revolution: 1920s
Sexuality and relations as source of identity and happiness
Commercialization of sex
Commodified on television and media
AIDS first reported…
1981
Goal treatment of AIDS
Prevent and delay progression of HIV to AIDS
Years of teen sexuality (decreased)
1991- 51%, 2007-48%
Median age for 1st intercourse
16.9 for boys and 17.4 for girls
Most likely to face teenage childbearing
Latinos more likely than African Americans
Sex Education: Philosophical perspective
Normal, natural, and harmful if obsucured by ignorance
Scared and religion, sanctioned in interests of procreation
Sex Education: Approach perspective
Comprehensive and Abstinence to teach Young’s not to engage in sex
Sexual scripts
Sexual behaviors follow scripts to learn society’s expectations
His Sex
Increase in happiness- single to dating Sex is casual Stress performance Learn sexuality and masturbation Expect to be experienced
Her sex
Happiness in marriage Sex as bonding experience Stress emotional relationship Learn about love and importance of boys Expect inexperience
His love
Men in public sphere to be assigned in larger world to which love is secondary
Her love
In the private sphere, emotions work in relationships
Same-sex Orientation
Prohibited until 2003, with similar expectations
Love and Class (Middle class women)
Middle class women value intimacy, sharing, communication than Working class women, to which they have as secondary to financial problems
Racial stereotypes of Black women
Animalistic and sexually wild
Racial stereotypes of Black men
Hypersexual beings
Limited information on intimacy among racial ethnics
Stereotypes and prevailing ideology of love as a white, middle-class emotion