Chapter 7: Family Flashcards
What is a family?
A social unit in which adult spouses or partners and their children share economic, social, and emotional rights and responsibilities and a sense of commitment and identification
Although family structures vary, what similar functions do all families share?
- Earliest and most sustained source of social contact
- Offer the most intense and enduring of all interpersonal bonds
- Share memories of the past and expectations for the future
- Standard against which other relationships are judged
What is the family system?
- A group of people composed of interdependent members and subsystems
- changes in the behavior of one member of the family affect the functioning of the other members
How is family a system for socialization?
The process by which parents and others teach children the standards of: behavior, attitudes, skills and motives deemed appropriate for their society (and culture)
What are examples of the direct effects of family members?
- spouses praising or criticizing each other;
- parents hugging or spanking children;
- children clinging or talking back to parents
What are some examples of indirect effects of family members?
-One parent modifies the quantity and quality of other parent’s interaction with the child, which in turn affects the child’s behavior
Describe a well-functioning family system
- Parents have a good relationship with each other
- They are caring and supportive of their children
- The children are cooperative and responsible and care for their parents
Describe a dysfunctional family system
- Parents have an unhappy marriage
- Parents are irritable with their children
- The children exhibit antisocial behavior, which intensifies problems in the parents’ relationship
What happens when a family system becomes dysfunctional?
- When the family system becomes dysfunctional, it is difficult to change negative patterns because systems, in general, resist change
- The more adaptable the family can be, the better functioning the system will be
How does a mutually supportive couple system effect children?
When partners are mutually supportive:
- they are more involved with their children,
- their child-rearing practices are more competent, and
- their relationships with their children are more affectionate and responsive
- In turn, children whose parents are mutually supportive and affectionate are well adjusted and positive
How does a hostile/conflicting couple system affect children?
- Parents who are in conflict and lash out at each other with hostility, belligerence, and contempt inflict problems on their children
- Infants may develop insecure attachment to parents
- Older children may become aggressive or depressed
- Children may blame themselves for parental conflict
- HPA axis impairment (cortisol levels) and allostatic load
What are the direct effects of parental conflict found in research done by Cummings et al.?
- Children’s level of distress increased as the intensity and destructiveness of their parents’ fights increased
- Intense and destructive conflicts between parents were related to child emotional insecurity, depression, anxiety, behavior problems, relationship difficulties, and poor emotion regulation
- Constructive conflict - showing respect for each other’s opinions, expressing mutual warmth and support, and modeling effective conflict negotiation strategies - lessened the harmful effects on children
What are the Indirect effects of parental conflict?
- When marital difficulties affect parents’ child-rearing practices which then, in turn, affect children’s development
- Parents in conflicted marriages are likely to have angry and intrusive parenting styles
- Children, in turn, might display anger when they interact with their parents or with other children
How does the social learning theory account for the effects of parental conflict on children’s social development?
Children learn how to interact with people and resolve conflicts by watching their parents
How does the attachment theory account for the effects of parental conflict on children’s social development?
Exposure to conflict leads to emotional arousal, distress and sense of emotional insecurity, which contributes to later problems in social interactions
How do cognitive processes account for the effects of parental conflict on children’s social development?
- The impact of parental conflict depends on how children understand the conflict
- If the conflict is perceived as threatening, they may become anxious, depressed, or withdrawn
What else accounts for the effects of parental conflict on children’s social development?
Poor Parental Mental Health
Poor parental mental health accounts for conflict
Genetic Explanation
Stronger link between marital conflict and adolescent conduct problems in families in which the mothers or fathers are identical twins vs. fraternal twins
How are links between parental conflict and child adjustment are reciprocal and transactional
Marital discord predicts child behavior - negative emotional reactivity and dysregulated behaviour predicted more marital conflict
What happens when children try to intervene with parental conflict?
when children tried to intervene with parents, conflict decreased. Parents might have become aware of the impact of conflict
What can we do about the effects of parental conflict on children’s social development?
- Intervention programs to better manage parental conflict (learn conflict resolution) are associated with fewer behavior problems in children
- Teaching couples about the effects of constructive and destructive marital conflict
- Parents participating in professionally led group discussions on parenting or marital issues
What is The Impact of a New Baby on the Couple System ?
- Shift toward a more traditional division of labor
- Less marital satisfaction
- Satisfaction declines more markedly in women due to shift in roles
- Father’s satisfaction declines more gradually (may be a more gradual realization of new restrictions)
- Difficult child temperament can exacerbate marital conflict
What are some socialization goals of parents?
- behave politely
- get along with others
- value honesty and hard work
- variation across families and across cultures
when does socialization become more deliberate?
Socialization becomes more deliberate as children achieve greater mobility and begin to use language
How and what learning principes do parents use to teach their children social rules?
- Parents use learning principles to teach their children social rules
- Use reinforcement when they explain acceptable standards of behavior and then praise or punish the children according to whether they conform to or violate these rules
- Use modeling when they demonstrate behaviors they want the children to adopt
What are some differences in parental socialization approaches?
- Emotional Involvement: Warm and loving vs. cold and rejecting. Warm and loving results in better socialization.
- Level of Control: Permissive and undemanding vs. demanding and restrictive. “Happy medium” is the ideal.
What is a key aspect of strict control?
Physical Punishment (Slapping, spanking, beating)
What is physical punishment linked to and when do the most negative consequences occur?
- Linked to a variety of negative outcomes, especially increases in children’s aggression
- But, it depends on the type of physical punishment. Most negative outcomes occur when—
- Physical punishment is the predominant disciplinary tactic
- Punishment is severe, including shaking and spanking that is anger driven and out of control
- Both lead to increased antisocial behaviour and poor conscience development
Describe Energetic-friendly children
More socially competent in every way, were likely to have authoritative parents