Chapter 5 Intimate relationships and communication Flashcards
What are Carl Rogers’ three conditions for healthy relationship?
Genuineness, empathy, and unconditional positive regard
What is the principal element we bring to all relationships?
How we generally feel about ourselves
How do gender roles influence relationships?
They affect communication styles and are shaped by cultural expectations learned in childhood
How do childhood attachment styles influence adult relationships?
They shape adult loving styles and emotional ties in relationships
Name three qualities of healthy friendships.
Trust, loyalty, and mutuality
What are the three components Sternberg’s triangular theory of love?
Intimacy, passion, and commitment
What can unrealistic expectations lead to in a relationship?
Damage to intimacy and connection
What is jealousy often a sign in a relationship?
Insecurity and possessiveness
What are indicators of an unhealthy relationship ?
Criticism, contempt, defensiveness and withdrawal
What are the three essential communication skills in relationships?
Self-disclosure, listening, and feedback
What are the key steps in resolving conflicts?
Clarify the issue, understand both wants, negotiate, and solidify agreements.
What is the most important question in romantic pairing?
How much do we have in common?
What are two advantages of online dating?
Larger pool of people and freedom to set the pace of the relationship
What does sexual orientation refer to?
a consistent pattern of attraction to a particular gender or genders
What are two benefits of living together before marriage?
Greater autonomy and fewer obligations than marriage
What are benefits of marriage?
Lifelong companionship, raising children, and positive health effects
What is crucial for recovery after divorce?
Developing a post-divorce identity and focusing on self-renewal
Name four types of parenting styles
1.Authoritarian
2.Authoritative
3.Permissive
4.Uninvolved
What is the primary challenge for single mothers?
Economic difficulties
What are characteristics of a strong family?
Commitment, communication, stress management, and shared rituals
