Chapter 12: Love and Relationships - Matching Flashcards
agapic love
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
f
anxious-ambivalent attachment style
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
n
avoidant attachment style
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
j
companionate love
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
p
conditional love
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
b
consummate love
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
o
empty love
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
h
erotic love
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
a
fatuous love
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
d
infatuated love
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
L
ludic love
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
i
manic love
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
m
pragmatic love
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
q
romantic love
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
k
secure attachment style
a. Highly idealized love based on physical beauty; these type of lovers are inclined to feel “love at first sight.” But it usually does not last long
b. A love based on the partner satisfying certain needs and desires; Maslow called it “deficiency love”
c. An affectionate type of love tat develops more friendship slowly over time
d. The love that results when commitment is made on the basis of passion without the experience of intimacy; leads to whirlwind romances that usually end when the passion starts to fade.
e. Do not fear abandonment and find it easy to get close to others
f. A selfless love-style that puts the interest of the loved person ahead of the lover’s own, even if it means great sacrifice.
g. A love that does not depend on the loved one meeting certain expectations and desires; Maslow called it “being love”
h. Commitment without intimacy or passion; often the first stage in arranged marriages
i. A self-centered love in which the lover avoids commitment and treats love like a game
j. Have negative views of others and have difficulties with feelings of intimacy
K. A love characterized by passionate arousal and liking without commitment; the idealization of another.
L. A love that results when passion is felt in the absence of intimacy and commitment, where the lover is obsessed with the other person as an ideal; similar to what Lee calls erotic love
m. Love characterized by an intense emotional dependency on the attention and affection of the partner; “head over heels” love in which one is obsessed with the loved one.
N. Have negative attitudes about themselves, fear rejection, and desperately try to get close to their partners
O. A love found only in relationships that include intimacy, passion, and commitment
p. The combination of intimacy and commitment without passion; based on togetherness, trust, sharing, and affection
q. A rational or practical style of love; this type of lover consciously looks for a compatible mate (a “good match”)
e
