Chapter 10 Flashcards
1
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Dimensions of Child Rearing
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- two broad dimensions
- warm parents
- affectionate towards
their children
- hug and kiss them
- smile at them frequently
- caring and supporting
- communicate their
enjoyment in being with
their children
- less likely to use physical
discipline
- cold parents
- may not enjoy their
children
- may have few feelings of
affection for them
- likely to complain about
the children’s behavior
- children of parents who are
warm and excepting or more
likely to develop internal
standards of conduct any
moral sense of conscience
- parental warmth is also
related to a child’s social and
emotional well-being
2
Q
Restrictiveness-Permissiveness
A
- restrictive parents tend to impose rules and watch their children closely
- positive consequences when
combined with strong support and
affection
- authoritative style
- if combined with physical
punishment, interference, or
intrusiveness… the child may rebel
- can cause disobedience,
rebelliousness, and lower levels
of cognitive development - permissive parents allow their child to do what is “natural” – make noise, treat toys carelessly, and experiment with their bodies
- may allow kids to show
aggression
3
Q
Enforcing Restrictions
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- induction, power assertion, and withdrawal of love
- inductive: characteristic of disciplinary methods, such as reasoning, that attempt to foster understanding of the principles behind parental demands
- helps the child understand
moral behavior and foster
prosocial behavior such as
helping and sharing - power-assertive methods include physical punishment and denial of privileges
- associated with lower
acceptance amongst peers,
poorer grades, and more
antisocial behavior
- less likely to develop internal
standards of conduct
- linked with aggression and
delinquency - withdrawal of love – isolating/ignoring the child who is misbehaving
- loss of love is more threatening
than physical punishment
- children need parental approval
and contact
- can instill guilt and anxiety
4
Q
Parenting Styles (Authoritative and Authoritarian)
A
- authoritative: parents are restrictive and demanding but communicative and warm
- children with authoritative
parents show
- self-reliance
- independence
- high self-esteem
- high levels of anxiety and
exploratory behavior
- social competence
- highly motivated to achieve
and do well in school - authoritarian: a child-rearing style in which parents demand submission and obedience
- sons – relatively hostile and
defiant
- daughters – lack
independence and dominance
-in general – less competent
socially and academically,
anxious and irritable and
restrained in their social
interactions
- as adolescents – may be
conforming and obedient but
have low self-esteem and self-
reliance
5
Q
Parenting Styles (Permissive-Indulgent and Rejecting-Neglecting)
A
- permissive-indulgent: parents are warm and not restrictive
- easy going and
unconventional
- children are fairly high in social
competence and self-confidence - rejecting-neglecting: parents are neither restrictive and controlling nor supportive and responsive
- children are
- less competent in school
- misconduct in school
- substance abuse
6
Q
Situation and Parenting Skills
A
- more likely to use power assertive methods when dealing with aggressive behavior
- when parents believe the child understands the rules and still breaks them, power-assertive techniques are usually used rather than induction
- stress can also contribute
7
Q
Social Behaviors
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- during early childhood, children make tremendous advances in social skills and behavior
- play increasingly involves other children
- learn how to share, cooperate, comfort
others
8
Q
Sibling Influence
A
- siblings can give physical care, emotional support, offer advice, and can be a role model
- positive aspects
- cooperation
- teaching
- nurturance- negative aspects
- conflict
- control
- competition
- negative aspects
- older siblings are more caring but also more dominating
- younger siblings are likely to imitate older siblings and accept their directions
9
Q
Adjusting to the Birth of a Sibling
A
- can be a source of stress for preschoolers
- children can show positive or negative reactions
- may feel displaced and resentful
- regression: a return to behavior
characteristic of earlier stages of
development
- baby like behavior
- increased clinging, crying, and toilet
accidents
- anger and naughtiness may increase
- some children may show an increase in
independence and maturity
- feed/dress themselves
- help with the new baby
10
Q
Birth Order
A
- firstborn children
- more highly motivated to
achieve
- perform better academically
- more cooperative
- more adult-oriented
- less aggressive
- high standardized test scores
- including IQ and SAT scores
- some negatives
- greater anxiety
- less self-reliant - later-born children
- act aggressively (get attention of parents
and older siblings
- lower self-concepts
- more popular with peers
- rebellious
- more liberal
11
Q
Peer Relationships
A
- peer interactions foster social skills
- sharing
- helping
- taking turns
- dealing with conflict - groups teach children how to lead and how to follow
- physical and cognitive skills develop through peer interactions
- provide emotional support - by age 2, children begin to imitate one another’s play and engage in social games
- show preferences for particular
playmates
- early sign of friendship
12
Q
Child’s Play
A
- play is more than just fun, it is also meaningful voluntary and internally motivated
- helps children develop motor skills and
coordination
- contributes to social development - dramatic play: play in which children enact social roles
- supports the development of cognitive
qualities
- curiosity
- exploration
- symbolic thinking
- problem-solving
13
Q
Play and Cognitive Development
A
- John Piaget identified several kinds of play
- functional play: beginning in
the sensory motor stage
- the first kind of play involves
repetitive motor activities
- rolling a ball running or laughing
- symbolic play: also called pretend play,
imaginative play, or dramatic play
- emerges towards the end of the
sensorimotor stage
- increases during early childhood
- children create settings, characters,
and scripts
- constructive play: children use objects or
materials to draw something or make
something
- tower of blocks
- formal games: games with rules
- board games
- sometimes enhance or invented
by children
- games involving motor skills
- hopscotch, ball games, marbles
- games may involve social interaction
as well as physical activity and rules
14
Q
Mildred Parten – Types of Play
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- Parten observed the development of six types of play among 2- to 5-year-old nursery school children
- unoccupied play
- solitary play
- onlooker play
- parallel play
- associative play
- cooperative play - nonsocial play: solitary forms of play; solitary play and onlooker play
- occurs more often in 2- and 3-year-olds
than in older preschoolers - social play: play in which children interact with and are influenced by others; parallel play, associative play, and cooperative play
- common by age 5
- girls are more likely to engage in social
play than boys - exceptions
- nonsocial play can involve educational
activities that foster cognitive
development
- many four and five-year-olds spend a
good amount of time in parallel
constructive play
- work on puzzles and build with blocks
near other children
- seen as socially skillful and are popular
with their peers
- 2-year-olds with older siblings or with
group experience may engage in
advanced social play
15
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Lisa Serbin
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- her and her colleagues explored infants visual preferences for gender stereotype to toys
- they found that both girls and boys show significant preference for gender specific toys by 18 months of age
- girls are more likely to stray from stereotypes and play with “boys toys” like cars and trucks
16
Q
Sex Differences in Play
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- girls and boys differ not only in toy preferences but also in their choice of play environments and activities
- boys during the preschool and early elementary school years prefer vigorous physical outdoor activities
- girls during those years are more likely than boys to engage in arts and crafts and domestic play