Chapter 1 - The Ten Commandments of observing NVB Flashcards
Occurs when someone feels threatened and/or doesn’t like what they see.
Eye blocking
Haptics are also known as?
touching
Kinesics are?
physical movements
Nonverbal behaviors comprise approximately ____ % of all interpersonal communication?
60 - 65
What is the first commandment of observing non-verbal behavior?
Concerted effort is essential to detecting and interpreting nvb
What is the second commandment of observing nonverbal behavior?
observe the context in which it takes place
What is the third commandment when observing nonverbal behavior?
Learn to recognize “universal” nonverbal behaviors
What is the fourth commandment when observing nonverbal behavior?
learn to recognize and decode “idiosyncratic” nonverbal behaviors
What is the fifth commandment when observing nonverbal behaviors?
when you interact with others try to establish their baseline behaviors
What is the sixth commandment when observing nonverbal behaviors?
watch for multiple tells which occur in clusters or in succession
What is the seventh commandment when observing nonverbal behaviors?
look for changes in a person’s behavior that can signal changes in thoughts, emotions, interest or intent
What is the eighth commandment when observing nonverbal behaviors?
learn to detect false or misleading tells
What is the ninth commandment when observing nonverbal behaviors?
learn how to distinguish between comfort and discomfort
What is the tenth commandment when observing nonverbal behaviors?
be subtle when observing nonverbal behaviors