Chapter 1 & 2 Flashcards
Contact does not equal (what)?
Interpersonal Communication
We all need some form of (what)?
love and intamacy
We communicate because of what needs?
Physical needs: (touch, contact)
Identity needs: ( we come to know the self through others)
social needs: 6 social needs
What are the 6 social needs?
- Affection: to care for/ be cared for
- Control: to influence others
- Inclusion: be a part of
- Relaxation: unwind, refresh
- Escape: put off things, carefree
- Pleasure: fun, gratification
What is the transactional process of communication?
grow in relationship together
more overlap, better connection; less overlap, worse connection
Define Communication
The process of sharing meaning
Define Interpersonal Communication
quality based transactional process involving different participants who occupy different but over lapping environments and create meaningful relationships.
What are the 6 features of interpersonal communication that apply to interpersonal relationships?
- Uniqueness
- Irreplaceability
- Interdependence (integrated w/each other)
- Disclosure (personal info)
- Intrinsic (reward is comm)
- Scarce
Define Interpersonal Relationship
An association in which the people involved meet each others social needs to a greater or lesser degree
What are the communicational principles?
- It can be intentional or unintentional- impossible to not communicate
- Content and relational dimensions
What is the difference between content and relational dimensions?
Content= what is being said Relational= how
Communication is (what)?
unrepeatable and irreversible
Relational messages do what?
Make a comment about relationship
What are some communication misconceptions?
- Words don’t mean, people mean
- More communication is not always better
- successful communication doesn’t involve shared understanding
- communication will not solve all problems
- no single person or event causes another’s reaction
Define Communication Competence
Ability to accomplish one’s personal goals in a manner that maintains a relationship on terms that are acceptable to all parties…
saying and doing the right thing in the right way at the right time in the right place with the right person