Ch 9 Flashcards
open to marriage but place a lower priority on searching
for mates
Voluntary temporary singles
satisfied with choice not to marry; not seeking mates
Voluntary stable singles
would like to marry and are actively seeking a mate
Involuntary temporary singles
would like to marry or remarry but haven’t found a suitable mate and accept their single status as permanent
Involuntary stable singles
Reasons for hooking up/FWB: (3)
- Not ready for longer term relationships
- More comfortable with sex than intimacy
- Men more likely to have more pleasure during hook-up
Why is singlehood increasing? (4)
- Results from:
- Cohabiting
- Children born outside marriage
- Divorce is more acceptable
- Widows less likely to remarry
- Marriage Squeeze, eco. stability is a prerequisite for marriage
Advantages of cohabitation: (5)
- emotional security, but independent
- eco. advantages, but still independent financially
- can end relationship easily
- flexibility and adaptability of gender roles
- may be less scrutinized than marriage
Disadvantages of cohabitation: (
- _ and _ of commitment - i.e. _ and _ must be _.
- children: have _ rights than those of children of a married couple; concerns about effects of _ _
- _ more advantageous to marry
- “living apart together” means..
- ambiguity, impermanence, fidelity, mutual obligations, negotiated
- less, serial cohabitation
- legally
4.
What type of cohabitation is transforming marriage as a social institution?
substitute marriage
How can we explain why couples who cohabit are more likely to get divorced? (3)
- the selection effect
- the cohabitation effect
- the inertia effect
suggests
that people who cohabit before marriage have dif-
ferent characteristics than those who do not
the selection effect
Through cohabitation, people may come to accept the temporary nature of relationships and to view cohabitation as an alternative to marriage; Cohabitants who are independent and used to having their own way, for example, may be quick to leave a marriage
the cohabitation effect
drift into marriage, rather than making a conscious decision and commitment, because couple often makes numerous decisions that make it more difficult to break up
the inertia effect
War, technology, social movements
Eco factors
Change in gender roles
Macro reasons why singles are increasing