Ch 11: Conflict Flashcards
Interpersonal Conflict
When a person’s motives, goals, beliefs, or opinions differ from another person’s
Conflict
Occurs when one’s wishes/actions obstruct those of another person’s
Dialectics
Opposing motivations in a relationship
Peterson’s (2002) 4 Categories of Conflict
- Criticism
- Illegitimate demands
- Rebuffs
- Cumulative annoyances
Criticism
Verbal/nonverbal acts that show unjust dissatisfaction with another person
Illegitimate Demands
Unjust requests that exceed the normal expectations of one’s partner
Rebuff
When one person rejects their partner in an abrupt way
Cumulative Annoyances
Trivial events that become annoying over time
Actor-Observer Effect
Partners will have external explanations for their actions and internal ones for other people
Self-Serving Bias
People judge their own actions more favourably than they do others
Attributional Conflict
Fighting over who’s right and who’s wrong
Unintentional Conflict
Associated with external causes
Intentional Conflict
Associated with internal causes
We’re more likely to voice our opinions on thing our partners ____
Can change (rather than things they can’t change)
Peterson’s General Model of Conflict
- Avoidance: both partner ignore the issue
- Negotiation: problem-solving to resolve conflict
- Escalation: conflict heats up and more issues are thrown into the mix
Negative Affect Reciprocity
Partners trade escalating provocations back and forth
Demand/withdrawal patterns
One partner complains, criticizes, and pressures for change, while the other avoids the situation