Cause and Effect Flashcards
Your writing on the wall bothers me
How does my writing on the wall bother you?” (or) “…make you feel bothered?
Cause and effect involves the belief that some action on the part of one person can cause another person to act in a particular way or to experience some emotion or inner state
The challenge is, HOW DOES X CAUSE Y?
You frustrate me
How do I frustrate you? How is it possible for me to frustrate you?” (or) “…make you feel annoyed?
Cause and effect involves the belief that some action on the part of one person can cause another person to act in a particular way or to experience some emotion or inner state
The challenge is, HOW DOES X CAUSE Y?
I’m sad because you’re late
How does my being late make you feel sad?
Cause and effect involves the belief that some action on the part of one person can cause another person to act in a particular way or to experience some emotion or inner state
The challenge is, HOW DOES X CAUSE Y?
He made me angry
How did he make you angry?
Show me what he did that made you angry?
Has he ever done that, but you didn’t get
angry?
What are the essential cues that trigger this anchored response”, so you know what the anchors are, and how they work
