C H A P T E R 7 Flashcards
Helping relationship definition
one person sets aside his or her needs to focus on the needs of another person
do not have to give advice or give opinions
bidirectional relationship
Understand and acknowledge that the participant and helper are coming from different experiences
being an advocate for the client
helping relationship characteristics
goal-oriented, time-bound, carry authority, focus on the client
stages of the helping relationship
preparation
client arrival
exploring the problem more
client and helper set goals and create intervention strategies
posiitive termination of the helping process of the client
preparation
make a physical setting
- no barriers between the client and the helper, ensure there is confidentiality, look at the room and prepare it to cultivate the relationship between client and helper
be aware on how you take notes
- notes during the meeting or not? is the laptop helping or is it hurting the relationship? when and how we complete forms? how we record information from the client? do we seem respectful or not?
client arrival
repsonsibility of the helper to break the ice
the client is here because there is a topic they want to talk about
- helpful for the helper to lead into that conversation
- client identifies what the problem is but the helper asks guiding questions to help them get there
- must be most aware of aspects of cultures in this step
provide information on what they need to know to build trust
- what is happening today? credibility? base level foundational information about the process
exploring the problem more
Client is helping us where we go in the identification process
Client and the helper setting goals and creating intervention strategies
Set goals and determine and how these goals will be reached
- Making goals achievable and breaking down the main goal
- Many strategies in the intervention framework
Very client specific and whole client care
Positive termination of the helping process of the client
Acknowledging the services were given and then goals can be reached
- The client must not feel dropped
- The client must feel they can be successful without our help
Termination is not always on the clients terms unfortunately
- Insurance
- Money
- Security
- Helper knowledge
good communication is essential
nonverbal communication
> 65% of meaning
can be ambiguous
can vary across cultures
verbal communication
spoken word
must be aware of the cultural context behind spoken word
two types:
cognitive (thought oriented)
- who what when where why
affective (feeling oriented)
- expressed directly or indirectly
Listening
responsive or active listening
attending behavior
SOLAR Listening
squarely
open posture
leaning in
eye contact and maintaining it
trying to be relaxed and not coming in with anxiety
- put ur needs aside for the client
Responding
Must be purposeful
Paraphrase when message is not clear
Must ask questions that are appropriate
Helpers use different tools to help ask questions properly
- Practicing responsible question asking and how to ask questions kindly
- When is the best time to ask certain questions
- And why are you asking that question
- Ask to benefit but be careful
Open and Close questions
- Giving the client different ways to answer so they are comfortable
informal interpreters
often more utilized
parents, children, staff etc.
not always the most reliable
- they do not have the same knowledge or understand the nuances
formal interpreters
hit or miss because they are not always available