Bridling Tongue Flashcards
we will be judged for everything we say
Matthew 12:36-37
[36]But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.
[37]For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned.
Everyman should be swift to hear
James 1:19
[19]Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:
a wise man will hold his tongue while being reproved
Ecclesiasticus 20:1
[1]There is a reproof that is not comely: again, some man holdeth his tongue, and he is wise.
people that talk to much will be hated
Ecclesiasticus 20:8
[8]He that useth many words shall be abhorred; and he that taketh to himself authority therein shall be hated.
a wise man knows when not to talk
Ecclesiasticus 20:5-7
[5]There is one that keepeth silence, and is found wise: and another by much babbling becometh hateful.
[6]Some man holdeth his tongue, because he hath not to answer: and some keepeth silence, knowing his time.
[7]A wise man will hold his tongue till he see opportunity: but a babbler and a fool will regard no time.
dont rehearse what people tell you or speak about thers lives
Ecclesiasticus 19:6-10
[6]He that can rule his tongue shall live without strife; and he that hateth babbling shall have less evil.
[7]Rehearse not unto another that which is told unto thee, and thou shalt fare never the worse.
[8]Whether it be to friend or foe, talk not of other men’s lives; and if thou canst without offence, reveal them not.
[9]For he heard and observed thee, and when time cometh he will hate thee.
[10]If thou hast heard a word, let it die with thee; and be bold, it will not burst thee.
do all things with out murmuring
Philippians 2:14
[14]Do all things without murmurings and disputings:
murmur and complainers have mens persons in admiration
Jude 1:16
[16]These are murmurers, complainers, walking after their own lusts; and their mouth speaketh great swelling words, having men’s persons in admiration because of advantage.
the ear of jealousy hears all things .. and murmering is not hide..
Wisdom of Solomon 1:10-12
[10]For the ear of jealousy heareth all things: and the noise of murmurings is not hid.
[11]Therefore beware of murmuring, which is unprofitable; and refrain your tongue from backbiting: for there is no word so secret, that shall go for nought: and the mouth that belieth slayeth the soul.
[12]Seek not death in the error of your life: and pull not upon yourselves destruction with the works of your hands.
a angry countence drives a back bitng tongue
Proverbs 25:23
[23]The north wind driveth away rain: so doth an angry countenance a backbiting tongue.
what you say can determine rather you live or die
Proverbs 18:21
[21]Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.
a patient man will hide his words to the right moment
Ecclesiasticus 1:23-24
[23]A patient man will tear for a time, and afterward joy shall spring up unto him.
[24]He will hide his words for a time, and the lips of many shall declare his wisdom.
what you say can hurt and or kill people
Ecclesiasticus 28:14-18
[14]A backbiting tongue hath disquieted many, and driven them from nation to nation: strong cities hath it pulled down, and overthrown the houses of great men.
[15]A backbiting tongue hath cast out virtuous women, and deprived them of their labours.
[16]Whoso hearkeneth unto it shall never find rest, and never dwell quietly.
[17]The stroke of the whip maketh marks in the flesh: but the stroke of the tongue breaketh the bones.
[18]Many have fallen by the edge of the sword: but not so many as have fallen by the tongue.
speak little with much understanding (use few words around elders)
Ecclesiasticus 32:7-9
[7]Speak, young man, if there be need of thee: and yet scarcely when thou art twice asked.
[8]Let thy speech be short, comprehending much in few words; be as one that knoweth and yet holdeth his tongue.
[9]If thou be among great men, make not thyself equal with them; and when ancient men are in place, use not many words.
use not many words amonst elders
Ecclesiasticus 7:14
[14]Use not many words in a multitude of elders, and make not much babbling when thou prayest.