BB Questions

Question 1

If you had to go on an epic adventure, what 2 LOTR characters would you take with you?

Answer 1

The only correct answer is Gandalf and Legolas. 😉

Sincerely,
Someone who never read the books

Question 2

What is something that you personally have struggled with in past romantic relationships?

Answer 2

How have you tried to improve?

Question 3

What is your top love language?
Receiving gifts
Words of affirmation
Quality time
Acts of service
Physical touch

Answer 3

What is the most meaningful way that can be expressed to you? Be specific.

(Ex. A long hug, playing your favorite video game together, etc)

Question 4

Do you feel like you have a personal relationship with God?

Answer 4

Has anything pushed you away from God in the past? If yes, what was it?

Question 5

Do you tend to vote Democrat, Republican, independent, or not at all?

Answer 5

What is one thing that you think each side of the aisle got right, and one thing they got wrong?

Question 6

Where do you want to “grow your roots”? In Michigan or somewhere else?

Answer 6

Do you think you could maintain a long-distance relationship?

Question 7

Do you hold any traditional relationship views or preferences?

Ex. Would like wife to stay home with infants, would like husband to be the breadwinner, etc.

Answer 7

Do you hold any untraditional relationship views or preferences?

Ex. Split chores evenly, stay-at-home dad, separate finances, etc.

Question 8

If you were at Hogwarts, what would be your house, pet, and specialization?

Answer 8

Optional: Go to the Wizarding World website and take the Patronus quiz. 🧙🏻‍♂️

Question 9

Which 3-5 people in your life are you closest to?

Answer 9

Do you have any trouble making or keeping friends?

Question 10

Share a story of how someone wronged or hurt you. What did you learn from that experience?

Answer 10

Do you have a difficult time forgiving other people, for either minor or major issues?

Question 11

How do you handle relationship conflicts/arguments?

Ex. Get mad, yell, cry, walk away, get passive aggressive, write out your thoughts…

Answer 11

Do you have a hard time admitting when you were wrong or asking for forgiveness?

Question 12

What’s one game that you think everyone should try playing at least once?

Any type of game. Video, board, card…

Answer 12

What was the worst game you’ve ever played?

Question 13

Hot take! What’s one unpopular opinion that you hold?

Answer 13

What one world issue are you the most passionate about?

Question 14

What are 5 traits that you look for in a partner?

Answer 14

What are 5 of your relationship dealbreakers?

Aside from the obvious (lying, cheating, abusive, mean, etc).

Question 15

What is one thing you regret not doing? (Looking into the past.)

Answer 15

What is one thing you will regret not doing during your life? (Looking into the future.)

Question 16

Would you rather have a partner who is assertive and will make most of the decisions, or a partner who will let you take the lead and support your decisions?

Answer 16

What is one area of life where you’d like to be the main decision maker or responsible party?

Ex. Finances, household chores, scheduling, interior design, cooking, etc

Question 17

Where do you see yourself in 10 years? Describe your ideal family, home, career, personal development, or whatever else comes to mind.

Answer 17

Which of those elements would you be unwilling and willing to compromise on?

Question 18

What’s one thing you think the other person should know about how you’re wired?

Your behavior, personality, mental health issues, stress tolerance, etc

Answer 18

What’s one thing you think the other person should know about your past that has affected you today?

Ex. Childhood bullying affecting self esteem, a bad relationship affecting trust, etc

Question 19

Name one thing that you really appreciate about each other.

Answer 19

What’s one more thing you want to know about each other? (This should be a deeper question.)

Question 20

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