Barriers For Effective Communication Flashcards
What are barriers for effective communication¿
Listening to react rather than to understand.
Attractive communicator.
Unattractive communicator.
Being right rather than trying to understand.
Predefined thoughts and dogmas.
Trying to remember info instead of applying memory.
Sympathising.
Creating expectations that will disappoint.
Lack of self discipline, vulnerable to distractions.
Jumping to conclusions, assumptions.
What can be learned when observing non-verbal communication¿
Clues about intentions, emotions and motivations.
What are the 4 parts of non-verbal communication ¿
Body posture, gesticulation, space and facial expressions and eye movements.
Body posture
Open and closed. Crossed arms, legs indicate mistrust or anxiety.
Gesticulation
Emphasise something important. Excessive hand gestures can indicate stress, certain mental health state or sociocultural background.
Space
The further the patient is from you the more uncomfortable he is.
Facial expressions and eye movements
Excessive blinking: I feel uncomfortable with what I’m saying.
Half smile: you are believing my lie.
Wide pupils: you are saying something interesting.
Looking towards door/window: feel uncomfortable, want to leave.
Looking up: constructing a lie, not sure if you will understand.
Eyes moving all the time: anxiety, I need to be somewhere else.
Define validation theory
Acknowledging ideas in an empathetic way, applying polarisation and re-formulation, to facilitate the organisation of thoughts/ideas to reduce stress. Naomi Feil.
What are the main aspects of validation concept¿
Validate patient’s feelings and opinions, even if you don’t agree.
Rephrase - polarise - offer alternatives.
What do many caregivers experience¿
Guilt: Helplessness, I’m not doing enough.
Difficulty understanding condition: educate caregivers.
Finding a balance: between patronising the patient and supporting rehabilitation.
Acceptance: especially with patents with personality disorders.
Shame: when patients do something embarrassing out of character.
Caregiver communication
Reassure: most of the time they are doing a good job.
Acceptance: many behavioural difficulties are caused by the disease.
Caregiving is always about compassion. What they are doing means a lot less than why they are doing it.
Describe self-fulfilling prophecies (Pygmalion effect)
How labels reinforce themselves over time. We start taking on labels others give us.
originally false social belief leads people to act in ways that objectively confirm that belief.
Our actions towards others -> others beliefs -> others actions towards us -> our beliefs about ourselves ->
Define cognitive flexibility
Individual’s ability to easily adapt to a changing environment, based on one’s mental malleability.
Main aspects of cognitive flexibility
Able to understand a point of view without agreeing with it.
Confidence - awareness - adaptability.
Able to see things from different perspectives.
Benefits of cognitive flexibility
Facilitates learning of relevant, but complicated matters.
Potentialise the use of acquired knowledge in real-life situations.
Modify unhelpful or unhealthy thought patterns.
Development of alternative learning environments and methods to promote “flexible knowledge application”.
Tips for a more flexible mind.
Ask questions, trying to investigate each learned topic from different perspectives.
Research topics that interest you and look for connection to different topics.
Establish support systems with similar interests.
Avoid arguments - prefer discussion. Listen to understand not to react.
Experiment, force yourself into new environments and situations.
Let go of attachments.
Ellis’ core unhelpful beliefs.
- I need everyone’s approval.
- I must avoid being disliked from any source.
- My value depends on being successful.
- Making mistakes makes me a bad person.
- People should strive to make me happy.
- People who don’t make me happy deserved punishment.
- Things should work out the way I expect them to.
- My emotions are an illness, I can’t control them. (Responsibility).
- I can feel happy without contributing something back (life is about me).
- Everyone needs to rely on someone stronger.
- Events in my past are the root of my behaviour today (Responsibility).
- The past always repeats itself in outcomes.
- I shouldn’t have to feel sad, pain or discomfort.
- Someone should take responsibility for me.
What is the difference between cognitive bias and distortion¿
Cognitive distortions are the thoughts that lead to misrepresentation of the reality. Leads the understanding to unhealthy thinking patterns. Cognitive bias is when personal, emotional, social, moral and other variables interfere with our judgment. Info is mistakenly processed, leading to false interpretations and unhelpful assumptions.
Sensory anchoring bias (memory resilience)
Tendency to rely on the first piece of information.
Availability heuristic
Estimating the value of one’s personal experience above evidence.
Bias
Bandwagon effect
Pack behavior, that protects against isolation.
Personal blind spots
It is easier to identify imperfections on others.
Bias
Confirmation
To favor ideas that support one’s argument, discarding other points of view.
Bias
Fact and bias info
Pursue of information that has no effect on personal growth.
Bias
Placebo effect
Believing that something will happen, leads to it happening.
Bias
Outcome bias
Judging outcomes of actions rather than considering the intentions.
Bias