Audiologic Rehabilitation: Counseling Issues Flashcards
Dealing with Grief and Sorrow: definition
- Grief = “Intense mental anguish; deep remorse, acute sorrow or the like”
- Sorrow = “Mental anguish or suffering because of injury or loss; sadness”
Therefore, Grief/Sorrow is an emotional experience triggered or caused by some LOSS. It is a natural and predictable reaction to loss (being emotionally UPSET is natural; and beginning of the healing process)
Loss of:
- A significant other or family member
- External objects (losing something that means a lot to you)
- Some aspect of self or illness
grieving process
Grief/Sorrow is a complex progression involving many emotions in an attempt to adjust and cope with the loss
Grieving Process treatment: • One widely used is the model described by…
Kubler-Ross
•Based on her observations of patients with terminal diseases
Points to Remember- grieving process
1) Grief is not a pathology (Not bad to feel bad)
2) Progression through the stages is normal
3) Order and actual progress will vary by individual
Our pts are emotionally upset, not emotionally disturbed
Stages of Kubler-Ross Model
- Denial: seek 2nd opinion, deny the facts, not believe diagnosis-test me again
- Anger : at self, others, their condition
- Bargaining : Let’s make a deal, make promises with God in exchange for removal of cause of grief
- Depression/Guilt : I am at fault, deeper level of grief, “Why go on?”
- Acceptance: accept reality, not really “ok” with it but learn to live with it
- Add one more for AR: Positive Action
Other Emotions/Feelings
- Fear
- Doubt
- Courage
- Relief
- Devastation
- Disappointment
- Gratitude
What do we do?
- It is our job to move these individuals toward positive action
- Therefore, don’t interrupt the grieving process but facilitate movement through the process
How do we do this?
- Counseling! – “counseling may be the most important clinical service that hearing professionals provide” (Garstecki & Erber, 1997)
- It’s better to meet a clinician who is better at counseling than someone who can fit a ‘perfect’ hearing aid
Allow the patient or the parents to feel grief
- Embracing painful feelings is the first step to healing
- Don’t try to take the pain away or distract them (don’t say: it could be worse etc)
- Don’t overwhelm them with information initially
- Especially true of parents when first learning of child’s diagnosis
- Listen and validate feelings
The Professional’s Role
A) First, our role as diagnostician is to convey information
B) Then, we need to switch our role to facilitator and place the responsibility upon the parents.
•There is no meaningful change without ownership of the problem by the patient
Counseling
- Counseling = Educating & Guiding through emotional process
- Boost their self-esteem and empower them as they take ownership
Support Groups can be extremely helpful
- Why? Not alone, feel validated, be social in a safe environment, learn new ideas and pass along ideas to others, see how other people can be happy and successful
- Time and money: big issue of why rehabilitation doesn’t happen often
Types of Counseling
1) Informational Counseling : We do this well
2) Personal Adjustment Counseling: help them adjust to their emotions
- Not so well
Informational Counseling
A) The Case History
B) The Results Conference
1) First, your presence-Be professional but not too professional
2) How to start-Go direct (Get to the point), or indirect (Ask them what they think)
3) Be in control, don’t feel threatened by hostility, be patient, don’t rush
• control: topic, your emotions
• separate hostility from yourself as a person: don’t be hurt by it
• tell me what experiences you have and why you’re angry
• show them you’re listening and interested/ listen and ask
4) Determine the right amount of information
• Are they feeling overwhelmed?
• What is the most important thing to go over first? Let’s make it easy for you
C) Information Transfer (Varies based on severity, cause, time of onset)
• Hearing loss/audiogram
• Anatomy/Physiology/Disease Process: speak at their level– simplify
• Implications of the loss, re: speech/language, education, mode of communication
• Amplification: enough information but do not overwhelm