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What is communication?
- the act or process of giving or exchanging of information, signals, or messages
- by talk, gestures or writing
- in the act of communication, we make opinions, feelings and information known or understood by others through speech, writing or bodily movement
How can we improve our communication?
- Realizing that we have filters and that we are not always receiving the messages that are sent
- focussing on active listening instead of being busy in sending out our message
Why do we communicate?
- to initiate some action
- to impart information
- to establish, acknowledge or maintain link or relations with other people
What is the purpose of small talk?
- to build working relationships quickly
- to make people feel comfortable
- to connect people
- to get/give information
When small talk?
- a new situation
- when it is someone you dont know
- if you want to network
Networking tips
- focus on giving vs getting
- be present
- listen more than you talk
- think long term vs short term
- be honest
Poor communication
- almost all problems in the field of communications are misunderstandings
- ego in the communication
- lack of refelection
Active listening is key to learning effective communication
Solution - poor communication
- aim to understand the other first
- diagnose before prescribing
the essence of communication is to work within the frame of reference of the other person
Presentation - good points
- grabs the audiences attention is engaging
- high upper level movement
- asking the audience question
- voice modulation
- use of enthusiastic emotions
- full use of the stage
- well prepared/ rehearsed
Presentation - bad points
- hands in pocket
- hands behind body
- crossed arms
- no content
Strategies to be a better speaker
- plan appropriately
- practice
- engage with your audience
- pay attention to body language
- think and speak positively
- cope with your nerves
- watch recordings of your or of other speakers
Presentation - Structure
- a powerful way to remember your presentation
- ensures that your audience retains what you say
- choose a meaningful structure
How to create safety and credibility?
- dont threaten your listeners
- show respect for your listeners
- mention your contacts
Speakers who generate more credibility generally:
- Articulate clearly
- Seem confident and polite
Speakers who generate less credibility generally:
- are hesitant
- impolite
- seen as lacking confidence
What helps effective Meetings?
- Meetings should be short - if longer inculde breaks
- punctuality
- proper tools
- good atmosphere
- good communication/ language skills