8 Toxic Patterns Flashcards
1
Q
Dismissive
A
Forced Xio to attend conformity
2
Q
Controlling
A
Writing=Sin
No self expression p.304
3
Q
Enmeshed
A
Mom shows love to Xio p.341
4
Q
Combative
A
Mom abuses her p.198
5
Q
Unreliable
A
Mother is intolerably present
Have a persona
Don’t know what to expect
Ex:Angry about kissing Aman
6
Q
Self Loving
A
Extension of them selfs and nothing else
Empathy
Meaningly,shallow, and hallow
Becomes a nun
7
Q
Role Reversed
A
Culture isn’t normal
Robbed off personality
Mothering your mother and siblings
Protects twin
House chores
8
Q
Self involved
A
no one recognizes pain because who parents are.
Becoming a nun
Thinking she is a privileged child
