3: Social and psychological development Flashcards
Adolescent egocentrism
Adolescent egocentrism is the heightened self-consciousness of adolescents, which is reflected in their belief that others are as interested in them as they are in themselves, and in their sense of personal uniqueness and invulnerability. David Elkind (1976) argues that adolescent egocentrism can be dissected into two types of social thinking—imaginary audience and personal fable.
Imaginary audience
The imaginary audience refers to the aspect of adolescent egocentrism that involves attention-getting behavior—the attempt to be noticed, visible, and “onstage.” An adolescent boy might think that others are as aware of a few hairs that are out of place as he is. An adolescent girl walks into her classroom and thinks that all eyes are riveted on her complexion. Adolescents especially sense that they are onstage in early adolescence, believing they are the main actors and all others are the audience.
Personal fable
According to Elkind, the personal fable is the part of adolescent egocentrism that involves an adolescent’s sense of personal uniqueness and invulnerability. Adolescents’ sense of personal uniqueness makes them feel that no one can understand how they really feel. For example, an adolescent girl thinks that her mother cannot possibly sense the hurt she feels because her boyfriend has broken up with her. As part of their eff ort to retain a sense of personal uniqueness, adolescents might craft stories about themselves that are fi lled with fantasy, immersing themselves in a world that is far removed from reality. Personal fables frequently show up in adolescent diaries.
Self-understanding
Self-understanding is the individual’s cognitive representation of the self—the substance and content of self-conceptions. For example, a 12-yearold boy understands that he is a student, a football player, a family member, and a video game lover. An adolescent’s self-understanding is based, in part, on the various roles and membership categories that defi ne who adolescents are (Harter, 2006). Although self-understanding provides the rational underpinnings, it is not the whole of personal identity.
Abstraction and idealism
Remember from our discussion of Piaget’s theory of cognitive development in Chapters 1 and 3 that many adolescents begin to think in more abstract and idealistic ways. When asked to describe themselves, adolescents are more likely than children to use abstract and idealistic terms. Consider 14-year-old Laurie’s abstract description of herself: “I am a human being. I am indecisive. I don’t know who I am.” Also consider her idealistic description of herself: “I am a naturally sensitive person who really cares about people’s feelings. I think I’m pretty good-looking.” Not all adolescents describe themselves in idealistic ways, but most adolescents distinguish between the real self and the ideal self.
Differentiation
Over time, an adolescent’s self-understanding becomes increasingly differentiated (Harter, 2006, 2012). Adolescents are more likely than children to note contextual or situational variations when describing themselves (Harter, Waters, & Whitesell, 1996). For example, a 15-year-old girl might describe herself by using one set of characteristics in connection with her family and another set of characteristics in connection with her peers and friends. In sum, adolescents are more likely than children to understand that they possess several diff erent selves, each one to some degree refl ecting a specifi c role or context.
Perspective taking
Perspective taking is the ability to assume another person’s perspective and understand his or her thoughts and feelings.
Self-esteem
Self-esteem, also referred to as self-worth or self-image, is the global evaluative dimension of the self. For example, an adolescent or emerging adult might perceive that she is not merely a person but a good person. Of course, not all adolescents and emerging adults have an overall positive image of themselves. An adolescent with low self-esteem may describe himself as a bad person.
Self-concept
self-concept refers to domain-specifi c evaluations of the self. Adolescents and emerging adults make self-evaluations in many domains—academic, athletic, physical appearance, and so on. For example, an adolescent may have a negative academic self-concept because he is getting poor grades but have a positive athletic self-concept because he is a star swimmer. In sum, self-esteem refers to global self-evaluations, self-concept to domain-specifi c evaluations.
Narcissism
Narcissism refers to a self-centered and self-concerned approach toward others. Typically, narcissists are unaware of their actual self and how others perceive them. Th is lack of awareness contributes to their adjustment problems. Narcissists are excessively self-centered and self-congratulatory, viewing their own needs and desires as paramount. As a result, narcissists rarely show any empathy toward others. In fact, narcissists oft en devalue people around them to protect their own precarious self-esteem, yet they oft en respond with rage and shame when others do not admire them or treat them in accordance with their grandiose fantasies about themselves. Narcissists are at their most grandiose when their self-esteem is threatened. Narcissists may fl y into a frenzy if they have given an unsatisfactory performance.
Identity
Identity is who a person believes she or he is, representing a synthesis and integration of self-understanding.
The sexual culture
Increased permissiveness in adolescent sexuality is linked to increased permissiveness in the larger culture. Adolescent initiation of sexual intercourse is related to exposure to explicit sex on TV.
Developing a sexual identity
Developing a sexual identity is multifaceted. An adolescent’s sexual identity involves an indication of sexual orientation, interests, and styles of behavior.
Heterosexual attitudes and behavior
The progression of sexual behaviors is typically kissing, petting, sexual intercourse, and oral sex. The number of adolescents who reported having had sexual intercourse increased significantly in the twentieth century. The proportion of females engaging in intercourse increased more rapidly than that of males. National data indicate that slightly more than half of all adolescents today have had sexual intercourse by age 17, although the percentage varies by sex, ethnicity, and context. A common adolescent sexual script involves the male making sexual advances, and it is left up to the female to set limits on the male’s sexual overtures. Adolescent females’ sexual scripts link sex with love more than adolescent males’ sexual scripts do. Risk factors for sexual problems include early sexual activity, having a number of sexual partners, not using contraception, engaging in other at-risk behaviors such as drinking and delinquency, living in a low-SES neighborhood, and ethnicity, as well as cognitive factors such as attentional problems and low self-regulation. Heterosexual behavior patterns change in emerging adulthood.
Sexual minority attitudes and behavior
An individual’s sexual attraction—whether heterosexual or sexual minority—is likely caused by a mix of genetic, hormonal, cognitive, and environmental factors. Developmental pathways for sexual minority youth are often diverse, may involve bisexual attractions, and do not always involve falling in love with a same-sex individual. Recent research has focused on adolescents’ disclosure of same-sex attractions and the struggle they often go through in doing this. The peer relations of sexual minority youth differ from those of heterosexual youth. Sexual minority youth are more likely to engage in substance abuse, show sexual risk-taking behavior, and be the target of violence in a number of contexts. Discrimination and bias produce considerable stress for adolescents with a same-sex attraction. The stigma, discrimination, and rejection experienced by sexual minority youth are thought to explain why they may develop problems. Despite such negative experiences, many sexual minority youth successfully cope with the challenges they face and have health and well-being outcomes that are similar to those of their heterosexual counterparts.