1) The Polarity Strategy: Declare War On Your Enemies Flashcards
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The Polarity Strategy: Declare War On Your Enemies
Learn to smoke out your…
enemies, to spot them by the signs and patterns that reveal hostility. Then, once you have them in your sights, inwardly declare war.
Your enemies can…
fill you with purpose and direction.
Think of yourself as…
always about to go into battle.
Everything depends on…
your frame of mind. A shift in perspective can transform you from a passive mercenary into a motivated and creative fighter.
A dominating presence…
has more pull than likability.
Do not crowd in the center…
there is no room for a fight in a crowd. Polarize people, drive some of them away, and create a space for battle.
Do not be lured…
by the need to be liked: better to be respected, even feared. Victory will bring you a more lasting popularity.
Although the world is more competitive than ever…
outward aggression is discouraged, and so people have learned to go underground, to attack craftily and unpredictably.
Your first task as a strategist…
is to widen your concept of the enemy, to include in that group those who are working against you, even in subtle ways.
Register any change…
in a person’s emotional temperature: unusual chumminess, a new desire to exchange confidences, excessive praise of you to third parties.
The desire for an alliance….
may make more sense for the other person than for you.
David’s Test of Kind Saul:
David suspected that King Saul secretly wanted him dead. How could David find out? He confided his suspis
Beat the grass…
to startle the snakes.
Often the best way to get people to reveal themselves…
is to provoke tension and argument.